Thank You for looking..
i’m not looking for one offs, i don’t meet straight away, i’m looking to get to know You and what You expect from me so i can fully submit to You..
i’m g, i’m submissive, extremely submissive, i have been for over twenty years.. i’m looking to be entirely committed to You, but in return i’m looking for a reciprocal arrangement. i need to feel wanted and loved as a submissive and to entirely trust You. i’m not looking for players, i’m not looking for one offs. i need to have things to look forward too, i need to know when i’ll be seeing and serving You again. i need consistency.
i’m not a swinger, i’m not looking to sleep my way through the site…i obviously enjoy vanilla sex like everyone else but kink is always my preference. it would be nice to meet one special person, or one special couple who appreciate my submissive needs. Ideally i’d like You to be Dominant, not necessarily all of the time but definitely when it counts.
i’m looking to be entirely devoted to You, to establish a connection and an understanding. i’d love to form a relationship which to all intents and purposes looks vanilla to those on the outside although we obviously know differently.
Now the shit stuff… i’ve been hurt, hurt too many times now and i’m not sure i can keep going through that. Yes i’d love to be owned again in the future… but i’m not looking to be owned one day and then disowned the next. i’m looking for someone who appreciates the complexities of ownership and the need for communication, i have emotions like everyone else and they’ve been destroyed in recent years.
i’m genuine, honest and trustworthy. i’m single and have nothing to hide and i’m happy to meet for a social too see if we might be on the same wavelength.
Some important things…
TRUST.. i think trust is THE most important thing. i need to trust someone fully in order to submit fully. It really is that simple. i’m willing to put myself in some compromising situations which totally depend on a bond between us.
HONESTY.. Close to and alongside trust is honesty. Please be honest, i’m open and honest about everything and if You can’t afford me the same courtesy i really do not want to know. i’ve nothing to hide, i really hope You don’t too. Please don’t lie to me, i cannot abide liars.
i will NOT accept a friend invite without chatting first and establishing some friendly banter… asking to be a friend without talking is likely to get You blocked..
i’m verified, i’m a paid up member and i have face photos which i keep private. This is a very private thing to me and certainly not something everyone would understand, i’m not looking to be “outed”.. my submission doesn’t happen overnight, it requires time. i’m unlikely to meet You right now or at the drop of a hat, even less so now. i’m submissive, i’m not stupid or a doormat. Firstly please talk to me like You’d talk to anyone else, everything else comes over time.
i work, like a lot.. but i’m looking to change this and i do have free time in the evenings and at weekends.. i rarely have any weekdays off unfortunately.. hopefully this will change over the next year.. i have my own place, it’s pretty small and the walls are thin, ha.. but i can accommodate.. i can also travel, i drive and i’m happy to come to You, or meet at a hotel.. (i know somewhere that’s ideal)..
i have been submissive for a long time and i’ve been fortunate to experience a lot over the years. i’ve served Dominant Ladies and Dominant Couples… i’ve experienced everything from mild to severe Domination and i enjoy the differences that people bring. i’m well versed in submitting and i’d like to think nothing shocks me anymore. i imagine i am too extreme for most people but please don’t let that put You off.
Please do not hesitate to get in touch whether You are experienced or just interested in kink and bdsm, i am always willing to answer any questions openly and truthfully.
i enjoy all aspects of bdsm, serving, being controlled, doing as i’m told, rules, protocol, , punishment and . i am yet to use my safeword and have never said “no” to anything sane. i do and always will remain polite, respectful, courteous and thankful whilst serving. Although i am happiest serving whilst made to dress like a slut i am also happy to serve whilst naked and . i’m clean and always shaved for meets..
Interests include but are not limited to..
.. i am a bit of a slut, i like being made to endure for Your amusement. i like to be pushed hard, i’d like to be made to wear Your marks… i’ve a particular interest in cbt, i hope You might too..
.. i’m an odd thing, i enjoy being humiliated, i think it’s the lack of control.. i find being made to dress slutty humiliating, and i enjoy how that makes me feel.. i also quite like the cnc and f***d bi bring, it’s hard to explain and not everyone will get it but for me it’s about doing as i’m told or doing things i’m made to..
Closeness.. i love to be touched, stroked, to have my hair played with.. it doesn’t always need to be about the extreme.. The After care is really important too, i would like to feel loved as Your submissive, beat me but hold me afterwards. But After care is not just immediate, after care is also about when we are apart and involves communication and talking about feelings and insecurities that may crop up..
Finally i have a stoma, it saved my life, i’m not ashamed of it or embarrassed by it… but if it bothers You it might be best not to message thanks..
Anyway thank You for reading, if You got this far and might like to chat please put “sub slut” in the subject bar so i know You’ve not nodded off..
Thanks.. hi

