I'm a complete newbie and I don't know anything about anything but I have a suspicion that I might be a masochist and I'd like to confirm (or not) and try new things with someone who is respectful (in terms of safety precautions I mean) and experienced (because I'm obvsly not experienced at all). Pretty much a BDSM "virgin".

I'm perpetually terrified of judgment, I use too many complicated words, like piercings and rape fantasies and I need a guiding hand who contrasts my crippling insecurities with self-confidence. If you're insecure like me, we're probably not compatible.

Edinburgh. Anti-racism, anti-homophobia, anti-transphobia, anti-disrespect of any kind (unless the disrespect is part of an agreed-upon relationship). Blonde, short hair, 62kg, 170cm.