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No matter your role — Dom, sub, switch, or still figuring it out — this group is your space to connect, ask questions, and share experiences. Let’s talk about dynamics, power shifts, and what it really means to give or take control.

Christopher350
icon-wio Christopher350 created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 20.01.2026 14:26:44
  • BDSM
🌞 all of you naughty boys and girls 😈
I've got some Free time in Portland today after 12pm do you have plans for the day?
cynthiajoy33
icon-wio cynthiajoy33 created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 18.01.2026 11:52:42
  • BDSM
i am looking for a mother/daughter like relationship. my daughter will be always in charge. Canton, Ohio area.
LikeMinglexxs5656, kink35ee
kink35ee
icon-wio kink35ee created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 17.01.2026 17:43:09
  • BDSM
Hey there everyone thought I would say hello to everyone x
Likewatervliet231623, chattis-hill980, SinfulAlphaSub
Trinidiva
icon-wio Trinidiva created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 17.01.2026 0:54:38
  • BDSM
I’ll sit on your face
Likemhtsakos, JohLatex, watervliet231623and 6 more…
Godessy
icon-wio Godessy created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 16.01.2026 15:29:51
  • BDSM
AS subs, what would be the biggest turn off for you in a dom?
LikeAvtarboy, Frenchies
Godessy
icon-wio Godessy created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 15.01.2026 22:17:59
  • BDSM
New godess in town
LikeAvtarboy, AlexOral
Frenchies
icon-wio Frenchies created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 14.01.2026 0:11:40
  • BDSM
Thanks for this group. Since getting married a few months back, one of the surprises has been to learn that while still a student my wife had a master to help her with self confidence. He apparently concentrated on obedience to the point where she trusted him so much that she accepted his orders and became completely submissive. When asked if she regretted that time she has admitted needing to be dominated (which definitely didn't occur to me before). Now that we both have full-time jobs there's no time for a regular dom to continue her training so the idea of a club is tempting. She wonders how she'd react with complete strangers but isn't against trying. So hesitating for the moment until deciding to forget everything or discovering the truth !
Christopher350
icon-wio Christopher350 created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 05.01.2026 10:51:35
  • BDSM
watervliet231623
icon-wio watervliet231623 created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 05.01.2026 6:59:14
  • BDSM
Question where do I start if I'm just starting out in BDSM
Domkey
icon-wio Domkey created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 02.01.2026 9:11:06
  • BDSM
How to find the right Submissive in California
Likegoonisaurus, Domkey
Domkey
icon-wio Domkey created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 01.01.2026 0:52:47
  • BDSM
elon-sie
icon-wio elon-sie created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 31.12.2025 13:40:15
  • BDSM
Mistress Caroline in playful mode - 2025 crypto-mystery finally revealed ))
elon-sie
icon-wio elon-sie created an entry in Dominants, Submissives & Switches
  • 30.12.2025 10:11:51
  • BDSM

Similar to Dominants, Submissives & Switches

A submissive likes to be controlled, relishing someone else taking responsibility away from them. Some are subservient and submit willingly. Others are brattier and put up a fight. There are also submissives who will fight sometimes and be subservient at others. Submission can be confined to the bedroom or only taken out to BDSM and Fetish clubs and dungeons or it can used in all kinds of day to day situations. Some submissives chose to be subservient in all their roles, others take on submission to escape the responsibilities of work and family life. Submissives let someone else take control. They may have a list of rules to abide by set by their Dom/Domme. If rules are broken then there will be punishments too as well as rewards for good behaviour. Some submissives love to be naughty and punished, others want to be good and strive to do their best and be rewarded. Others will want a mix of the two. It isn’t all about humiliation and degradation for a submissive, unlike other bottoms they are more concerned with being subservient and giving over control to another person. .embed-container { position: relative; padding-bottom: 56.25%; height: 0; overflow: hidden; max-width: 100%; } .embed-container iframe, .embed-container object, .embed-container embed { position: absolute; top: 0; left: 0; width: 100%; height: 100%; }
Switch is the BDSM term for someone who isn’t always just Dominant or only submissive, they are a combination of the two. They enjoy being the top in a scene sometimes but are equally as comfortable being the bottom at other times. They have a real desire for both but may be more Dominant or more submissive. Switches don’t tend to have a 50/50 split Dom or sub. .embed-container { position: relative; padding-bottom: 56.25%; height: 0; overflow: hidden; max-width: 100%; } .embed-container iframe, .embed-container object, .embed-container embed { position: absolute; top: 0; left: 0; width: 100%; height: 100%; }
Dominants like to be in control. Unlike BDSM tops or sadists, their need is not particularly to inflict pain but to be domineering and have control over another person. Some Doms/Dommes expect to be obeyed immediately and without questions. Others enjoy being tested, and having to show their dominance over the submissive who’s being bratty. There is no one way to be a Dominant. Dom/Dommes can also be sadists, tops, masters or riggers. Dominant is a huge category of BDSM made up of many very different people who all have one thing in common, their need to be in control. The D in the term BDSM stands for Dominance, therefore Dominants are an instrumental part of BDSM. .embed-container { position: relative; padding-bottom: 56.25%; height: 0; overflow: hidden; max-width: 100%; } .embed-container iframe, .embed-container object, .embed-container embed { position: absolute; top: 0; left: 0; width: 100%; height: 100%; }

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