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How to Give Yourself BDSM Aftercare

Aftercare is an incredibly important part of any BDSM scene and everyone requires a slightly different kind of BDSM aftercare and amount of it. But

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The Magnificent World of Muscle Worship

If you have a fetish for mammoth muscles, we explore the dynamics of muscle worship - or sthenolagnia to give it its proper name – but find a sexual

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Topspace & Subspace Explained

Subspace is well known by people within the BDSM scene, it’s an altered state of being where a submissive totally lets go and is under the complete

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How to Give Yourself BDSM Aftercare

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Aftercare is an incredibly important part of any BDSM scene and everyone requires a slightly different kind of BDSM aftercare and amount of it. But what can you do if your Dominant isn’t able to give

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The Magnificent World of Muscle Worship

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If you have a fetish for mammoth muscles, we explore the dynamics of muscle worship - or sthenolagnia to give it its proper name – but find a sexual fetish where men still seem to come out on

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Topspace & Subspace Explained

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Subspace is well known by people within the BDSM scene, it’s an altered state of being where a submissive totally lets go and is under the complete control of their Dom. But have you ever heard of

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Molly's BDSM Tips | My Daddy Dom Has Gone Cold on Me

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Our resident BDSM advice columnist Molly Moore gives some sound advice to a Fetish.com member, who finds that her Daddy Dom/babygirl relationship dynamic suddenly changes after her Daddy Dom moves

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Fun with Forced Feminization | A BDSM Guide

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BDSM isn’t just about dungeons and chains, sometimes you’re looking for sub-one covered in frilly lace, cleaning your house and pleasuring your guests… Forced feminization or sissification is

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Cuckolding | Exploring the Taboo

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The act of cuckolding is still considered taboo, even within the kink community. Writer Stella Harris delves into a fantasy of submission and humiliation.
 
In a society where monogamy

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Dare to be Dunked? | Our Guide to Water Bondage

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Wanna get seriously wet? And, no, we don’t mean just in that way. Welcome to the world of helpless submission that is water bondage. We give you the lowdown on what it is, and how to stay within your

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Why Kink Shaming Isn't Cool & Kink Positivity Is

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Us kinksters are all a little on the outside of societal norms, which helps bind us as a community. It’s great to feel supported by others who understand what we love, and while being kink positive

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The Importance of BDSM Boundaries

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A life without limits sounds like something we should want. Boundaries are surely things that stop us from achieving the very best? Fetish.com’s Victoria Blisse explains why everyone should have BDSM

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Our Guide to Queening & the Power of Facesitting

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Facesitting, or queening, is a kink that’s been in the news recently with numerous tabloids taking a startlingly positive attitude to it. While this is all good news, we focus on the power of

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The Sexy Seduction of Smoking Fetishism

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Even though advertising tobacco products is prohibited, smoking still has a powerful appeal for many of us.  If watching another person light a cigarette or cigar and exhale the smoke arouses you,

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What is... Fart Fetishism?

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Fart fetishism is the sexual arousal by flatulence and while some people consider a fart fetish to be relatively niche, eproctophilia – to give it its formal name –  is possibly more common than you

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What is… Forniphilia? 

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Have you ever felt the urge to kneel in front of your partner to let them put their feet up on you or rest a drink? Maybe you’d like to be a human chandelier or lampstand? This desire to be human

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Loving Large | What is… Macrophilia?

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If you've never heard of macrophilia, you're not alone. So, being the diverse community that we are, we asked our members to talk about their love of giants and their powerful appeal.  Sit back and

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How to Keep Humiliation Play Hot and Humane

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We now know that emotional/psychological abuse can scar for a lifetime, but for some people, those words are exciting to play with. When engaging in humiliation play and degradation, certain words,

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Our Guide to Medical Play

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Most of us played doctors and nurses as a kid, but for some of us, that childhood game develops into an adult sexual fantasy. But with uniforms, roles and tools to consider, here is Fetish.com's

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Switch it Up | How Changing Roles Can Spice Up Kinky Play

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Why do we put labels on sexual roles? Just because you may classify yourself as a top or bottom, or dom or sub, doesn't mean you can't enjoy a bit of the other during kinky play. Indeed, Fetish.com

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Foot Fetishes | A Guide to Trampling

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For some people, the idea of having a lover's tootsies near them is repulsive, yet for others, it's the biggest turn-on in the world. Fetish.com dives feet first into the popular fetish of trampling,

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BDSM and Feminism | Can Feminists Be Kinky?

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People are talking, once again, about the relationship – and the potential conflict – between BDSM and feminism. To mark International Women's Day, Fetish.com asked author Zak Jane Keir to look at

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What Makes a Perfect Dominant?

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What are the first qualities you think a dominant should possess? As we're about to explain, there's more than meets the eye to being a perfect dominant...
 
There are many qualities

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A Beginner's Guide to Financial Domination

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Thanks to the internet, the fetish of financial domination, or Findom, is growing. But with a mistress controlling the income of her slave – or pay pig – could the rewards lead to ruin instead?

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Let's Get Wet and Messy! Our Guide to Sploshing

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At some point, you’ve probably eaten a meal and gotten sauce all down yourself or ended up covered in mud playing a sport. For some people, it's annoying. However, others take it a whole lot further

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Ask Stella | BDSM Sex Tips | Dealing with Wannabe Doms

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New to BDSM? Need BDSM advice? No fear, intimacy educator, sex coach and author Stella Starlight's monthly advice column is here to help. This month, Stella tackles the issue of dealing with

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Ask Stella | BDSM Sex Tips | I Can't Do Without My Mistress

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New to BDSM? Need BDSM advice? No fear, intimacy educator, sex coach and author Stella Starlight's monthly advice column is here to help. This month, Stella responds to a fetish.com member who has

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Playing Nice | Privacy & Etiquette at a BDSM Play Party

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Play parties and group sex requires lots of attention to detail, covering everything from privacy concerns to changing rooms and basic BDSM play party etiquette. So, whether you're going to a play

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