Slave Training

Train your slave and become closer

Take your slave to the next level

The concept of the "perfect submissive" is, of course, fantasy and myth. Everyone has different interests, different fantasies and different preferences - and this is true on both sides of the proverbial whip. That said, BDSM training is a popular fantasy scenario for a reason: there's something wonderfully submissive about learning and being taught, and when that relates to a particular partner it's often a fantastic bonding experience. Training scenarios also play on the dynamic between a teacher and a student, or an owner and a servant - which are of course some of the most textured, layered and influential in the kinky world.

What is slave training?

A Dominant will use training to get their slave to behave in a way they like. There are lots of way to do this but the goal is the same, to alter the slave’s behaviour to please their Master/Mistress

Why train a slave?

Slave training is to change behaviour, to help your slave fulfil their role more completely and it’s also a way to bring a Master/Mistress closer to their slave. They both learn a lot about each other in the process. Including limits, boundaries, skills and talents.

How do you train a slave?

This is personal to every Dominant and will depend on the slave and the relationship dynamic. Punishments and/or rewards are very often used. These can be physical, words of praise or rebuke or even gifts. It will depend on what the slave responds to best.

Do you have to train to be a slave?

There are no hard and fast rules, but even an established slave may need training by a new Master/Mistress to do things the way they want them done. There is likely to be an element of slave training in most if not all of these kind of relationships.

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    The Equalitarian Dominant is one who controls by teaching, mentoring and leading. This Dominant feels and knows that when they find a comparable submissive that things will happen as a progression of the interaction. Usually, just a mention or short learning situation is necessary to obtain a certain interaction. Both the Dominant and the submissive "get it,” need very little, so called "training" and naturally know what the other needs after interaction. This Dominant does not like the situation of constantly repeating and forcing a particular behavior (submission) to occur. It is not the activities but the surrender as the result of the Domination that is the objective and enjoyment. Creativity is an important part of this situation. These are the more intellectual, into the philosophy/psychology mechanism of this lifestyle. They understand the concepts and resultant interactions and can put it into real life. They do not need many "rules" like the Democratic type, nor do they like the heavy S&M activities; preferring submission to occur as a result of an instilled desire in the submissive to surrender. She "wants" to as a result of the Dominant's knowledge and skill at Dominating. Sensuousness is the rule and is given and received as a form of sensuous stimulation. Light as opposed to severe. Sensuous *** is a popular activity in this area. Both the Dominant and the submissive must be naturally this way. These are the ones who claim to be born this way, have always been this way. They fully understand the concept of D/s - it comes to them naturally and easily. They attract a submissive who truly and naturally wants to please, and who will observe and sense what the Dominant is communicating; and be able to translate that into the right thing to do. The doing or saying without having to be told type. The submissive begs easily and surrenders sweetly. They understand the concept of respect and surrender and can make it happen after initial learning with little or no additional instructions. They embrace the surrender gratefully and lovingly. These individuals usually form the most intimate of relationships, the closest. There is not much downside to these relationships, because they not only grasp the concepts, but can make it happen too; and their attraction is based on strong mutual respect. Their strong relationship is not readily apparent to the unobservant, but they are always subtly in the 24-7 mode. The fact that these things come forth naturally and without the need for orders or rules are a great affirmation and source of pride, satisfaction and loving. Just as the strictness and forbearance without the need for orders or rules of the Authoritarian/Totalitarian situation affirms pride, satisfaction and loving.

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