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SnugglepussJV
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Never in my life I thought I’d be involved in a. D/S relationship . being a control freak in’normal’ life being a sub is out of this world, however whilst I think I understand ‘sub space’ please can someone explain how he gets me to multiple orgasm by a simple touch Anywhere on my body ? They are so intense that after play I am truly drained. He explains that I am exceptional and he’s never experienced that before, he loves it as do I.  I just wish I could explain how it happens! Also any advice on how to be a perfect sub :)

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I believe the perfect sub is a myth. However BDSM relationships (and all, I suppose) are nourished by communication. Communicate truthfully and constructively with your Dom to make your dynamic the best it can be :) 

Welcome to the BDSM community and our fetish.com forum too!

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Darksideofagemin
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congrats on your new life choice. Yes communication is absolutely the key to being happy and fulfilled. How and why it happens is up to you really. Sex is a release and however it happens as long as their is trust and communication it will continue to happen. Congrats again 

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SnugglepussJV
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Thanks .. yes I’m learning I have to be honest and communicate with him as he does me .. he’s taking each experience with me one at a time and then he brings me back to ‘reality’  .. I think I’m still trying to understand how he is able to give me multiple orgasms with a single touch whether at my neck or a whisper in my ear ... is this something subs experience  ?

i know I’ve entered subspace but it’s the bits I don’t feel aware of that blow my mind .. as a newbie to this I just find him magic 

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Darksideofagemin
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I can’t tell you if it’s normal. I’ve only ever had one true sub before and I was more worried about me than her. She liked things and I didn’t provide cause I didn’t listen. But it was still fun for both and we ended it because of life pretty much. If he can do that for you he thankful cause that’s what I am looking for lmao

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SnugglepussJV
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I’m very thank ful .. :)

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