BDSM Play Partner18 to 60 years ● 170km around UK, Newcastle upon Tyne 3 weeks ago

I’m supposed to meet a friend at the local watering hole. When I arrive, he’s nowhere to be found. I order a drink at the bar. It’s a bourbon kind of night, so I get a couple of fingers of Maker’s Mark. There’s a band playing. They’re loud, but good. Currently playing a cover of a classic rock song. I think it was Thin Lizzie’s “Boys are Back in Town.” I decide to text my buddy to see when he’ll be here. He texts me back that he’s not gonna make it tonight. I’m kinda pissed. I don’t like drinking alone and I was in the mood to have a few.

I look around the place to see if I recognize anyone. No one from the office, no neighbors, no one I know from anywhere. I noticed you, though. Leaning against a wall. You were much younger than me. I’m 55 and you looked to be in your late 20’s. You had a shapely body, barely clad in a short skirt and cropped top. By the time I got you your eyes, I noticed you were looking right in my direction. I felt a little lump in my throat. I looked behind me to see if perhaps you were looking at someone else. It didn’t appear that was the case as I looked back at you and you were smiling and shook your head a little. You seemed to mouth the words “yes, you.”

You were poised against the wall listening to the music, but looking straight at me as I made my way over. I leaned in and smelled your scent as my mouth went straight to your ear. My hand was immediately on your thigh and sliding upward, under your skirt. My fingers detect your already wet as your juices are starting to drip between your thighs as my fingers near your triangle. No panties, good girl! My first digit slides easily into your waiting slit. I retract and then 2 fingers penetrate on my next entry. I have my body pressed tightly against yours to hide what I am doing. I work quickly with ful thrusts and your body buckles at the knees as you climax at my touch.

A booth empties and we slide in quickly before the waitress can clear the table. You have small beads of sweat on your forehead from our frenzied first encounter. The waitress clears the table and we order a couple of drinks. I know I want to explore your body more. You’re sitting across from me. The table is small. Our hands are under it and you grab my cock over my clothes. You can tell my cock was already hard, as you run your fingers over it. Outlining my shape. I slip my hand back under your skirt. All the other eyes in the room are looking at the band, so we can play without caution. My fingers slip between your still moist thighs. I slip my finger beyond your gash and wrap my wrist up so my finger can rest on the entrance to your ass. Your eyes light up and your thighs tense around my wrist. I smile at you and your grip with your legs loosens. I go back to your cunt and finger fuck again. This time with 3 digits. We forgot about the waitress and she returns to see your legs apart with my hand up your skirt and your head lolled back, ready to climax. She quietly drops off the drinks, gives me a grin and winks as she saunters away. You tense and your body quivers as you erupt into orgasm again.

I look into those eyes and I think I’m seeing “fuck me” in their expression. I lean across the table and tell you I want you, but you say “I’ve never done anything like this before.” I tell you I want to go to your place, but you say, “seriously, I’ve never done anything like this before.” I am aching to get you back to your place and I think you’re resisting. I’m starting to lose confidence as I thought you wanted me badly. Again, you say “I’ve never done anything like this before, but I don’t want to wait to get to my place!” You motion your eyes toward the hall leading to the bathrooms. You say “I’ve never been fucked in a bar, but I want you now!” You grab me by the hand and before I know it we’re in the ladies room! You push me into an open stall and shut the door. Your hands are on my zipper and my bulging cock pops out of my Lucky Brand 🍀 jeans! I love how the fly of the jeans has the words LUCKY YOU sewn in. I’m thinking I’m the lucky one as you slide your lips over the tip of my cock. My cock head is being bumped by your piercing and your lips and tongue are driving me crazy with desire as one of your hands holds my shaft and the other cradles my balls.

I nearly jizzed in that moment, but you backed off so I wouldn’t. You pulled all of me out and your saliva glistened on my manhood. You then moved your lips to the base of my cock and began sucking gently on my balls. Your tongue slipped a little lower and gently ran against my ass. My body feels amazing under your control. I’m mesmerized and lost in the moment. My body has never felt like this before. You say “this dick is mine!” I put up no resistance.

