I'm a peppy geeky 48 year old submissive, looking to meet others like me, and - if lucky - a Master in a compatible time zone (GMT).
I welcome friendly chats with people who don't take themselves too seriously.
Looks don't matter much to me, character does.
My ideal Dom? Is over 33, has real life experience as a Dom, bluntly honest, compassionate and kind to others, even-tempered, has a healthy sense of humor, is respectful including if/when our path must part.
He is also self-confident, willing and able to bend me to His will or over the table : )
In short, a gentleman in public, a (sometimes benevolent) bastard behind closed doors.
I am no top model, but have a generous body, with very large breasts and a matching ass, long hair, green eyes, and a very soft shaven pussy and a devious brain.
If in addition, you re tall and/or muscular, with a bossy soothing British or Boston accent then I very much look forward to serving and obeying you, to being restrained by your strong arms, or your ropes, or by your Dominant voice.
I also look forward to slowly, gently licking your nipples and leaving little bite marks on your belly.... for few things make me happier than pleasing and pleasuring my Sir!
Oh, and I have a thing for hands, any hands, since it is hands that explore me, spank me, hold me, finger me, soothe me.
If you're under 32.8942 years old, Gorean, dogmatic, have no real life experience as a Dom, are seeking forever love or to micro-control how I dress, eat, socialize, then sorry, we're not a match.
But I welcome online friends.
What irks me: pompousness, lack of empathy, anger-issues, lack of self-control, power- or ego- trippers, preachy fucks.
If interested, come find me, for you are the hunter and I am your prey.
Fair warning: I AM picky, thanks to past Masters who have set the bar pretty high. So don't expect instant trust. Unwrap this subby slowly, free her from her control, find the on/off button which turns on her desires and you might be rewarded with her honesty, her loyalty and her serving You to the best of her abilities.
I have an email address here, otherwise I am fairly easy to find in misc chat rooms, like 321 under the same user-name : )
Thank you for taking the time to read this!
Kinklist and bdsm test results available, but cant post links here.
Cant figure how to post a profile pix.... Maybe later.
Anything missing? Just ask : )
Got through most purple tags....
The ones from the bdsm test are in the correct order, the others are a hot mess of random clicks.
So yes, I truly enjoy anal sex, but no, it is far from my only interest lol
My biggest kink is probably being psychologically dominated, and feeling i can entrust someone with my orgasms, and with controlling all body functions during sex especially. Letting go, safe and free from control.
My second biggest kink is probably being spanked and punished: I HATE disappointing a Dom, yet when He punishes me, after resisting sometimes, my brain just melts into submission, and afterwards , my ass striped red and burning, my mind all blank and my body all limp from resisting, i yield: i am His fucktoy, to control, to edge over and over, until i beg, cry, lose my mind, until His voice gives this slut permission to scream and tremble through one or more of HIS orgasms, for they are no longer mine.
Im also new to this forum, but not new to BDSM, and wanted to add that your sexual tastes have nothing to do with you being mean! As a submissive, I enjoy most of what you described, and - most of my life - lacked the guts and knowledge to express it.
So two options come to mind:
1- Find a BDSM Read more… community near you, and attend munches etc to meet like-minded people (just google BDSM community <place you live>).
2- Be open and self-confident with your potential sex partners, you might be surprised by the number of them who at least want to explore some kinky fantasies they have. Wish I had followed my own advice 15 years sooner lol
Lastly, read up on the topic, Leaving a suggestive book or a few toys like a blind-fold, a vibe and a paddle in plain sight make for great conversation openers in my experience :)
I agree with eyemblacksheep: as a single woman, having casual sex with a complete stranger is hard enough (as in, what if he is some psycho nutjob? What if he runs off with my wallet/phone/laptop while I shower?) so trusting someone enough to let go and let Him incapacitate you isn't something any sane submissive would/should do lightly, even if she wants no strings attached (no pun intended). So the only reasonable way is to get to know and trust the person first, and to avoid any bad surprises, to negotiate what you both want. Also, you can do a lot to help such trust develop. Ex by reading up on standard safety techniques, and being the one to suggest your potential sub(s) have a reliable friend expecting a safety call the first few times you play together.
The good news: Many of us badly want kinky sex with no strings attached : ) We just wanna be safe and have fun in the process, which is why the friends-with-benefits Kinky edition is a good option.
Also, I always feel safer when i know someone remained in friendly terms with their former playmates/subs. Common sense stuff like that...
Good luck to you!