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All I seem to be getting when I start conversations with most of the females on here is them trying to get me to other websites if I want pornsites I know where to find them in sometimes wonder if there are any real women that aren't either bots or stammers or trying to get you to join other sites 

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leocadio
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Hi Mat357.  Thanks for this.  I posted yesterday about how to report suspected fake profiles or spammers.  Here's a link to my thread.  

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I get that alot from all kinds of people lol, it's not a great site for dating in my opinion. I came here hoping to meet genuine people like me and make some friends. I always thought i was some kind of freak for some of my fetish thoughts and voicing them on here would help.... im no better off..... Thinking it's about time to leave here and keep all to myself.
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leocadio
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Sorry you feel that way S3xmad, I don't doubt your experience here for a second, but I will say that there are a lot of genuine kinksters here despite that. As I said in my post, it's virtually impossible to stop spammers and we go to a lot of effort to stop them. However, when it comes down to personal interaction between users, we rely on the community to weed these fuckers out and let us know.  Cheers. 

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How do you know who's real or not?, the chat rooms the worst (in the day anyway), trying to interact on there is like trying to interact in a conversation with the demented in Tesco's or in the dole cue.
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On 10/8/2017 at 7:39 PM, Mat357 said:

All I seem to be getting when I start conversations with most of the females on here is them trying to get me to other websites if I want pornsites I know where to find them in sometimes wonder if there are any real women that aren't either bots or stammers or trying to get you to join other sites 

Hi there folks, my experience her eon the site has been completely the opposite to the experiences that Mat357 has had. Most of the women I have messaged, interacted with and taken any time to get to know have been some of the nicest, kindest and most genuine people you could hope to meet on any site. Yes like any dating site, vanilla or otherwise there will always be scammers and trolls out there, but they do not make up the mainstay of the people I have met and they are fairly easy to weed out. I can empathise with the experiences some people on the site like Mat357 or S3xmad have had, but this has not been my experience and I am grateful to the site for allowing me to meet and make not only new pretends but a new and extraordinary life partner.

 

Chatrooms are not for everyone and most of the time they are simply good places to meet people and start private messages that are less frenetic and hard to follow than the activity in the rooms themselves, which I can rarely ever keep up with myself.

 

I hope you both have far better experiences on the site from here on our and I can guarantee you both there area  wealth of very genuine and fascinating men and women on the site who aren't trying to scam you or after your money.

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I've not been on here for long but have met a mix of people. ,Some get annoyed that I don't drop everything to go meet them, add them on other social sites or engage in cybersex (not my thing )...but for the most part they have been really nice and even some that were expecting more have settled in to a nice friendship. The good ones make up for the others 😊
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leocadio
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1 hour ago, S3xmad said:

How do you know who's real or not?, the chat rooms the worst (in the day anyway), trying to interact on there is like trying to interact in a conversation with the demented in Tesco's or in the dole cue.

These days fakes act in many weird and surprisingly different ways. Many of them write directly with unrealistic propositions to try and get hold of your email address, or they may try to get you to visit external websites.  If you receive a message from someone who asks you for your email address early on in a conversation or writes very poorly, be suspicious.  In case of suspicion, always report the profile and we’ll look into it.  

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I experienced same but just dismiss outright. I’ve since met a woman on here and I am having a ball with her (literally). It’s like everything there’s no perfect so you deal with the shit and enjoy the sublime. I’m in constant contact with a few guys too. You’ll always get people trying to exploit and get money out of you. Part of life now unfortunately. But I have to say there’s some real genuine people on here well worth getting to know ;D

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