Your next maneuver is bending over and exposing your ass and pussy to me and saying “fuck me doggy and don’t pull out until your cock explodes!” There are some women in the bathroom peeking through the cracks in the door. Some of them have phones out recording. Some of them are giggling and pointing.

I don’t care. I have my orders and do just as you commanded. I start slowly and rhythmically. My face is starting to sweat. I grab you by the throat. I increase intensity and start fucking as hard and fast as I can. I know I’m hitting you in a good spot as your legs start to shake and your torso quivers. I’m aching to cum with you simultaneously. I tell you I’m ready to bust right before I unleash my load in your pussy! I groan. You moan. And our bathroom observers seemed to have enjoyed what they could see through the cracks in the stall door! We rearrange our clothes and start to exit as an unknown women in the bathroom says “you go girl!” Another says “I want what she’s having!” You blush a little as you pull me out of the ladies room!


I’m not sure what to expect next. I’m so hot from our experience in the bathroom. You lead me to the exit door. The cool night air feels good. I have no idea where we’re going, but you lead the way. My mind is still buzzing from fucking you. I count in my head that you’ve had three major orgasms—against the wall, in the booth and in the bathroom! I wonder what’s next? Where are you taking me?

Before I know it, you’re pushing me through the door of what has to be your place. You turn on the lights and say “ take off all your clothes now dammit!” I thought I was in control. I thought you were shy, but something has been awakened in you and you are now calling the shots. My dick is instantly hard! I’ve never felt so out of control!

I’m mesmerized. As you come toward me with the “I’m gonna do naughty things to you” look in your eyes, I’m eager with anticipation. You tell me I have to use nothing but my mouth to make you cum again and you tie my hands behind my back. You push me to my knees and strip off your clothes. Then you bend your beautiful, naked body over a chair and place your pussy and ass right in my face!


It’s like a dream come true. I wanted my face in that pussy so badly. You were still a little sticky from my load at the bar, but that pussy tastes so fine! Even better than what I remember licking off my fingers in the bar. I know you told me I could only use my mouth, but my mouth and nose work together to tickle your pussy and ass at the same time. My tongue switched between holes. You’re grinding against my face. Pushing your body against my face so hard, I can barely breathe. I don’t care. I’ve got a job to do and I’ll surely make you cum—or pass out trying!

Our experience has been hot and intense. You’re barely able to remain standing. You move to the floor and position your rear end up in the air so my face can hit the target again. My hands are still behind my back, but I’m up for the task. I bury my face again and you quiver in ecstasy. I love the way your thighs shake and your body convulses when you climax. I can tell it was super intense as your body shakes for a few minutes before starting to calm down again.

You untie me and I wrap my arms around you. I want to feel all of your naked body against mine. You lay your head against my chest. I know you’re tired from the intensity of our experience. But you see my cock is still hard and you feel compelled to do something about it.

You start slowly with your hand. You sit behind me with your legs straddling mine and your chest pushed tight up against me. I love the way your tits feel against my back. Your wet pussy is brushing against my ass. You reach around my body and start masturbating me. I’m rock hard and your touch is amazing. You start stroking, slowly at first. Your pace increases. I feel your magic touch. It’s hypnotic as I watch your hand expertly control my manhood! You give special attention to the head as you know that’s my special spot. I can feel the warmth of your breath on my neck. I can’t see your face, but I can tell you know I’m lost in your grip!

I want to make this last forever. After a while you let go of my cock and rotate around my body. I am sitting on the floor with my legs spread apart a little and my cock pointed upwards. You position your pussy on my cock and wrap your legs around my back. Your arms d
over my shoulders as you start bouncing up and down. Slowly at first, but gaining speed as you go. You push me back so I’m lying on my back and you are straddling my body in cowgirl. I love the look on your face as you roll your head back and do all of the work. Bouncing and grinding your pussy on my man meat. It feels so amazing! You know I’m enjoying every second of your hot body on mine. Your tits are bouncing with every stroke on my shaft. I’m engrossed in the moment as you pleasure my body with yours.

