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Impact Play Continued | Crops, Canes, Whips…Oh My!

 
In impact play, you can use just your hand or an implement especially made to make you scream! Although some equipment can come across as

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Step On It | How To Trample Safely

Whether it’s the edge of danger or the way it’s such an abject, absolute submission, a trample fetish is pretty powerful. For submissive men, the

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Blood Play & Vampirism | A Kinksters Guide

 
Of all bodily fluids, blood evokes the strongest reactions. For a lot of people, those responses are mostly made up of fear, disgust or

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Impact Play Continued | Crops, Canes, Whips…Oh My!

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In impact play, you can use just your hand or an implement especially made to make you scream! Although some equipment can come across as a little foreboding, don’t worry, the secret to

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Step On It | How To Trample Safely

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Whether it’s the edge of danger or the way it’s such an abject, absolute submission, a trample fetish is pretty powerful. For submissive men, the idea of being literally crushed underfoot by a

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Blood Play & Vampirism | A Kinksters Guide

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Of all bodily fluids, blood evokes the strongest reactions. For a lot of people, those responses are mostly made up of fear, disgust or distress but, for some, it’s fascination and a

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Ask Stella | BDSM Sex Tips | Leaving a D/s Relationship

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New to BDSM? Need BDSM advice? Not to worry, intimacy educator, sex coach and author Stella Starlight's monthly advice column is here to help. This month, Stella responds to a D/s relationship

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How to Give Yourself Aftercare when your Partner(s) Can't

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Aftercare is an incredibly important part of any BDSM scene and everyone requires a slightly different kind of aftercare and amount of it. Some people bounce out of their plat and are fine; other

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Knife Play | Testing Your Edges

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For kinksters who want to explore knife play, safety is absolutely crucial - and any exploration needs to be safe, sane and consensual. We asked Cameryn Moore for her recommendations for performing

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Fear Play | A Guide to Going Beyond Kinky Talk

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Ever been in the middle of sex, and then suddenly your partner said something that made you catch your breath and get a little shaky in the knees with excitement and terror? Welcome to

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Ask Stella | BDSM Sex Tips | Edging & Edge Play

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New to BDSM? Need BDSM advice? Not to worry, author Stella Starlight's monthly advice column is here to explain things for you. This month, we look at the difference between edging and edge

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Fun with Forced Feminization | A BDSM Guide

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BDSM isn’t just about dungeons and chains, sometimes you’re looking for sub-one covered in frilly lace, cleaning your house and pleasuring your guests… Forced feminization or sissification is

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Take My Breath Away | A Breathplay Guide

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Breathplay can literally take your breath away, but what is it? What are some important safety matters to consider? Author Sienna Saint-Cyr shares her thoughts with Fetish.com on this popular edge

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Topspace & Subspace Explained

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Subspace is well known by people within the BDSM scene, it’s an altered state of being where a submissive totally lets go and is under the complete control of their Dom. But have you ever heard of

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A Guide to Choke Play & Orgasm Control

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Can cutting off oxygen-rich blood to the brain really make your orgasms better?! We’ve asked author Sienna Saint-Cyr to share her experiences with us on choking, asphyxiation, and orgasm

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What Goes Up Must Come Down | Subspace a Personal Story

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Hitting subspace is different for everyone. Some people never get there, no matter how hard they try. Others seem to fall into it the moment they’re bound or gagged. We all have our own subspace

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Impact Toys & Rough Sex | Top Tips On Doing Impact Play Right

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Victoria Blisse of Smut UK has always been a bit kinky. She’s always up for trying something new in the bedroom or out of it for that matter. Recently Victoria’s discovered she’s a masochist -

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Top Five Ways to Play: Oragasm Control

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New to D/s and orgasm control or just want some fresh ideas? Stella Harris has the top five ways to use it in different kinds of relationships. Starting with some ‘less intense’ practices all the

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What do Sex, Spirituality and BDSM Have in Common?

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If Victoria Blisse received a pound every time someone asked how she can be a Christian and write erotica too, she'll respond,  'I'd be very rich indeed.'  Her answer is always the same. 'God is

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What Exactly is 'Old Guard'?

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Spend any amount of time in the online or local kink space and eventually someone will refer to “Old Guard” when talking about BDSM and specifically dominance and submission. “Oh, he’s Old Guard”

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How Kinksters Benefit from Being Part of the BDSM Community

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New to kink? Wonder just how other fetishists find each other? Or perhaps you've been isolated and need a hand up? Fetish.com and Kayla Lords are here to help you find your way! Read on to find out

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Top 5 Tips to Make the Kink Community Amazing

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Whether you're a newbie or a seasoned pro in the kink scene it's always good to check in with how you're interacting with the community. Check in with others in your local scene (online and in

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Topless History: Why All the Nipple Shaming?

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For Women's History Month, Leo Larkin pinches out a few details about one of our favorite things: nipples. Why does the media fear them so much? Where did all this nipple shaming come from?

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History of the Dominatrix: Where did FemDom Come From?

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The dominatrix is one of the most recognisable icons of the BDSM world. But where did these take-charge women come from? Leo Larkin takes a look at where these mysterious women came

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The Difference Between Fetishes & Fetishisation

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Pretty much all of us here have fetishes - but that isn’t the same thing as fetishising something. Dear Abi is usually pretty hardcore on the concept that Your Kink Is Okay (and the way you want to

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Demystifying Fetishes: Pansexuality Explained

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Heterosexual, bisexual, gay, lesbian, transsexual, these are words that I’d heard most of my life. Some more in adulthood than youth, but still, they are words I know. Many of us know these words,

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Play it Safe! Erotic Torture isn't ACTUAL Torture

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You're up against the wall, arms pinned behind your back. You can't move, a hand grabs your hair, forcing your head back and your eyes meet. Burning desire, lust. Then slow tingling sensations

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Why a Mindfuck is the Perfect Gift to End the Year

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Not sure what to get that special sub-one this year? Instead of spending money on things give the gift that keeps on giving: a mindfuck. The crack of a whip, sensation play, there are so many ways.

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