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Masochists are my 'type'- seeking advice

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teslamania
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Recently, I noticed a pattern to things I enjoy in media. Though a masochist myself, I very much like seeing masochists and masochism in TV and movies - seeing someone react to pain with enjoyment, laughter, etc. is a big turn-on. But I know I'm not a sadist myself, as the thought of inflicting pain does nothing for me, and if the - ahem - receiving party is not enjoying the pain I'm downright uncomfortable-to-grossed out. But for some reason when someone displays masochism in media, I'm instantly endeared to their character and also Feeling Feelings. As an added confusing bonus, it's often in a non-sexual context, like when someone reacts this way during a fight or whilst being tortured or interrogated. Where does that land me, kink-wise? I have a couple running theories, not the least of which is just "masochistic voyeur/voyeurist masochist", but I just wanted an outsider opinion. :lgbt:

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Being a masochistic sub I love seeing other subs receive pain, it is totally totally sexual for me, it turns me on & excites me & sometimes sets my next mental challenge for myself but I only like seeing it in a fetish setting not in the media etc. I do understand the non-sexual thing though because I was a Domme for many years & although I loved it, it was an immense thrill for me. It was amazing & I was good in that role & even though it excited me in a very thrilling way it was not particularly overly sexual for me.
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MissTillysue
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As a sadistic domme I love to watch other dom/mes do their thing. Its interesting and exciting for me and also kind of comforting that I'm not the only person who likes to inflict pain. I think there may be a bit of the voyeur in all of us

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Fimus
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I have always seen myself as 100% sub, but recent events have made consider switching and I have found that I would love to do to others all that I want done to me because it means I get a vicarious sub experience. But I would absolutely insist on that person being completely aware of they would be in for (I can be intense) and that they do it because they would enjoy it
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