Public sex is one of those kinks that even people who don't think of themselves as kinky can understand. There's the thrill of possible discovery or maybe the liberating feeling of getting your freak on without caring whether you're seen. And the urgency is hot, too – there's something exciting about the idea of being so turned on you can't even wait to get home. Here are a few practical tips that can make the experience all the better.

Top Tips & Tricks for Public Sex


Public Sex Trick #6: Pools have lousy leverage


Like beach sex, pool sex seems like an obvious idea: after all, you're mostly naked already. But no matter how much you enjoy looking at your fellow swimmers, when it's time to actually screw, for heaven's sake get out of the water. You can lounge by the side of the pool if you insist, but actual sex in water is a giant hassle.

After all, you're floating, so thrusts tend to just push you away from the person you're trying to push toward. It can be done, but it's like trying to have sex and get the corner of a duvet to fit squarely into its cover at the same time. Possible, but why would you bother?

Your best bet is the steps at the shallow end, which have a good combination of pleasant floatiness and leverage. Ignore this if you like gentle, slow-paced sex; you're good to go. I don't know how you wound up reading this article, though.

Public Sex Trick #5: Bookworms get it on too


public sexThe smaller the bookshop, the better. Love of literature can bring people together in so many ways – and one of those ways, of course, is public fucking. But not all bookstores are created equal. You're seldom going to find a good place to have sex in a big chain store. The ideal situation is a smaller shop, preferably one that specializes in second-hand books – narrower, darker aisles are the key to not getting thrown out. Also, the smell of old books is a potent aphrodisiac, whereas new books don't really small like anything.

Public Sex Tip #4: DO NOT fuck in the only toilet! 


If the bar, restaurant, tattoo parlor or whatever that you're hooking up in has only one restroom, go fuck on the roof or something. The deepest level of hell is reserved for people who make others wait to pee. Them and Judas; I'm pretty sure that's in the Divine Comedy, and if it isn't it should be.

Do not fuck in the only toilet, you guys, I'm not kidding. This is the same point as above, but it's so important I thought I'd say it twice.

Public Sex Tip #3: Leather jackets and brick walls don't make good friends


Scuffing is the devil. Leather jackets may look cool, but they are actually the worst clothing choice to get shoved up against a brick wall in. The memory of a wild night can turn bittersweet when you realize that that was the night you scuffed the hell out of your favorite jacket. May I recommend a nice wool peacoat? You can also place it on the ground as an impromptu blanket.

Public Sex Tip #2: Consider your audience


For some people, the fun in outdoor sex comes from the risk of getting caught. For others, it's the knowing complicity of the audience. There are times and places when passers-by will respond to the sight of two or more people enjoying themselves with a knowing wink or cheery wave. However, there are some who get off on shocking or alarming people, and while it's easy to see the kink there, that's not cool. Drag unsuspecting people into your own fantasy, and you're only one step above the man wanking at the bus stop. Don't be a bus-stop wanker.

Public Sex Tip #1: Sex in public is still S-E-X


Ah, the heady thrill of wild abandon. When you throw caution to the winds. And rail a stranger among the puddles and ashtrays of a pub car park. Only to end up having to stand shamefaced while an overworked nurse shoves a swab up your urethra. I know that doesn't sound sexy – well, actually, pub car park doesn't really sound great either – but it's important. If public sex is your kink, rather than just a side-effect of drunken excess, be safe about it. Don't assume that everyone carries condoms wherever they go on the off-chance.

Have your own tips about where, how and when to do the nasty in public? Leave a comment below!
Images by Elena Lagaria and Wonder Woman via Flickr with CC BY 2.0 license

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[…] pretty strictly. Challenge yourselves by not just finding a dark little corner to fool around in.Try being naughty out in the open, where other people can see you. If you discover it really isn’t your thing, then you can always […]

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