Using a whole variety of techniques, PUAs or Pick-Up Artists, turn seducing women into an art form. If you fancy yourself as a PUA, here are a few tips from Fetish.com to get you started...


Pick-Up Artists (PUA) are a relatively new phenomena that are sometimes discussed in the mainstream media. PUA’s aim to use a mixture of techniques, from evolutionary biology and classic seduction to make their move on women.

The classic PUA guide is The Game by Neil Strauss, but recent years have seen an explosion of PUAs. This has not only occurred in the USA, but also in the UK where Pick-Up Artist such as Krauser are sharing their techniques with a receptive audience.

Most PUAs are men, but there’s no reason why women can’t get in on the act (some male PUAs would dispute this). However, many Pick-Up Artists are into straight sex, and are hetronormative in orientation. If you're interested in trying PUA, here are four kinky tips:

 

Look for your type

It’s essential that you look for people who may be your type in terms of kink. However, clothes are not always a sign that someone shares a particular kink. I’ve seen people of both sexes who wear leather, or even rubber, who are not kinky at all.

Even a woman wearing thigh-high boots was actually not kinky at all. However, it may be that there are other tell-tale signs. You might start observing these in the field. One of the things that I’ve noticed is that people who go to alternative bookshops, or have certain tattoos, tend to be kinkier than others.

 

Make the approach

It’s very important that a Pick-Up Artist actually approaches and talks to people. It’s seen as unnatural in our society to be sociable, particularly in this age of the smartphone, but it’s the only way to make a good impression. Do not wait to be introduced.

 

Sexualise the interaction

Without being over the top, I’m not shy about telling people about my particular kink (submissive, BDSM). I make a joke about it and this seems to get people interested, whatever their sexuality. It is disingenuous to pretend to be something that you’re not.

 

Instant date

Rather than take their number and wait to go out on a date, why not go for a coffee there and then? This seems to be a more honest approach to relationships.
 

Would you describe yourself as a Pick-Up-Artist? If you have any other tips you'd like to share with the Fetish.com kinky community, go ahead and spill. And, if you're not signed up already, join for free below by hitting 'Sign up now!'

 

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