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Am I bisexual?

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(Repost: sorry mods ❤️ I think this question fits this cat. better)

 

I think I'm bisexual, like without a doubt, but I have never been with a woman before. I think I've been into girls after I started watching porn and a lot of it is lesbian porn. I sometimes prefer to watch lesbian bdsm porn bcos they are less intimidating than a man is. (I think this has to do with my past sexual abuse.) I have had lesbian fantasies my whole life, even as a kid. Although I definitely like men more, I think I like girls too. But not in a everyday kind of way, just in kinky ways. 

 

My daddy will be with his primary sub the next time we meet. I told him about my nervousness of it bcos I've never been with a woman. He told me not to worry... but I can't help it! Now I'm seriously questioning if I'm even bi and have I been lying to myself?

 

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Hi Candy I think you may be bisexual as you seem to enjoy watching females. I use to think I was bisexual so I let another guy have a go at me but turned out in straight :-) my point is you won't know until you try
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Well you're literally bicurious with some strong inklings of attaction. It's a big spectrum and you seem keen to explore, so go for it and find out for sure. Trepidation is normal. X
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With a lot of kinks they excite the hell out of us & change our whole mind set right upto the point where we cum then suddenly it’s gone until next time. For that moment in time that is the only thing we desire to edge us to that point. I can’t imagine anything more amazing than a Domme taking control of me but I wouldn’t want to be in a full time relationship with a girl. Don’t label yourself & don’t put any pressure on yourself. If something turns you on in an instant that doesn’t mean that’s your permanent sexual preference. If you’re not happy then don’t do anything you don’t want to do however after a few drinks & when you’re relaxed you may feel differently...just don’t pressure yourself, this is about having pleasurable fun & remember you’re allowed to say no!
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mshopey
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I answered on the other thread so copying here too... Try it. Don’t label it. If you like it then you like it. Don’t stress. You won’t be attracted to every woman you meet any more than you are to every man. Don’t force it but enjoy it if it turns you on. Threesomes are also a very different dynamic to one on one. X
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Sexuality is seldom a one dimentional label going from straight to gay/lesbian but think more like a multi dimentional graph [ i realise i am asking to imagine something the human brain cant really comprehend any thing more than 3 dimentions]. There is lots of different aspects as a sexuality literaly describes what you are attracted to and if you really wanted you could say your fetishes are your sexuality too. Long story short, my advice to you is dont bother with the labels or catigorizations try it and decide if it is for you. If you sleep with a woman and decide you liked it for what ever reason then imagine the doors it can open, after all the human race is one of few mammals that have sex just for the fun of it so do what you love and be happy!
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Sandro
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you might be kidding yourself on

sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality

but all you can do is try it and if you dont like it

then you dont need to do it again


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