Online dating can be frustrating when you're a deviant; it's hard to tell from someone's carefully-angled holiday photos whether they'll freak out the first time you ask them to choke you. Fetishlovers is a kinky dating website that promises an end to that problem - but does it succeed?
 

Getting started on Fetishlovers

Once you've created an account, it's time to start looking for people who share your fetishes. Members are listed along with the time in minutes it could take you to reach them – a pretty nifty little feature reminiscent of Grindr, Tinder and other location-based hookup apps.

The chat rooms are active and welcoming as far as they go. However, a lot of the more kinky links on the homepage promise chat opportunities which do not materialise immediately. Instead, users are taken to other websites which in turn involve yet another signup – not exactly the kind of sexy, spontaneous fun most of us are after.
 

Cost of Fetishlovers 

So far, this is all free – although the signup page does send you straight to the subscription page -- but what do you get if you want to become a paying member? Like a lot of dating sites, fetishlovers.com gives access to unlimited messages and flirts once you've bought a membership.

You'll also be able to see full-sized photos instead of the smaller images on other members' profiles. Just as importantly, you'll be able to tell who's been viewing your profile. You'll also get a free membership to cam site Alt Cams, which seems to be Fetishlovers major advertiser.

As well as the usual stuff about your appearance, eye colour (useful on a site where your profile photo might be of your bum), zodiac sign and so on, your profile lets you explain your current living arrangements. Additionally, you can enter your BDSM preferences and what you do for a living. Members on Fetishlovers are as vague or as detailed as they want to be. But most people are willing to loosen up a bit when they trust and recognise you as a regular visitor.

Play partners can be found from the homepage using four search options: Near Me, New Members, All Members or Featured Members. Given that Fetishlovers has been running for a few years now, the New Members search is a good way to find people whose profiles are still likely to be active.
 

Social networking on Fetishlovers

Hook-up requests on profiles are common, with a huge proportion of members just looking for fun. Many others mention having just got out of a long-term relationship and a significant number want a friends with benefits arrangement. Social networking is not a major part of the fetishlovers.com experience, but if you’re hoping to get your fetish out during some kinky no-strings sex, then you’ll be spoilt for choice.

While you can add users as friends, choose to like their profile and send a flirt, organised community-building activities are a bit thin on the ground. Consequently, you'll either have to trawl through profiles or create your own chat room for the best chance of attracting people who are kinky in your kind of way.
 

You're in good company on Fetishlovers

You’re amongst users who share your BDSM passions, so don’t be shy in sending messages. No one is scared of perverts on a fetish dating site like Fetishlovers. Indeed, it’s practically a prerequisite. Without the anxiety that face-to-face interaction can cause, being proactive on a kinky dating site is far less daunting than in real life.

When another user is just your type, ask for what you want and see if you connect. Just remember that, like plenty of mainstream dating sites, the response rate amongst men is far higher than women. As a result, you’ll probably need to be slightly more persistent with the girls initially.

 

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