Have you ever walked into a BDSM shop and lost it over the toy prices? I surely have! There’s nothing like finding an amazing toy and realizing it’s insanely expensive and therefore not an option. Thankfully, I’m all about DIY projects! So it was a natural step to making BDSM DIY toys.

BDSM DIY Toys!


I hadn’t thought about making my own toys until I went to a play party where a pet was ordered to explain how he’s in charge of making all their toys. Which meant he made all the toys that got used on him! His owner pulled out their latest paddle (plastic with holes) and let me try it out. Not only was I impressed, but I also felt sorry for the poor puppy.  That toy stung!

Take a trip to your local hardware store to get started on your own BDSM DIY toys!


BDSM DIY toysAfter that, my husband and I went to the local hardware store and looked around. We found dowels that worked just as well as the $50 canes we’d found earlier in the day. We also went to the craft store and found decorative paddles used for mini boat oars and they worked well for spanking. So we came home with several wood items, some sandpaper and stain and we got to work.

Do-it-yourself projects aren’t just fun, they can also make for a great buildup. The pet I’d spoken to had shared how making his toy was part of his rules as a submissive pet. He’d said sometimes his assignments took weeks to complete. With each new aspect of the toy in making, he got to drop and squirm and be turned on. Anticipation means great buildup, and making each of the BDSM DIY toys and knowing it’s going to be used on your ass is hot! I now know because I’ve been instructed to do this very thing myself now.

Working together on something you'll both enjoy later is the best form of foreplay!


Whether my task is to sand down a paddle, burn designs into it, then stain it, or tie Paracord together for my very own flogger. Designing BDSM DIY toys makes me happy and saves money. This isn’t my only rule as a sub. Others include wearing a skirt or dress and no underwear when in my Dom’s presence, standing tall with my shoulders back, speaking up when I’m having an issue, and more. But making BDSM DIY toys is certainly one of my favorites no matter whom that instruction comes from. And it’s a fantastic way for me to think about my likes and dislikes with toys. As well as design toys that work for my husband or my Dom. Since they are vastly different in size, I have to take that into consideration when making toys.

As a Domme, instructing my submissive to make her own device of torture is just as exciting for me. I love messing with my sub’s head! What Dominant doesn’t?

No matter your reasoning, making your own toys is far more affordable than buying them. There are even workshops on building toys for BDSM play, both online and at local clubs. And making BDSM DIY toys as part of an assignment as a sub, even better! So enjoy your creations, and keep your eyes open. There are items to be used as toys lurking in every hardware, craft, and even cooking store!

Sienna Saint-Cyr writes erotica and blogs about kink, poly, body image, and most things relating. Follow her at siennasaintcyr.wordpress.com or on Twitter @siennasaintcyr.

Image by denisbin via Flickr with CC BY 2.0 license

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