Dominants, Submissives & Switches

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Description

No matter your role — Dom, sub, switch, or still figuring it out — this group is your space to connect, ask questions, and share experiences. Let’s talk about dynamics, power shifts, and what it really means to give or take control.

Cdsub-3144 created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches

09.03.2026 22:00:03
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Nottinghamshire, England, looking for a domme to serve...... If only

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09.03.2026 16:17:15
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In Vegas trying to find some like minded ppl no luck yet

Gavinissubby created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches

09.03.2026 4:37:03
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I’m a submissive boy wanting to serve a dominant woman

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dmsubmis created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches

09.03.2026 1:14:35
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Looking for a Mistress to stretch me to my limit preferably close by

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02.03.2026 12:45:17
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Looking for subs who enjoy *** 👀😏

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Tobeused created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches

01.03.2026 19:26:05
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torontodanielle created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches

28.02.2026 12:19:43
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Looking for a dominant male who likes occasional cross dressers

A1d3nli created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches

28.02.2026 6:53:21
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Im looking for an experienced woman that can help me explore. I'm new to this site and exploring kinks in general. I love to please and would love a dominant woman to teach me.

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Blaze98 created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches

27.02.2026 2:14:17
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Me and my male partner are looking for an another male to rail him while i watch and command/talk you both through it!

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fastninja created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches

26.02.2026 21:21:53
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Mistress just informed me that she is taking me out for a 2 hour NAKED walk.I will bepartially shacked,hooded,collared and leashed.She will also be flogging me and more during the walk.Nervous YES....also very excited about it

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fastninja created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches

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Submissive

A submissive likes to be controlled, relishing someone else taking responsibility away from them. Some are subservient and submit willingly. Others are brattier and put up a fight. There are also submissives who will fight sometimes and be subservient at others. Submission can be confined to the bedroom or only taken out to BDSM and Fetish clubs and dungeons or it can used in all kinds of day to day situations. Some submissives chose to be subservient in all their roles, others take on submission to escape the responsibilities of work and family life. Submissives let someone else take control. They may have a list of rules to abide by set by their Dom/Domme. If rules are broken then there will be punishments too as well as rewards for good behaviour. Some submissives love to be naughty and punished, others want to be good and strive to do their best and be rewarded. Others will want a mix of the two. It isn’t all about humiliation and degradation for a submissive, unlike other bottoms they are more concerned with being subservient and giving over control to another person. .embed-container { position: relative; padding-bottom: 56.25%; height: 0; overflow: hidden; max-width: 100%; } .embed-container iframe, .embed-container object, .embed-container embed { position: absolute; top: 0; left: 0; width: 100%; height: 100%; }

Switch

Switch is the BDSM term for someone who isn’t always just Dominant or only submissive, they are a combination of the two. They enjoy being the top in a scene sometimes but are equally as comfortable being the bottom at other times. They have a real desire for both but may be more Dominant or more submissive. Switches don’t tend to have a 50/50 split Dom or sub. .embed-container { position: relative; padding-bottom: 56.25%; height: 0; overflow: hidden; max-width: 100%; } .embed-container iframe, .embed-container object, .embed-container embed { position: absolute; top: 0; left: 0; width: 100%; height: 100%; }

Dominant

Dominants like to be in control. Unlike BDSM tops or sadists, their need is not particularly to inflict pain but to be domineering and have control over another person. Some Doms/Dommes expect to be obeyed immediately and without questions. Others enjoy being tested, and having to show their dominance over the submissive who’s being bratty. There is no one way to be a Dominant. Dom/Dommes can also be sadists, tops, masters or riggers. Dominant is a huge category of BDSM made up of many very different people who all have one thing in common, their need to be in control. The D in the term BDSM stands for Dominance, therefore Dominants are an instrumental part of BDSM. .embed-container { position: relative; padding-bottom: 56.25%; height: 0; overflow: hidden; max-width: 100%; } .embed-container iframe, .embed-container object, .embed-container embed { position: absolute; top: 0; left: 0; width: 100%; height: 100%; }

Threads and discussions that include: Dominants, Submissives & Switches

Male Dominants For Male Submissives

gemini_man posted a topic in Gay BDSM & Kink

Though I'm bisexual and have plenty of experience in that regard on a more vanilla level, my experience with male dominants is fairly limited (though not deliberately so), so interested to hear from d ...

December 27, 2022
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Femdom Boundaries and Screening Submissives

clear_spring posted a topic in FemDom & Male Submission

For safety and consent reasons Dommes and dominants might benefit 100% to express boundaries and explore what happens before play too. We talk alot about sub boundaries and a few things here from my t ...

January 22
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Opinions from subs/switches on being shared

Deleted profile posted a topic in BDSM Forum

Would it turn you on to have a dom who would share you, or would it cause you to view him differently? Would you be into both MFM and cuckolding or would you draw the line at MFM? ...