You look me in the face and say, “I’m not finished with you fuck toy!” I grin from ear to ear as you spin your body while still grinding on my cock. You are now facing away from me. You rearrange your body to be on your knees and are fully engaged in fucking me in reverse cowgirl. The view is amazing! Your tight pussy is gripping my cock as you bounce up and down. I have a perfect view of your pussy doing it’s work on my cock and your gorgeous ass as it bounces up and down. Fortunately my hands are free and I put one on each ass cheek. I give a squeeze and you scream “smack my ass, Daddy!” I nearly explode at your command! I smack your ass with my right hand. You say “smack it harder, Daddy!” I give it another smack. You squeal in delight as you’re riding me like the country girl you are!! I smack it some more. Your ass has a warm red glow. To your surprise, I let my finger slip in while you continue to ride me. It’s like your ass was drawing it in. I hold my hand steady with my finger straight out. As you bounce up and down with my cock sliding in and out of your pussy, my finger is simultaneously sliding in and out of your ass! Again, the view is amazing!

After a bit, I take one finger and make it two! It’s a little tight. You let out another erotic moan, but your body adjusts and your now riding my cock with your pussy and two fingers in your ass. You say you’ve engaged in a little ass play, but this the first time a guy has put anything in there. I say it sounds like “you’re an anal virgin, but I wanna change that tonight!” You don’t say anything, but keep riding my body. I push up against your back to lift your torso and ease my cock out of your pussy. You reach around and grab my cock as I try to position your ass on top of me. You expertly guide my cock to your hole as we slowly ease your ass onto the tip of my cock head. It’s amazing and I am ready to explode immediately! You can sense this and shout “not until I take more of you into my ass!” I immediately do everything within my control to refrain from cumming. The feelings in my body are so intense. But I must hold off to obey your command.

You slowly ease more of my shaft into you as you lower your body onto me. Your body is relaxing and my dick is able to go further. It feels amazing. You begin to bounce up and down slowly. Each time you take more of my manhood into your glorious ass. Pretty soon I’m half way in and you continue to work your magic. Both of our our bodies are trembling. We’re covered in sweat and each other’s fuck juices. It’s the most erotic experience I could ever imagine. You keep up the controlled motion of your body and more of my manhood is sinking into your ass!

You keep going until my dick is all the way in. You can feel my balls slapping against your ass cheeks as your ass rides my cock. You start pulling me further out with each bounce so I can eventually see the base of my cock tip when you are at the highest point and then my cock completely disappears into your body when your ass slaps my balls on your downward motion.

It’s the most amazing feeling, the most erotic view and my dick can’t contain itself! I tell you I’m gonna cum. You say “I want your load in my no longer virgin ass!” You’re screaming “fuck my ass daddy, fuck my ass!” It’s all over and I shoot my load. My dick is still inside you but my cum is beginning to ooze out and run slowly down my shaft. The view is so incredible!

It’s a perfect sight, Your ass and my dick covered in your juices and my jizz! I try to describe it to you, but you hand me your phone and say “take a pic before you pull out. I wanna see what you see!” I comply with the picture and you roll off my manhood. I hand you the phone so you can take a look and the smile on your face is amazing. You say “that’s so fucking hot, I’m making it my new phone screensaver!” We’re both spent, but you lay back against me and I spoon you with my naked body. The pieces fit together perfectly. I can hear your heavy breathing, but as we lay there with my arms wrapped around you, your breathing gradually slows to normal. You fall asleep in my arms. I’m not sure what to do. Do I stay the night? Or do I leave my number on a note asking you to please text me that pic of my dick in your ass and shoot me a message with the next time you can connect with me? Will I ever hear from you again? I realized I don’t even know your name. No matter what, I’ve just had the most amazing sexual experience of my life—and think it was the same for you!

NSA18 to 69 years ● 50km around USA, Muncie one month ago

Update: I am Conservative...that should make this easier for you.

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I WANT MY DARK FAIRY TALE

If you can't make time for me and make me a priority, please skip on by thanks.

Verified your girl is legit and real.

I DO NOT ENGAGE with married men. This is a hard limit and a huge turn off for me.

I don't friend many, I date fewer and I fuck even less. I accept nothing less than those who are deserving of myself and my time.

Not your part time or sometime girl. I'm a full time, all the time girl. Not your side or your main, I'm the ONLY one you entertain. So step back if you can't come correct. I'm too good to be wasted on low effort types.

