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No matter your role — Dom, sub, switch, or still figuring it out — this group is your space to connect, ask questions, and share experiences. Let’s talk about dynamics, power shifts, and what it really means to give or take control.

LadyV
icon-wio LadyV created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 04.12.2025 7:19:35
  • BDSM
I'm not posting an ad. I figure it'd be nice in a D/s group to have a post that is just a discussion of D/s lifestyle experiences.

So, care to share your role(s), how long you've been into D/s, and your experiences of learning about and living the subculture and lifestyle?

Might make for some decent conversation.
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DaddyD0M
icon-wio DaddyD0M created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 03.12.2025 23:18:28
  • BDSM
New dom here, looking for a sub. Interested in DDlg, though not exclusively. Not interested in abdl.
DomForYou1960
icon-wio DomForYou1960 created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 03.12.2025 20:52:57
  • BDSM
I am new to the group and if you are wanting a Dom that’s strict but caring let me know
WillPrescott94
icon-wio WillPrescott94 created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 03.12.2025 20:30:34
  • BDSM
Dom here from the S Florida area near Jupiter looking for female sub…dm me if interested
MoeXo
icon-wio MoeXo created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 03.12.2025 0:56:22
  • BDSM
Hey guys, I'm dominant and looking for a submissive girl. Femboys are welcome too.
If anyone is interested, contact me in private messages.
Beauty7654
icon-wio Beauty7654 created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 03.12.2025 0:15:03
  • BDSM
Dm Mommy and let me what make you addicted to this lifestyle forever hehe 😈
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KB0909
icon-wio KB0909 created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 02.12.2025 21:59:44
  • BDSM
Hi everyone, I am a relatively inexperienced sub looking to learn more and hopefully find a Domme near the NH/MA area!
painslave68
icon-wio painslave68 created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 02.12.2025 11:39:18
  • BDSM
Hi all, im Steve, just joined the group. Im a mature male sub seeking a Domme in the Fylde coast area.
FootDomination101
icon-wio FootDomination101 created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 01.12.2025 22:28:16
  • BDSM
Hi all! Dom here interested in chatting to sub males, feel free to drop me a message
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MasterB0659
icon-wio MasterB0659 created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 01.12.2025 19:29:49
  • BDSM
Greetings all!!! New to this app, seems like the typical crowd of players and posers!!!
Maybe, I'll find what I'm looking for. Still waiting for someone I know from the past to speak up!!!!

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