Discipline

For all fans of discipline

The road to punishment

Discipline is almost universally accepted as a core component of pretty much any BDSM dynamic. For most people it's done as something that in reality is enjoyed by both participants, though there are people who get a kick out of receiving discipline and correction that they don't necessarily enjoy for itself in the moment. Most kinky discipline is physical and pain-based, but that's not the case all the time; many kinky couples use other punishment types as well or instead, such as corner time or writing lines. Certain acts of sexual service can also be used as discipline. Your safeword remains in place, of course, and negotiation and pre-consent is just as vital for these kinds of play as for any other.

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SadisticHeart

SadisticHeart

Male (36)    195 cm, - kg

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Bracknell Forest, UK

tallswitch35

tallswitch35

Male (35)    203 cm, 112 kg

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Bury, UK

RussCheshire

RussCheshire

Male (48)    181 cm, 93 kg

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Congleton, UK

CptSpanker

CptSpanker

Male (20)    187 cm, 82 kg

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Dundee, UK

Unknowndominance

Unknowndominance

Male (26)

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Nottingham, UK

Toxicfiction

Toxicfiction

Male (62)    200 cm, 100 kg

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Corydon, USA

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Kellyswitch

Kellyswitch

Female (48)    175 cm, 67 kg

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Daventry, UK

Blonde-pet

Blonde-pet

Female (38)    164 cm, 59 kg

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Hamburg, Germany

CuteHellion

CuteHellion

Female (18)    157 cm, 59 kg

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Mooresville, USA

Evey20

Evey20

Female (21)    165 cm, 61 kg

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Bristol, UK

ayoungsub

ayoungsub

Female (24)

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Brighton, UK

Tillysub

Tillysub

Female (37)    160 cm, 72 kg

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Exeter, UK

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Cade

Cade

Male/Female (43/28)    180/167 cm, 64/45 kg

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Lakeland, USA

TheArtofSubmission

TheArtofSubmission

Female/Male (21/40)    166/178 cm, 91/75 kg

Friends, NSA (no strings...)

Bolton, UK

MuckyandPooky

MuckyandPooky

Male/Female (54/40)    183/- cm, -/- kg

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Huddersfield, UK

Rhino88

Rhino88

Male/Female (30/33)    182/165 cm, 80/62 kg

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London, UK

Submissivesearch

Submissivesearch

Male/Female (29/32)    180/160 cm, 85/- kg

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London, UK

mcrkinkycouple

mcrkinkycouple

Male/Female (46/34)    -/- cm, -/- kg

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Bury, UK

What is discipline?

When a sub does something that is displeasing to their Dominant, they can choose to punish them in some way. Also, if a sub does something well, they can praise them for it. It is a way of adapting behaviour of a submissive.

Is discipline always physical?

Not always, it can be a raised voice, corner time or writing lines. Masochists, for example, would not find pain to be a deterrent but more of a reward. It could be doing certain chores as well, cleaning cutlery or ironing for example. I’m not sure anyone sees those chores as a treat!

Threads and discussions that include: Discipline

  • Domestic Discipline ideas

    I’ve recently begun a DD relationship. My HoH is looking for ideas for disciplining me and any other ideas about how he can generally show me who is in charge in the relationship. TIA ...
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  • The road to discipline / punishment.

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  • I find myself looking for a tough daddy, thatll still show effection but in a modest way. I need harsh discipline because im very new to the business and i need someone who truely knows what he's doin ...
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    Mature and very experienced Dominant Male, Who is a strong disciplinarian. Wants to engage with a Submissive female. Who needs a little discipline ...

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    Kinky sub seeking a domme to control and discipline.

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    An immature 26 yo who needs a nanny / granny / mommy to ensure he wears his diapers, mind his manners and doesn't act up as if he's a grown man.
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