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Creating Dynamics in BDSM Relationships

If you're new to the wonderful world of BDSM and scratching your head about what the term 'BDSM dynamics' mean - or wondering how to go about

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New to Kink? Discover the Soft Side with Light BDSM

BDSM isn't necessarily all about whips, chains, bite marks and bruises. Believe it or not, there's another side - soft (or light) BDSM, as Kayla

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Six Things I Wish I’d Known as a New BDSM Submissive

You hear a lot of nonsense about the world of dominants and submissives - and make up even more in our heads. Our writer Abi Brown looks at what she

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Creating Dynamics in BDSM Relationships

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If you're new to the wonderful world of BDSM and scratching your head about what the term 'BDSM dynamics' mean - or wondering how to go about creating successful BDSM relationships, Abi Brown shines

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New to Kink? Discover the Soft Side with Light BDSM

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BDSM isn't necessarily all about whips, chains, bite marks and bruises. Believe it or not, there's another side - soft (or light) BDSM, as Kayla Lords explains.

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Six Things I Wish I’d Known as a New BDSM Submissive

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You hear a lot of nonsense about the world of dominants and submissives - and make up even more in our heads. Our writer Abi Brown looks at what she wishes she'd known as a new BDSM

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Orgasm Denial | A Fantasy Cum True?

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Orgasm denial is popular with Dominants for tonnes of delicious reasons. Fetish.com member Steve shares his experience of having his cock teased in a chastity cage and the sweet rewards reaped

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Fetish Wear Ideas for a Vanilla Halloween Party

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Of all the annual holidays, Halloween is the sexiest as well as the spookiest, which is great for us kinksters. While it’s a good time to bring your fetish wear out of the wardrobe and wear it with

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Sexy Scary Halloween Roleplay Ideas

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It’s the spookiest time of the year, and you might think that dressing up is just for kids or something you do at parties. But what about taking a bit of Halloween inspiration into your sex life?

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How to Manage BDSM, Kink and Sex after Kids 

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Having children is a big milestone in any relationship and it comes with a huge amount of change. It changes parent’s sex lives but also their kink lives too. So how do you juggle your kinky life and

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BDSM Dating | How to Message Kinksters and Get Results

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On a BDSM dating site, the only way you get to meet new kinksters is to reach out by sending that first message. But what should you write about? The kink community prides itself on prioritising

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What You Need to Know About Primals

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We've all heard the term at BDSM events, bandied about at play parties and in forums, but what does it mean to be "Primal"?  Writer Blackie Quebedeaux sheds some light for those in the dark about

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BDSM Dating | Safety is Sexy

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We take lots of risks in our BDSM relationships, but BDSM dating still needs to be safe dating! Of course, this starts with consent but how else can you keep your kink safe and sexy all at the same

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How to Make Long-Distance BDSM Work

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You've met the perfect person - the Dominant to your submissive. But they live in another time zone, across the country, or on another continent. We take a look at how you can make long-distance BDSM

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Demystifying DDlg | The Life of a Little

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At Fetish.com we like to demystify fetishes and build awareness of the different kinds of BDSM relationships out there to the kink community and a wider audience. This next story follows a princess

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Kink up your Valentine's Day!

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Valentine’s Day is a time to celebrate love but what if you’ve got yourself a Kinky Valentine and you want to spice up your day? Or maybe you want to find someone to indulge in some sexy BDSM

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BDSM Dating | How to Write a Successful Personal Ad

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Let’s face it; personal ads are hard to write. It’s challenging to work out what you want to put in about yourself and what you want to leave out. It becomes even harder when it’s BDSM dating. You

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Handling Privacy and Openness in Kink Relationships

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Handling different levels of openness in kink relationships can be a challenging dynamic; what we share with the world, where we share it, and with whom. As a self-producing performer and writer,

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Fitting in Kink at Christmas 

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Christmas is one of the busiest and most stressful times of the year. But, how do you manage it all and enjoy a kinky Christmas too? Fetish.com’s very own Victoria Blisse serves up some suggestions

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Understanding The Basics Of Kink Etiquette

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As part of the BDSM community we’re constantly interacting with other kinksters, so how should you behave when you meet new people or even amongst your friends? What is kink etiquette and how do you

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BDSM Consent | Checking In During Play

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In the second part of our series about consent in BDSM, Cameryn Moore explains how having conversations about consent during a kink or bondage scene can enrich your

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How To Keep Consent Strong In 24/7 Relationships

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Some people think that a full-time D/s relationship is forever and ever, amen. “No more asking, we know the drill, and we certainly don’t need all that fuss about consent.” Truth time: successful

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BDSM Dating | How to Say No and the Art of Handling Rejection

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For such a short word, 'no' can be hard to say and harder still to hear. It’s difficult enough in everyday life sometimes, but it can be even trickier when it comes to BDSM dating. Have you ever been

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Kinky Halloween Costume Ideas That Don’t Cost the Earth

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Halloween is just around the corner, it’s the spookiest, sexiest time of the year filled with invites to parties but what do you wear? Never fear, Victoria Blisse is here to give you some hot adult

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Inked & Pierced | Showing Commitment in a D/s Relationship

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Tattoos and piercings are becoming less taboo these days. We asked MadameZ to share her thoughts on how you can combine your kink or D/s relationship with unique body piercings or tattoo

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An Introduction to the Art of Body Suspension

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Body suspension is a practice closely linked to the world of body modification. Celebrities like Jane’s Addiction’s Dave Navarro are amongst its fans. At first sight it looks can look a little

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Were the Ancient Greeks & Romans into BDSM?

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Halloween isn't the only excuse to get dressed up and do naughty things. Need a bit of inspiration for some role play ideas or party themes? Take a look back at history with Kayla Lords at some

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Why Being Assertive Doesn’t Make You a B*tch

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The words ‘passive-aggressive’ should tell us something about the nature of those actions. After all, aggressive is part of that. But how does this toxic behavior affect us in the BDSM community?

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