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Molly's BDSM tips | Why You Shouldn't Be Drunk During A BDSM Play Session

A glass of wine never hurts... or does it? This time our BDSM advice guru Molly explains why it is particularly important to remain sober and fully

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Omorashi: worth the wait? Exploring pee desperation kink!

Victoria Blisse explores the fetish of omorashi and finds out why so many kinksters are desperate to try it out! Discover more about the pain and

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Molly's BDSM tips | Dealing With Premature Ejaculation

Premature ejaculation can be an embarrassing – and distressing – condition that many men face at some point in their lives. However, there are

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Molly's BDSM tips | Why You Shouldn't Be Drunk During A BDSM Play Session

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A glass of wine never hurts... or does it? This time our BDSM advice guru Molly explains why it is particularly important to remain sober and fully conscious during BDSM play

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Omorashi: worth the wait? Exploring pee desperation kink!

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Victoria Blisse explores the fetish of omorashi and finds out why so many kinksters are desperate to try it out! Discover more about the pain and pleasure involved in this curious

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Molly's BDSM tips | Dealing With Premature Ejaculation

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Premature ejaculation can be an embarrassing – and distressing – condition that many men face at some point in their lives. However, there are techniques to combat it. Our resident advice guru

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BDSM and Mental Health: Using Kink to Beat the Blues

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Depression can manifest in a variety of ways, from occasional episodes of low-level numbness or sadness to Major Depressive Disorder. While there's a diversity of causes and treatments, some have

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Male Chastity Kink: a Beginner's Guide

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What is the ultimate act of control and domination? Some say that it is being in chastity. Many male subs enjoy the submission of being locked up in a male chastity cage; their orgasms controlled by

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Sex Without an Erection: How Kink Can Combat Erectile Dysfunction

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This men's health month we take a look at erectile dysfunction. Despite the shame surrounding impotence, there are ways BDSM and kink can help combat it and offer ways to enjoy sex without an

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What is Vore? Exploring the Meaning of This Curious Kink

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Have you ever heard of vore, or – to give it its full name – vorarephilia? If so, do you know the difference between soft and hard vore? This month Molly advises one member who wants to fully

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Molly's BDSM for Beginners Tips: Getting Started in Kink

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New to the scene? Want to know more about BDSM for beginners? Our resident BDSM advice guru Molly is here to help. She shares her top ideas for things to try out for newbies wanting to explore kink

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Taking a Bite Out of Vampire Fetish and Vampirism

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Even within the diverse and accepting S&M culture, vampirism and people with a vampire fetish might be misunderstood. Separate fact from fiction by discovering more about the different types of

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A Brief History of Hosiery Fetish

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Lots of people have a hosiery and stocking fetish; there is just something irresistible about the look and feel of them on the legs. We asked writer Caitlin to investigate where this popular fetish

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How to gape your ass: the hole truth about anal gaping

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Ever wondered how to anal gape? Fetish.com’s Victoria Blisse has looked deep into the subject! Here she explores what anal gaping is and gives five steps on how to gape sexily and

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There’s the rub! Frotting and Frotteurism

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Frottage is a well-known kink involving rubbing genitalia against another person (often not consenting), so what is frotting exactly, and is there any difference? Victoria Blisse reflects on the

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Molly's BDSM tips | What does PRICK mean?

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Do you find the different BDSM safety terms confusing? This month our BDSM advice guru Molly answers one couple's kinky query: what does PRICK mean? Learn the difference between SSC, RACK and

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Let's Take a Look at Mirror Sex (Katoptronophilia)

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Mirror mirror on the wall. Who’s the kinkiest of them all? Victoria Blisse reflects on the joys of mirror sex – so-called katoptronophilia.
 
Looking into the mirror is a mundane

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Outdoor Sex: Let's Go Outside...

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Whether it's roughing it in the woods or banging on the beach, outdoors sex stirs up something primordial. But while outside sex is horny, it can be risky – legally. Fetish.com member DirtyBird

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Should My Partner and I Go Dogging?

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What is dogging exactly? In celebration of our Outdoor Month, our BDSM advice guru Molly offers some tips to one couple interested in trying it for the first time. Buckle up! 
 
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Outdoor Masturbation: Exploring Public Self-Pleasure

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If the idea of a wank in the woods turns you on, you’re not alone. Outdoor masturbation is a common fantasy that many people actually indulge in. But while masturbating in public can be a huge

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BDSM vs Abuse: Recognizing the Difference

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While BDSM is fun, it’s essential to ensure it's safe and consensual. Getting kinky can be boundary-pushing, but it can also be a risky physical activity that can lead to abuse. Author and educator

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Fear Play: A Guide to Going Beyond Kinky Talk

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Ever been in the middle of sex when suddenly your partner said something that made you catch your breath with both excitement and terror? Welcome to fear play, where you don’t run from the stuff that

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Predicament Bondage: A Guide

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Bondage bunnies are very familiar with the pleasures that come from being tied up, along with the loss of control. But what if you're interested in a more devious experience? Victoria Blisse gives

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Quirofilia: Taking a Fetish into Your Own Hands!

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Do manicured hands and painted nails turn you on? Or do you prefer rough, veiny, hairy hands? If so, you may enjoy quirofilia – a fetish for hands, nails or fingers. Victoria Blisse scratches the

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What's A Kinky Cast Fetish All About?

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Being stuck in a cast isn't usually considered pleasurable, but for those kinksters with a cast fetish, it can be an exciting inconvenience. Victoria Blisse explores why some of us enjoy abasiophilia

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How to Have Multiple Orgasms: 4 Essential Tips

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Orgasms. Who doesn't want more of them or even multiple ones? Some people with vulvas have no problem coming, but others find it impossible. Victoria Blisse explores the secrets to ultimate

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Exploring Female Masturbation Techniques

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This month our BDSM advice guru Molly helps out one woman kinkster who is new to self-pleasure. From props to positions, discover some great female masturbation techniques and tips and learn some

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Orgasm and Cum Control: 3 Ways to Play

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Love orgasm or cum control or wanna know more about it? We asked Stella Harris to give her top three ways to use orgasm control in your kinky play, starting with less intense practices and then more

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