When you first enter a bondage dungeon, you will probably be given a tour by a member of staff, but that might not always answer all your questions and maybe you’re a little shy about asking. Never fear! Victoria Blisse is here to tell you everything you’d like to know about what you’ll find in your local bondage dungeon and how to use it.   
 

Dungeon Bondage for Beginners - Spanking Bench.


This article focuses on the spanking bench, a stalwart piece of dungeon furniture, read on to find out more about them and how to use them.

 

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Is it one of the new Transformers or is it a spanking bench?!

 

What does a spanking (or caning) bench look like?

 

There are a few different styles of caning bench. Most that I have seen have a table-like look with a soft covering (often leather) on the top and over the kneeling rests. For comfort before your butt gets uncomfortable.

Some are higher off the ground, others lower to the floor. All have rests for your body and your knees. My favourite one has two knee rests that part your legs as you lean on them. It’s very comfortable and gives me the chance to hop up and dance around if my bottom really stings.

Tops, if you want to secure your bottoms, many spanking benches have built in restraints. Just remember the safety implications of having someone restrained whilst they’re being hit.

Sometime caning benches are V shaped, designed to be straddled, leaving the bottom feeling a little more vulnerable but still safely positioned for a sound spanking.

 

How do you use a spanking bench?

 

As the name suggests, these benches are made for impact play.  Mostly focused on the bottom and thighs because of the positioning of the spankee, if you want to concentrate on the shoulders and back then another piece of equipment would probably suit you better.

However, you can get your sub to sit on the caning bench to present their inner thighs and crotch area, so impact play isn’t restricted to the buttocks per se.

You can use the bench for other forms of play too. Electric and wax play for example. The person on the receiving end will be on a secure safe base and it gives the top easy access all around them. These methods are certain to leave you with lots of naughty spanking stories.

 

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A simpler, pinker version...

 

What implements can you use?

 

Of course, you can just use your hands to mete out your punishment and play but if you want to make full use of the dungeon furniture and dungeon bondage equipment, then the ones you can use in close quarters are best.

Paddles and canes for example are great to use as well as straps and slappers. They don’t require a huge amount of room to swing and you can be incredibly focused with where they land. 

Floggers can be used too but maybe those of a shorter length are best, you need to be able to closely control the implements you use to make sure you hit only the fleshy parts of the body presented to you.

Although yobi’s and snake whips may work longer whips are going to be too unwieldy for use with your sub bent over on a caning bench.

And of course, if you’re in a busy bondage dungeon always keep one eye on the scenes going on around you as you don’t want to accidentally hit someone else.

 

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Dungeon Bondage Safety Tips

 

As with all and scenes and the spanking stories they create, it’s very important to be aware of all the things that could go wrong with your dungeon bondage experience so you can concentrate on making it all go right.

Being a submissive or bottom using the spanking bench it is very important to be aware of your own safety. Be ready to use your safe word if needed and always voice any concerns you have about your own safety. Any good Top or Dom will be thankful to hear this information and will do all they can to allay any concerns.

Tops should think carefully about the appropriate bondage dungeon furniture and equipment to use and the space needed to do so, especially as previously stated, if the dungeon is busy.  

If the bottom is restrained be sure to check that the ties aren’t too tight and that they have some space to move and pull against restraints when being hit.  The person being hit may wriggle and strain and you don’t want to hurt them in a way that isn’t pleasurable. Only use restraints with a play partner you know confidently. If it is a new play partner leave them free to move and jump in response to the impact.

When you have finished your scene wipe down the area with disinfectant (usually provided by the dungeon) as even if no blood or semen was produced by your play there is likely to have been sweat at least. You then leave the bench sparkly clean for the next user.

 

Hopefully this guide has given you all you need to confidently use a spanking bench and will prepare you for plenty of naughty spanking stories, but remember, if you have any concerns about how to safely use a specific item of dungeon furniture at your local area of play, please ask a member of staff. Your safety is of utmost importance so if you’re in doubt, ask! Share your experience or questions with others in the forum!

 

 

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