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Hi I'm a 33 yr old female new to exploring my kinky sub side.
In all my years I've never tried anal or even had my asshole touched. So I'm a complete anal virgin but have a fantasy that really turns me on of having my tight virgin asshole trained. Rectal thermometer after or during a spanking, butt plugs with or without tails, fingers, etc etc.

The taboo nature of my butt being used turns me on, embarrasses me but also scares me as I think it's going to hurt. 

Anyone who can share their experiences with anal play? Any advise on where to start when you're completely new to it? 

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Get some plugs start small lots of lube and go up from there
analfunextreme
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you need to start simple to try in the shower just testing it a bit with one finger just to get use to the feeling. you dont want to rush straight into toys
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I started with small butt plugs, make sure you get plenty of lube inside you, it feels really nice when it comes back out
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Kinkykupple
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Small vibrating butt plug and plenty of lube, then you can progress, hopefully quite quickly. If you like it you won't look back .
dan1903
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Same here, start small and plenty of lube. Good advice to start with fingers to get used to the sensation. And then a whole new world opens up. Good luck. 

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Use plenty of lube and start small! If you try and shove something huge up there or don't have enough lube then it will just hurt and put you off.
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This use plenty of lube and start small, a finger then 2 and so on! Do let him just force it in as you won’t enjoy it
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On 9/13/2017 at 12:07 PM, KinkyBinky said:

Hi I'm a 33 yr old female new to exploring my kinky sub side.
In all my years I've never tried anal or even had my asshole touched. So I'm a complete anal virgin but have a fantasy that really turns me on of having my tight virgin asshole trained. Rectal thermometer after or during a spanking, butt plugs with or without tails, fingers, etc etc.

The taboo nature of my butt being used turns me on, embarrasses me but also scares me as I think it's going to hurt. 

Anyone who can share their experiences with anal play? Any advise on where to start when you're completely new to it? 

The  best way is to definitely start small as everyone has said, use plenty of lube and make sure that if it hurts to stop....and make sure he understands that....once you do damage to you rectum it is hard to repair.  It will not self lube so the best thing is to put the tube tip on the hole and squirt it in then put plenty on the outside.  A finger at first then you can go up from there...I started with a finger then used a rounded end hairbrush, after that you can find other items that will fit easily inside of your rectum...try then first you willl enjoy it and then let him or whom ever do it.  I have used many different things and have found total enjoyment in this play time. 

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Use something smooth that gradually widens. The neck of a wine bottle is good.  Slowly work it and soon you will be surprised how streached you are. 

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A word of caution around glass - I know wine bottles are tough but I'd be inclined to look for something made specifically for the job in this instance - that's a trip to A&E you don't want for sure! 

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Johnnythemadmuffer
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I agree with what Victoria says don't use glass. It's dangerous and how embarrassing if you had to go to a+e.use plenty of lube and practice on yourself fingers etc then if your comfortable try a toy.whatever you do don't let a guy ram his cock up without lube you will suffer pain and it will put you off it for good. All the best x Johnny
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