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Our Guide to Queening & the Power of Facesitting

Facesitting, or queening, is a kink that’s been in the news recently with numerous tabloids taking a startlingly positive attitude to it. While this

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The Sexy Seduction of Smoking Fetishism

Even though advertising tobacco products is prohibited, smoking still has a powerful appeal for many of us.  If watching another person light a

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What is... Fart Fetishism?

Fart fetishism is the sexual arousal by flatulence and while some people consider a fart fetish to be relatively niche, eproctophilia – to give it

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Our Guide to Queening & the Power of Facesitting

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Facesitting, or queening, is a kink that’s been in the news recently with numerous tabloids taking a startlingly positive attitude to it. While this is all good news, we focus on the power of

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The Sexy Seduction of Smoking Fetishism

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Even though advertising tobacco products is prohibited, smoking still has a powerful appeal for many of us.  If watching another person light a cigarette or cigar and exhale the smoke arouses you,

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What is... Fart Fetishism?

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Fart fetishism is the sexual arousal by flatulence and while some people consider a fart fetish to be relatively niche, eproctophilia – to give it its formal name –  is possibly more common than you

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What is… Forniphilia? 

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Have you ever felt the urge to kneel in front of your partner to let them put their feet up on you or rest a drink? Maybe you’d like to be a human chandelier or lampstand? This desire to be human

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Loving Large | What is… Macrophilia?

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If you've never heard of macrophilia, you're not alone. So, being the diverse community that we are, we asked our members to talk about their love of giants and their powerful appeal.  Sit back and

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How to Keep Humiliation Play Hot and Humane

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We now know that emotional/psychological abuse can scar for a lifetime, but for some people, those words are exciting to play with. When engaging in humiliation play and degradation, certain words,

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Our Guide to Medical Play

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Most of us played doctors and nurses as a kid, but for some of us, that childhood game develops into an adult sexual fantasy. But with uniforms, roles and tools to consider, here is Fetish.com's

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Switch it Up | How Changing Roles Can Spice Up Kinky Play

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Why do we put labels on sexual roles? Just because you may classify yourself as a top or bottom, or dom or sub, doesn't mean you can't enjoy a bit of the other during kinky play. Indeed, Fetish.com

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Foot Fetishes | A Guide to Trampling

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For some people, the idea of having a lover's tootsies near them is repulsive, yet for others, it's the biggest turn-on in the world. Fetish.com dives feet first into the popular fetish of trampling,

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BDSM and Feminism | Can Feminists Be Kinky?

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People are talking, once again, about the relationship – and the potential conflict – between BDSM and feminism. To mark International Women's Day, Fetish.com asked author Zak Jane Keir to look at

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What Makes a Perfect Dominant?

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What are the first qualities you think a dominant should possess? As we're about to explain, there's more than meets the eye to being a perfect dominant...
 
There are many qualities

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A Beginner's Guide to Financial Domination

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Thanks to the internet, the fetish of financial domination, or Findom, is growing. But with a mistress controlling the income of her slave – or pay pig – could the rewards lead to ruin instead?

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Let's Get Wet and Messy! Our Guide to Sploshing

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At some point, you’ve probably eaten a meal and gotten sauce all down yourself or ended up covered in mud playing a sport. For some people, it's annoying. However, others take it a whole lot further

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Ask Stella | BDSM Sex Tips | Dealing with Wannabe Doms

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New to BDSM? Need BDSM advice? No fear, intimacy educator, sex coach and author Stella Starlight's monthly advice column is here to help. This month, Stella tackles the issue of dealing with

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Ask Stella | BDSM Sex Tips | I Can't Do Without My Mistress

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New to BDSM? Need BDSM advice? No fear, intimacy educator, sex coach and author Stella Starlight's monthly advice column is here to help. This month, Stella responds to a fetish.com member who has

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Playing Nice | Privacy & Etiquette at a BDSM Play Party

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Play parties and group sex requires lots of attention to detail, covering everything from privacy concerns to changing rooms and basic BDSM play party etiquette. So, whether you're going to a play

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A Guide To Tightlacing & Corsets For Men

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Tightlacing (or corset training) is the practice of wearing a tightly laced corset to experience physical restriction or achieve long-term body modification.  Although corsets are widely associated

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The Joys of Spreader Bars, Stocks & Immobilization Play

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Bondage is fun, for the top it brings control and for the bottom, complete surrender to their partner/s.  There is far more to bondage than cuffs and rope, so Victoria Blisse introduces you to the

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Urethral Sounding | Our Guide to Cock Stuffing

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Cock stuffing, or urethral sounding, involves inserting objects into the urethra. Some people like to do it as part of medical-themed BDSM play; some people do it for solo fun. MadameZ gives you the

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Dungeons & Fetish Clubs | A Guide to your First Time

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If you’ve never been to a fetish club or a bondage dungeon before, walking through the door for the first time can be a scary idea. However, even the BDSM club aficionados were newbies once too. Read

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Impact Play Continued | Crops, Canes, Whips…Oh My!

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In impact play, you can use just your hand or an implement especially made to make you scream! Although some equipment can come across as a little foreboding, don’t worry, the secret to using

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Step On It | How To Trample Safely

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Whether it’s the edge of danger or the way it’s such an abject, absolute submission, a trample fetish is pretty powerful. For submissive men, the idea of being literally crushed underfoot by a

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Blood Play & Vampirism | A Kinksters Guide

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Of all bodily fluids, blood evokes the strongest reactions. For a lot of people, those responses are mostly made up of fear, disgust or distress but, for some, it’s fascination and a profound

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BDSM Sex Tips | Leaving a D/s Relationship

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New to BDSM? Need BDSM advice? Not to worry, intimacy educator, sex coach and author Stella Starlight's monthly advice column is here to help. This month, Stella responds to a D/s relationship

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How to Give Yourself Aftercare when your Partner(s) Can't

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Aftercare is an incredibly important part of any BDSM scene and everyone requires a slightly different kind of aftercare and amount of it. Some people bounce out of their plat and are fine; other

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