Kinky Dating Reviews: Fetster.com - Although finding a perfect match is never easy, fetish dating sites make it far simpler to at least find people who are interested in the same lifestyle as you. People who won’t be shocked at your bedroom antics. Social acceptance for the BDSM community may be a distant dream, but sites like fetster.com are building a global network of users drawn together by their love of kinkiness.

Fetish Dating Reviews: Fetster.com


The site aims to unite people for any number of reasons, providing a glossary for newbies to disclose the more cryptic BDSM terms. It’s all about inclusivity, so dating is just one aspect of this impressive site. Education and schmoozing are also a massive part of the fetster.com experience, with the various groups fostering a very intimate, social atmosphere. With such a supportive community spirit, there’s no pressure to link up with specific members in order to be part of it, and you don’t feel guilty about having to pass if someone isn’t right for you.

Both the US and the UK are well represented, with plenty of events, dates and groups from each. Fetster.com also has some nice little touches, like a positive piece of writing about BDSM in the mainstream and an extremely well stocked photo album of available users. Either browse around picking out hotties to meet, or if shyness overwhelms you, just enjoy looking at the pictures and getting a feel for the site until you’re ready to make contact.

In another area, blogs give members the chance to introduce themselves, vent about their problematic love lives or offer advice. Posts are tagged by areas of interest and a list of tags enables you find pet subjects quickly.

The groups are also a place to explore specialisations; these cover many areas of BDSM and most have witty little subheadings signposting their purpose. ‘Wee like Pee’ is one of the best, used by the Waterworks group, just click on the Join Group button to be part of it.

Kinky Dating Reviews: Fetster.comOnce you enlist and begin to interact with the community your profile displays a timeline. This includes your joining date, any photos you upload, the groups you join and profile edits. Just like Facebook each entry has a clickable link, making it far easier to keep track and participate. You can send virtual gifts in the form of cute little images, follow people, or add someone as a friend if you’d like to keep an eye on them.

With such a plethora of options, you can practically tailor-make a search for your next playmate. Choose from a vast array of orientations, sexuality, gender and location. When your ideal partners are revealed, you can select one from the latest profiles uploaded, or those who are currently online or featured members. There is also a genuine attempt to match you up on more than fetish alone, you are asked about your willingness to relocate, attitude to drugs, income and education.

Most members have photos and a fully formed profile, but a significant number still have to pluck up the courage or make the effort. However, that is less of a problem here because the signup section demands certain answers before letting you proceed, meaning stats and basic details are usually complete.

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Fetster.com costs nothing and you can move around the site joining groups and sending chat messages as much as you like. The site owners are keen to stress how carefully they treat your data and users can decide for themselves what information to publicise and to whom.

On signing up you are presented with a huge list of questions, some people might find this slightly dull but it’s a great way of making you focus on what you’re after and it helps the site match you up appropriately. You can go into detail about the kind of fetish you have, what you’re looking for and who you’d like to do it with.

Security is high, you have to agree to a number of disclaimers about taking responsibility for your personal safety and also that your photos are legal. Again it’s time consuming, but by adopting a business-like approach to safeguarding privacy, fetster.com demonstrates a real commitment to their kinky users.

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If you're a girl and the admin wants you, he will go into your account, change it to say you are fake, have you removed, and he will have enough information about you to harass you himself. Which he has been doing to me for days. He clearly thinks all submissives must obey him or else they aren't real. I gave him everything he asked for to prove I am real, and it was never enough. He said I am problematic to the lifestyle because I refused to let him invade my personal life. What a joke. And to think this guy takes care of kids??? Yikes. Don't go on this site if you want any type of privacy. You do not have any saftey or privacy on Fetster. I don't like the idea of a site where the admin can change your profile and screw you over without warning, no matter how genuine you are. I hope they get shut down.

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They track and log your information you for their personal use and not for marketing purposes. They claim, even if you browse anonymously, they can invade your privacy despite appearing that they're against it. This website is a very high level phishing website. Watch out. The owners are fraudulent people.

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