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Why Mutual Masturbation is Kinkier Than You Think

You may think masturbation is the most vanilla sex act out there, but there are ways to spice it up. That's especially true if you're masturbating

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What is a praise kink and do I have one?

Does receiving praise from a partner during sex make you wet or give you a hard-on? Or maybe it's dishing out the compliments that turns you on? If

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Barmy for beards? You might be a pogonophile

The hipster trend means facial hair and bushy beards are more common than ever. That’s great news if you’re a pogonophile – someone with a beard

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Learn more about D/s relationships, BDSM dynamics and fetish dating by experienced writers and bloggers from the kink community.

Why Mutual Masturbation is Kinkier Than You Think

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You may think masturbation is the most vanilla sex act out there, but there are ways to spice it up. That's especially true if you're masturbating with a partner. Victoria Blisse explains why mutual

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What is a praise kink and do I have one?

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Does receiving praise from a partner during sex make you wet or give you a hard-on? Or maybe it's dishing out the compliments that turns you on? If you answered 'yes' to either of these questions

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Barmy for beards? You might be a pogonophile

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The hipster trend means facial hair and bushy beards are more common than ever. That’s great news if you’re a pogonophile – someone with a beard fetish. But what is it about facial fuzz that is such

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Discover the History of Masturbation

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What does masturbation in the 18th-century have to do with Cornflakes? As we move into Masturbation Month this May, kinky writer Leo Larkin answers this puzzler and shares some facts about the

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Molly's BDSM Tips | Dealing with the menopause and painful sex

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This month our BDSM advice guru Molly has some great advice for one kinkster dealing with painful intercourse – AKA dyspareunia – which began after she started the menopause. Cultivating intimacy,

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Kink up your Valentine's Day!

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Valentine’s Day is a time to celebrate love. But what if you’ve got yourself a kinky valentine and want to spice up their day? Victoria Blisse brings you tips on how to make your Valentine's more

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How do I go about finding a Domme date?

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It's good to flag up your fetishes when looking for a kinky relationship, but you also need to showcase your whole identity – and look for the same in others. This month our BDSM advice guru

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Saying No and the Art of Handling Rejection

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For such a short word, 'no' can be hard to say and harder still to hear. It's difficult enough in everyday life sometimes, but it can be even trickier when it comes to BDSM dating. Victoria

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Molly's BDSM Tips | How do I cope with being away from my Dominant over the holidays?

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Dreading the time away from your Dom or sub during the Holidays? is Molly's advice.
 
I am in a 24/7 Dom sub relationship with my Dom. We live in the same apartment building and spend

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Five Body-Positive Tips for Building Self-Esteem

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Ever feel down when looking at fetish images of slim models wrapped in beautiful shibari rope work? Does seeing promotional pictures of busty, curvy gals in leather, latex, and perfect porn stars

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Creating Dynamics in BDSM Relationships

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If you're new to the wonderful world of BDSM and wondering what the term BDSM dynamics means or how to create successful BDSM relationships, we're here to help shine a light on

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Molly's BDSM Tips | I Think I May Be Heteroflexible?

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Our resident BDSM agony aunt Molly returns with advice for one FET member on the verge of exploring same-sex desires but is unsure about what it all means. What does Molly say?

Dear

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Why Violating BDSM Consent isn't Just a Dom Thing

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Violating BDSM consent isn't good, whether it's done deliberately or by accident. While in most cases, those called out as consent violators tend to be in Dominant roles, writer Sienna Saint-Cyr

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How to Fit in Kink over the Festive Season

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The festive season is one of the busiest and most stressful times of the year. But, how do you manage it all and enjoy a kink over the holidays, too? We asked Victoria Blisse to serve up some

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Our Guide on Establishing and Communicating BDSM Limits

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Discovering what your BDSM limits are is an essential part of being in the kink scene. If you don't know what your limits are, there are some ways to learn, says Stella Harris.
 
It’s so

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How to Explore Your Kinks at a Swinger Club

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Swinger clubs are a great place to explore your sexuality with your partner(s), but are kinky swingers welcome? Here's a guide to getting your kink on at a swinger club – and what not to

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New to Kink? Discover the Soft Side with Light BDSM

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BDSM isn't necessarily all about whips, chains, bite marks and bruises. Believe it or not, there's another side - soft (or light) BDSM, as Kayla Lords explains.

The crack is thunderous

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Edging & Orgasm Denial | A BDSM Fantasy Cum True?

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Believe it or not, there's a simple way to develop control over how and when you orgasm, tremendously boost its power and be a great addition to your BDSM play. In the last of our masturbation month

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The Relationship Between Clothing and Sexual Arousal 

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Clothes form an integral part of sexual arousal, and how we dress can make all the difference. So what makes clothes sexy, and why do we get dressed up to get down and dirty? Victoria Blisse delves

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What Were the Trending and Popular Kinks of 2020?

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From the importance of staying isolated as much as possible to its disastrous economic impact, the COVID-19 pandemic has hit everyone, everywhere hard. Following our previous article on how to stay

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BDSM Aftercare Tips for your Partner

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BDSM aftercare is so much more than what takes place straight after a scene. We asked writer Kayla Lords to show you new ways to take care of your kinky partner/s - both before and after a scene.

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BDSM Dating | How to Avoid Online Scammers

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The internet is a wonderful place to meet fellow kinksters, and Fetish.com is a great forum for connecting with other people into the same fetishes as you. However, not everyone is who they appear to

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BDSM Dating | Safety is Sexy

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We take lots of risks in our BDSM relationships, but BDSM dating still needs to be safe dating! Of course, this starts with consent, but how else can you keep your kink safe and sexy all at the same

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What's in a Leather Family? An Interview with Leland Carina

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There are many different types of fetish families out there and all with varying dynamics. If you've ever been curious about leather families, writer Sienna Saint-Cyr talks to Leland Carina,

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Balancing D/s Dynamics in Poly Relationships

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Polyamory and D/s often go hand in hand. In a community like ours where anything goes, as long as it's consensual of course, there is an acceptance of ethical non-monogamy and poly relationships that

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