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Ask Stella | BDSM Sex Tips | I Can't Do Without My Mistress

New to BDSM? Need BDSM advice? No fear, intimacy educator, sex coach and author Stella Starlight's monthly advice column is here to help. This

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Playing Nice | Privacy & Etiquette at a BDSM Play Party

Play parties and group sex requires lots of attention to detail, covering everything from privacy concerns to changing rooms and basic BDSM play

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A Guide To Tightlacing & Corsets For Men

Tightlacing (or corset training) is the practice of wearing a tightly laced corset to experience physical restriction or achieve long-term body

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Ask Stella | BDSM Sex Tips | I Can't Do Without My Mistress

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New to BDSM? Need BDSM advice? No fear, intimacy educator, sex coach and author Stella Starlight's monthly advice column is here to help. This month, Stella responds to a fetish.com member who has

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Playing Nice | Privacy & Etiquette at a BDSM Play Party

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Play parties and group sex requires lots of attention to detail, covering everything from privacy concerns to changing rooms and basic BDSM play party etiquette. So, whether you're going to a play

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A Guide To Tightlacing & Corsets For Men

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Tightlacing (or corset training) is the practice of wearing a tightly laced corset to experience physical restriction or achieve long-term body modification.  Although corsets are widely associated

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The Joys of Spreader Bars, Stocks & Immobilization Play

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Bondage is fun, for the top it brings control and for the bottom, complete surrender to their partner/s.  There is far more to bondage than cuffs and rope, so Victoria Blisse introduces you to the

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Urethral Sounding | Our Guide to Cock Stuffing

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Cock stuffing, or urethral sounding, involves inserting objects into the urethra. Some people like to do it as part of medical-themed BDSM play; some people do it for solo fun. MadameZ gives you

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Dungeons & Fetish Clubs | A Guide to your First Time

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If you’ve never been to a fetish club or a bondage dungeon before, walking through the door for the first time can be a scary idea. However, even the BDSM club aficionados were newbies once

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Impact Play Continued | Crops, Canes, Whips…Oh My!

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In impact play, you can use just your hand or an implement especially made to make you scream! Although some equipment can come across as a little foreboding, don’t worry, the secret to

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Step On It | How To Trample Safely

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Whether it’s the edge of danger or the way it’s such an abject, absolute submission, a trample fetish is pretty powerful. For submissive men, the idea of being literally crushed underfoot by a

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Blood Play & Vampirism | A Kinksters Guide

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Of all bodily fluids, blood evokes the strongest reactions. For a lot of people, those responses are mostly made up of fear, disgust or distress but, for some, it’s fascination and a

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BDSM Sex Tips | Leaving a D/s Relationship

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New to BDSM? Need BDSM advice? Not to worry, intimacy educator, sex coach and author Stella Starlight's monthly advice column is here to help. This month, Stella responds to a D/s relationship

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How to Give Yourself Aftercare when your Partner(s) Can't

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Aftercare is an incredibly important part of any BDSM scene and everyone requires a slightly different kind of aftercare and amount of it. Some people bounce out of their plat and are fine; other

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Knife Play | Testing Your Edges

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For kinksters who want to explore knife play, safety is absolutely crucial - and any exploration needs to be safe, sane and consensual. We asked Cameryn Moore for her recommendations for performing

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Fear Play | A Guide to Going Beyond Kinky Talk

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Ever been in the middle of sex, and then suddenly your partner said something that made you catch your breath and get a little shaky in the knees with excitement and terror? Welcome to

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Ask Stella | BDSM Sex Tips | Edging & Edge Play

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New to BDSM? Need BDSM advice? Not to worry, author Stella Starlight's monthly advice column is here to explain things for you. This month, we look at the difference between edging and edge

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Fun with Forced Feminization | A BDSM Guide

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BDSM isn’t just about dungeons and chains, sometimes you’re looking for sub-one covered in frilly lace, cleaning your house and pleasuring your guests… Forced feminization or sissification is

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Take My Breath Away | A Breathplay Guide

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Breathplay can literally take your breath away, but what is it? What are some important safety matters to consider? Author Sienna Saint-Cyr shares her thoughts with Fetish.com on this popular edge

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Topspace & Subspace Explained

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Subspace is well known by people within the BDSM scene, it’s an altered state of being where a submissive totally lets go and is under the complete control of their Dom. But have you ever heard of

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A Guide to Choke Play & Orgasm Control

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Can cutting off oxygen-rich blood to the brain really make your orgasms better?! We’ve asked author Sienna Saint-Cyr to share her experiences with us on choking, asphyxiation, and orgasm

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What Goes Up Must Come Down | Subspace a Personal Story

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Hitting subspace is different for everyone. Some people never get there, no matter how hard they try. Others seem to fall into it the moment they’re bound or gagged. We all have our own subspace

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Impact Toys & Rough Sex | Top Tips On Doing Impact Play Right

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Victoria Blisse of Smut UK has always been a bit kinky. She’s always up for trying something new in the bedroom or out of it for that matter. Recently Victoria’s discovered she’s a masochist -

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Top Five Ways to Play: Oragasm Control

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New to D/s and orgasm control or just want some fresh ideas? Stella Harris has the top five ways to use it in different kinds of relationships. Starting with some ‘less intense’ practices all the

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What do Sex, Spirituality and BDSM Have in Common?

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If Victoria Blisse received a pound every time someone asked how she can be a Christian and write erotica too, she'll respond,  'I'd be very rich indeed.'  Her answer is always the same. 'God is

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What Exactly is 'Old Guard'?

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Spend any amount of time in the online or local kink space and eventually someone will refer to “Old Guard” when talking about BDSM and specifically dominance and submission. “Oh, he’s Old Guard”

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How Kinksters Benefit from Being Part of the BDSM Community

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New to kink? Wonder just how other fetishists find each other? Or perhaps you've been isolated and need a hand up? Fetish.com and Kayla Lords are here to help you find your way! Read on to find out

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Top 5 Tips to Make the Kink Community Amazing

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Whether you're a newbie or a seasoned pro in the kink scene it's always good to check in with how you're interacting with the community. Check in with others in your local scene (online and in

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