While not really a kink, the androgynous look is one that many people find attractive. It's not always necessarily associated with people who are genderqueer or non-binary, though it certainly can be for some people: the term refers to a look that combines aspects of different genders and may well be difficult to pin down. Some people feel most comfortable when dressed this way, while others are primarily attracted to those who look at least a little androgynous; either way, it's an aesthetic choice rather than one that denotes gender identity or sexual orientation. Enjoy your style, explore your preferences and have fun being you!
A combination of masculine and feminine features, often used to describe people who do not look like they’re a certain gender. These people are mysterious and often challenge gender stereotypes.
Is bisexuality androgynous?
They aren’t one and the same but often they go hand in hand. Someone’s sexuality isn’t the same as the way the decide to look. You can never assume anything from just looking at a person, that’s where trouble lies!
Do you have to be thin to be androgynous?
No, although many of the famous androgynous people in the media are very thin, people of all shapes and sizes can be androgynous. It’s all about being neutral. When you’re bigger it’s harder to hide female or masculine features but it can and does happen. Use of clothing can make a difference too. Someone may look androgynous whilst clothed but then it becomes more obvious what their gender is if they’re naked. Mind you, never assume! Genitals don’t define gender either.
Is gender fluid the same as androgynous?
Not necessarily, gender fluidity means a person can identify as male or female of neither and androgyny is about having features that are both feminine and masculine. So you could be gender fluid and androgynous or one or the other.
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