I’m a big believer in keeping kink private - at least in public and very vanilla settings. The last thing I want to do is out myself, my Dominant, or my other kinky friends. That being said: I love the “dirtiness” of public kink because nobody but us knows what’s going on.
Whether it’s a mindfuck to anticipate when you’re together again or you play out a fantasy in words, no one has to know what you’re furiously typing and why you have that evil grin on your face. Tip: I always try to keep my screen from being seen, but I figure if someone’s going to be so nosy as to read over my shoulder, they deserve the shock they get.
Clearly, this is for a Dominant to assign and a submissive to complete. Edging or full orgasm, as long as you’re fairly quiet, no one will know what you’re doing in that stall. Note: Add to the fun by sending pictures of wet fingers, creamy cocks, or soaked pussies.
Don’t leave anal plugs in for too long, especially if you’re new to being plugged. And if you don’t usually wear underwear, this is the time to put them on. I once wore a plug with a skirt and no panties and nearly outed myself towards the end when my muscles relaxed. Note: Taking it out in the bathroom is like masturbating in the bathroom - as long as you’re quiet, no one will know, but it feels kinky to do it.
Wear a rope harness. I love rope bondage. The squeeze feels like a hug to me. If one of you is the pro and has the time, pull out the rope and get to work. Wear it under your clothes and no one is the wiser. Note: If you truly want to keep it a secret, don’t wear low-cut clothes or sheer fabric.
Choose collars that look like jewellery. I know some submissives who have more collars than pairs of shoes, and I know others who only have one and it never comes off. For those who want something discreet but want to feel owned out in the vanilla world, get a collar that looks like jewellery or choose a pretty necklace and treat it like a collar. Note: There’s nothing wrong with wearing a collar that is obviously a collar. However, most people prefer not to deal with looks or awkward questions from family and co-workers.
Some of these toys have an actual remote control and others are powered by mobile applications. People may wonder why one of you is twitching or panting, but from the outside looking in, no one else will know it’s because you’re being teased mercilessly by your partner. Note: Try it at home first to test the volume. Ours seems loud to me, but he says he can’t hear it at all. Guess what’s coming to dinner with us next time we go out?
There are some even simpler ways to indulge in public kink that don’t require any sexual acts or special equipment:
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