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There are plenty of ways to describe the act of sex, but 'fucking' is our favourite. There's just something hot, erotic and sexy about it; it conjures images of late nights and moody lights and basking in a deliciously decadent afterglow. We're fans of getting to the point without beating around the bush, and 'fuck' encapsulates that perfectly.

There's a common myth that the word Fuck originated as an acronym, and stands for 'Fornication Under Consent of the King'. This is almost certainly bullshit. As Melissa Mohr says in her excellent book Holy Shit: A Brief History of Swearing, the word 'fuck' is of Germanic origin, related to Dutch, German and Swedish words for 'to strike' and 'to move back and forth'. There's certainly something Germanic about the inherently direct and straightforward nature of the word, but the act of fucking is absolutely universal.

How do you introduce kinky sex with your partner?

So you’re in a relationship, and you’re into kinky sex, but you’re not quite sure if your partner is into this sort of thing, what to do? The answer is simple. TALK ABOUT IT! It’s understandable if you’re nervous, especially if kink is new for you. Breathe and start small.

1. Watch an erotic film together that includes some scenes of the sexy activities you want to explore.
2. If you’re into a bit of pain and funishment, try some light biting or scratching the next time you fuck. Of course, if you do this, check in with your partner - use some sexy talk to make sure they are happy with what you’re doing.
3. Talk about it before you fuck. This could be a deal breaker for some or a hot sigh of relief for others. The thing is you’ll never know until you ask, so just ask!

However, you decide to talk to your ‘assumed vanilla partner’ about it just remember to be open and accept what they say. Kink is not for everyone, and you certainly can’t force it upon someone if they don’t want it. Keep an open mind, they may be willing to try things out, and they could end up being into things you both never imagined!

What makes kinky sex?

What is kinky to one person is run of the mill for another. Don’t worry about it! Enjoy what you enjoy and if you feel it’s kinky (and that’s a good thing) then that’s all that matters. Consensual kinky sex is as basic or extreme as you want it to be. No one can judge your sex life other than you and the other people you share it with.

How do you keep sex kinky?

It’s easy to get into a rut, even if you start out with an exciting, kinky sex life. If you keep doing the same things over and over it can get a bit boring. So change things up. Look out for new things you fancy trying and after discussing with your partner, give it a go. Make sure you keep up communication with your partner/s and be willing to change and try new things. That’s how you keep sex spicy over time.

I only enjoy kinky sex when it includes my fetish, is that healthy?

If you’re happy with your sex life, you find it satisfying and fun then it’s totally fine that you need your fetish to be satisfied. However, if you feel it adds a pressure to your sex life or you feel you’re out of control then maybe there’s a problem and you should seek help from a medical professional.

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    Communication and interaction get us to that perfect place, where it all begins.
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    Just looking for that one special submissive, who relates.
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    The Equalitarian Dominant is one who controls by teaching, mentoring and leading. This Dominant feels and knows that when they find a comparable submissive that things will happen as a progression of the interaction. Usually, just a mention or short learning situation is necessary to obtain a certain interaction. Both the Dominant and the submissive "get it,” need very little, so called "training" and naturally know what the other needs after interaction. This Dominant does not like the situation of constantly repeating and forcing a particular behavior (submission) to occur. It is not the activities but the surrender as the result of the Domination that is the objective and enjoyment. Creativity is an important part of this situation. These are the more intellectual, into the philosophy/psychology mechanism of this lifestyle. They understand the concepts and resultant interactions and can put it into real life. They do not need many "rules" like the Democratic type, nor do they like the heavy S&M activities; preferring submission to occur as a result of an instilled desire in the submissive to surrender. She "wants" to as a result of the Dominant's knowledge and skill at Dominating. Sensuousness is the rule and is given and received as a form of sensuous stimulation. Light as opposed to severe. Sensuous *** is a popular activity in this area. Both the Dominant and the submissive must be naturally this way. These are the ones who claim to be born this way, have always been this way. They fully understand the concept of D/s - it comes to them naturally and easily. They attract a submissive who truly and naturally wants to please, and who will observe and sense what the Dominant is communicating; and be able to translate that into the right thing to do. The doing or saying without having to be told type. The submissive begs easily and surrenders sweetly. They understand the concept of respect and surrender and can make it happen after initial learning with little or no additional instructions. They embrace the surrender gratefully and lovingly. These individuals usually form the most intimate of relationships, the closest. There is not much downside to these relationships, because they not only grasp the concepts, but can make it happen too; and their attraction is based on strong mutual respect. Their strong relationship is not readily apparent to the unobservant, but they are always subtly in the 24-7 mode. The fact that these things come forth naturally and without the need for orders or rules are a great affirmation and source of pride, satisfaction and loving. Just as the strictness and forbearance without the need for orders or rules of the Authoritarian/Totalitarian situation affirms pride, satisfaction and loving.

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