Non-monogamous

Non-Monogamous BDSM Archetype

What is a non-monogamist?

Non-monogamists break with the societal tradition of having just one partner at a time. They will prefer to be in an open relationship. They can be called polyamorous. They don’t see sex or kink as something to keep between themselves and just one other person. They can have several partners at once, these can be just for play or more serious relationships. Every non-monogamist will have different approaches to non-monogamy.

Polyamorists will have, or look to be in, more than one relationship. These will be more than play and sex, and involve a romantic and/or intimate aspect. Swingers may be married or in a committed relationship with one person but they will indulge in kink or sexual play with other people too. Swingers can be single, it’s not all about wife-swapping. Anyone not in a monogamous relationship can be referred as polyamorous.

Non-monogamists can indulge in all kinds of fetishes and kink play. They can be Dominant, submissive or switch if they’re into BDSM. They will rarely be slaves as devotion to one Master or Mistress doesn’t come easy to them. However, they might work well in a relationship with multiple slaves and one or more dominant partner.

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northern_dom

northern_dom

Male (44)    188 cm, 100 kg

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates, Friends, NSA (no strings...), LTR (relationship), Events & Places, Networking

Newcastle upon Tyne, UK

Fenrir

Fenrir

Male (52)    188 cm, - kg

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates, Friends, NSA (no strings...), Events & Places

Stevenage, UK

Sexualfantasies

Sexualfantasies

Male (30)    180 cm, 83 kg

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates, NSA (no strings...), Swingers, Pic Exchange, Events & Places

Camberley, UK

daddywantsit

daddywantsit

Male (66)    178 cm, - kg

Friend with benefits, BDSM Lovers

Torrevieja, Spain

stueybeeston

stueybeeston

Male (32)    172 cm, 73 kg

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates, Friends, NSA (no strings...), Pic Exchange, Cybersex, Events & Places

Leicester, UK

Blu58

Blu58

Male (60)    183 cm, 82 kg

BDSM Lovers, Friends, NSA (no strings...), Swingers, Pic Exchange, Events & Places, Kinky Dates, LTR (relationship)

Ainderby Steeple, UK

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BerryBrighton

BerryBrighton

Female (37)    150 cm, - kg

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates

Brighton and Hove, UK

LsFantasy

LsFantasy

Female (26)

BDSM Lovers, Friends, Events & Places

Manchester, UK

subm0nKay

subm0nKay

Female (33)    165 cm, 98 kg

Friends, Events & Places, Networking

Ely, UK

paige_me

paige_me

Female (33)    162 cm, - kg

Friends, Events & Places, Networking

Salford, UK

Katiefox

Katiefox

Female (23)

BDSM Lovers, Friends, NSA (no strings...), Events & Places, Networking

London, UK

MissSaraMax

MissSaraMax

Female (28)    160 cm, 50 kg

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Bradford, UK

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Cade

Cade

Male/Female (43/28)    180/167 cm, 64/45 kg

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates, LTR (relationship)

Lakeland, USA

Annie123

Annie123

Female/Male (26/25)    168/175 cm, 55/69 kg

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates, NSA (no strings...), Swingers, Events & Places, Pic Exchange

Cuddington, UK

playwithus9217

playwithus9217

Female/Male (28/24)    -/- cm, -/- kg

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates, NSA (no strings...), Pic Exchange

Nashua, USA

pjandn1997

pjandn1997

Female/Male (21/44)    -/- cm, -/- kg

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates, Friends, NSA (no strings...), Swingers, Cybersex, Events & Places, Networking

Swindon, UK

HisPumpkin

HisPumpkin

Female/Male (25/26)    163/180 cm, 54/- kg

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates, NSA (no strings...), Swingers, Events & Places

Gillingham, UK

subcuriousuk

subcuriousuk

Female/Male (28/29)    50/- cm, -/- kg

BDSM Lovers, Kinky Dates, Friends, LTR (relationship), Swingers, Events & Places

Newport, UK

 Which BDSM archetype matches well with a non-monogamist?

A non-monogamist might be in a relationship with one person but indulge in kink, fetish or sexual play with one or more other people. They tend to match up with other non-monogamists as they can find it difficult to be in a relationship with just one other person. They look for interactions with a number of different partners.

Common misconceptions about non-monogamists

Non-monogamists are not cheaters. They don’t take on a monogamous relationship and indulge in other relationships without their partner’s knowledge. Non-monogamists are careful to let all their partners know what is to be expected. Not all of a non-monogamist’s partners will play with each other, they may not even know each other very well. However, all partners will be aware that the non-monogamist isn’t exclusively in a relationship with them.

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