Chubby girl...5'6" tall, 173lbs

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I'm a Princess/middle/kitten and a total Daddy's girl. Love to play, alot. Aching to hear that "Good Girl" from a great Daddy. I wanna be your good girl, your babygirl, your pet.
me, hate fuck me and tell me how I'm your perfect lil slut. Tell me how I'm a good girl through my tears when you give me a proper whipping with a riding crop. Hold me close giving me forehead kisses and snuggles afterwards.

Things non kink that I am into: DC, Marvel, Comic Cons/PAX, the zoo, aquarium, horseback riding, metal detecting, visiting the old growth forests, digging my own gemstones across the country, penny slots, card games, video games, and much more. I'm easy going and like to do anything as long as I have good company.

Seeking a Daddy Dom who will guide, nurture, teach and caregive but who also has bit of a darker more sadistic side. A perfect balance. I can get bratty and that's usually a good indicator that I need the attitude fucked right outta me with a good firm spanking to release the pent up stuff.

I'm wicked loyal, tenaciously protective, brutally honest and love fast and hard. I'm clingy and insecure and need reassurance and attention.

No kids, no heavy alcohol use, stable job. Not super high maintenance but I like pretty things. D/D free

Kinky Date30 to 50 years ● 100km around USA, Arlington one year ago

Looking for a Dom to train me as you see fit.Let me kneel before you head down by your feet let me lick 👅 suck you’re feet and toes.emphasized text

I am a male sub very shy I have been trained to keep my head down and to only speak when spoken to and never answer back. I am happy to be locked 🔒 in your collar to show your ownership of me. I last Mistress trained me to except maintenance punishments when she felt I need it. I have had a weeks training in Germany, where I had three dom’s to serve one male and two female. I was not spoken too as I could not speak Germany. I was stripped and put in to a neck collar and pad locked in. A leather body harness was then fastened tightly round my body. I was now there slave. My first morning was cleaning the house from top to bottom. They pointed to tell me to clean again it was not good enough. Food for me was oatmeal and nothing else. In the evening I was told to stand still and serve drinks when told which was different when I don’t understand. I think they started calling me names and humiliating me. Then I was punished with a hard long spanking on my bare bum with belt,wipe and crop leaving me in a lot of discomfort ,sore and bum feeling like it was on fire all very humiliating in front of people I did not know.
I know what to expect this time I am still shy but more obedient will not answer back. I will take my duties very seriously and not question your commands.
I am happy to dress as you say. Eat what I am given and not question punishment and
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Hope to start training with a new Dom soon.

BDSM/Fetish Family25 to 70 years ● 200km around UK, Harrogate 8 months ago

I’m a confident not cocky, calm, intelligent and down to earth guy, who loves great conversation and the simple pleasures in life, especially when it comes to walking, photography, cooking or a good boxset. I’m also naturally dominant, know what I want and like to be in control, but I am not controlling, nor am I pushy. Think of me as a gentleman, with a Dominant and kinky undercurrent.

I will always support, cherish and treat you as my equal, nor will I ever belittle or shout at you. However, I will use you for my pleasure (within agreed limits) and put you in your place when I feel it is appropriate.

I’m looking for someone who enjoys a mix of Ds and vanilla, who likes to be challenged and who challenges me, where trust and a mental connection are built organically, which would ideally lead to a friendship or LTR. I also live in the real world and appreciate we all have real life responsibilities and commitments.

For me, everything is about respect, trust, and being safe, sane and consensual (SSC). Additionally, it’s about structure, consistency, fulfilling her need to please, submit and having a deep mental connection with her Dom.

In terms of my Dominant side, I’m strict and demanding but also caring and imaginative, with a particular interest in the psychological side of Ds. For me, I love nothing more than building anticipation, seeing her relinquish control (within the agreed limits), mentally letting go and her body following. However, she always knows that she is in a safe place and will be given lots of aftercare, TLC and cuddles.

My interests are varied and ever evolving. I particularly like impact play, including spanking, floggers, canes, paddles, belts, whips, crops. As well as mental BDSM, dressing to please, restraint, collars, belts, rope, gags, hoods, orgasm control, protocol, service positions, giving oral and outdoor play. I also enjoy rough play and CNC on occasion, although nothing at the extreme end of the scale.

Always happy to have a conversation or meet for a coffee without any expectation or pressure.

BDSM Play Partner150km around UK, Winchester 2 years ago

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