No matter how or what specific holiday you celebrate, gift-giving is a good idea any time of year. Kayla Lords gives her pick of adult toys that will really heat things up.
 

Adult toys 1: heavy duty massager

When I say “heavy duty” I mean something like the Original Magic Wand (aka the Hitachi). There are others out there - the Doxy Massager comes to mind.

The Magic Wand is now available in a rechargeable option so you’re not stuck plugged into the wall (not that I mind that part). What do you get with this kinky gift? Try forced orgasms, cock-torture, and pleasurable-pain for those who love it. Even better, you can try different attachments to go with it.
 

Adult toys 3: cuffs and collar

Getting the cuffs or collars offered on adult toys websites that cater to everyone is good for learning, but at a certain point, you’re going to want something that’s meant to stand up to rougher play. There are plenty of options out there. It’s best to buy from a store that caters to the kinky. Kink Craft has some great DIY options or you can buy colourful sets from them. The cuffs and collar I use in scenes are from Bear Things.
 

Adult toys 2: good lube

Okay, so maybe this is a stocking stuffer, but good lube is often forgotten in all our kinky fun. Whether you want to try anal, give fisting a try, or just need to make that pussy a little wetter, the thing that separates a good time from an Oh-my-God-get-that-thing-away-from-me moment is your lube.

There are a ton of lubes on the market, and it’s a matter of trying different kinds until you find the one you like. I like The Butters by LTASEX - it’s creamy and can be used in other kinky fun like bootblacking and leather care.
 

Adult toys 4: good rope

If you’ve been talking about taking your bondage from scarves or handcuffs and bondage tape play to an actual rope, this is a great time to get your hands on the real thing.

Of course, before you tie up your partner, learn as much as you can. Two Knotty Boys is a great place to start. And for rope, I like My Nawashi, a Shibari rope store on Etsy.
 

Adult toys 5: cock rings

Assuming at least one of your partners has a cock, a cock ring isn’t a bad idea when it comes to adult toys. And no, this isn’t just for submissive men.

My Daddy Dom loves to wear one when we fuck. Depending on the type you choose, you can each feel sensations or not. We like the Tyler by Svakom because he gets feel-good vibes, and so do I.
 

There are so many adult toys to try with your kinky lover. This just scratches the surface. If it looks fun to you, and you think your partner will get off on it, buy it, wrap it up in a pretty bow, and then watch the look on their face when they open it up this holiday season.

If you're a bit low on funds try some DIY BDSM.


Kayla Lords is a freelance writer, sex blogger, and a masochistic babygirl living the 24/7 D/s life. Follow her on her website or on Twitter @Kaylalords.
 

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