BDSM

Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism

Hey looking for someone no strings no drama exploration of all your fantasies with fee limitations don't look no further open minded adventurous in all my sexual exploits just grate time fun and excruciating release of both dark and light side as available play for pay FaceTime phot/video requested or in person if you're ready and willing as I am love sex love toys and all the games we can play just ask don't hesitate no judgement believe in trying it all at least once new to site but not bdsm lifestyle open to men couples and women who wAnt 3 somes with a man who I have readily available for fun first time encounter specials let me give you your fantasies check out profile

I'm a straight switch male, and will be in Lansing April 22-24. I'm looking for a woman (or potentially a couple) for a kinky date full of bdsm fun the evenings of the 22nd and/or the 23rd. My full list of kinks and limits are listed on my profile, and I'm open to dommes, subs, or other switches. Im open to play with couples with no m/m interaction. If you'll be around and are interested, please message me. I'd love to chat further to get to know you.

More D/s than BDSM.
Communication and interaction get us to that perfect place, where it all begins.
I have a wicked sense of humour, a vivid, kinky imagination, and love to travel.
Just looking for that one special submissive, who relates.
I doubt you have a kink or desire that I haven't already enjoyed.
Your mind is the source of your pleasure. Share it with me, and I'll unlock what you have, hidden away.
Read between the lines, there is always more.

Say hello, if you see common ground and interests.

The Equalitarian Dominant is one who controls by teaching, mentoring and leading. This Dominant feels and knows that when they find a comparable submissive that things will happen as a progression of the interaction. Usually, just a mention or short learning situation is necessary to obtain a certain interaction. Both the Dominant and the submissive "get it,” need very little, so called "training" and naturally know what the other needs after interaction. This Dominant does not like the situation of constantly repeating and forcing a particular behavior (submission) to occur. It is not the activities but the surrender as the result of the Domination that is the objective and enjoyment. Creativity is an important part of this situation. These are the more intellectual, into the philosophy/psychology mechanism of this lifestyle. They understand the concepts and resultant interactions and can put it into real life. They do not need many "rules" like the Democratic type, nor do they like the heavy S&M activities; preferring submission to occur as a result of an instilled desire in the submissive to surrender. She "wants" to as a result of the Dominant's knowledge and skill at Dominating. Sensuousness is the rule and is given and received as a form of sensuous stimulation. Light as opposed to severe. Sensuous *** is a popular activity in this area. Both the Dominant and the submissive must be naturally this way. These are the ones who claim to be born this way, have always been this way. They fully understand the concept of D/s - it comes to them naturally and easily. They attract a submissive who truly and naturally wants to please, and who will observe and sense what the Dominant is communicating; and be able to translate that into the right thing to do. The doing or saying without having to be told type. The submissive begs easily and surrenders sweetly. They understand the concept of respect and surrender and can make it happen after initial learning with little or no additional instructions. They embrace the surrender gratefully and lovingly. These individuals usually form the most intimate of relationships, the closest. There is not much downside to these relationships, because they not only grasp the concepts, but can make it happen too; and their attraction is based on strong mutual respect. Their strong relationship is not readily apparent to the unobservant, but they are always subtly in the 24-7 mode. The fact that these things come forth naturally and without the need for orders or rules are a great affirmation and source of pride, satisfaction and loving. Just as the strictness and forbearance without the need for orders or rules of the Authoritarian/Totalitarian situation affirms pride, satisfaction and loving.