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I found out through watching random, alternative porn and i have always hated porn lol If i turned my nose or felt uncomfortable, it was a no. If i felt a little something something, i would explore more online... Try it maybe ➦LaylaNess quote Alyssa33:❝What is the best way for new members to the BDSM community to get their feet wet? To find out what they like or dislike, and to learn more. Other than what is on the internet? How do you start?❞
I found out through watching random, alternative porn and i have always hated porn lol If i turned my nose or felt uncomfortable, it was a no. If i felt a little something something, i would explore more online... Try it maybe

Deleted profile Best way to learn your likes and dislikes to perform them with a guide or teacher, preferably a gentle or Daddy Doms ( make sure they provide aftercare)
Some actives in both hard-play and light-play can cause stress and anxiety requiring aftercare.
Daddy dom:
Fulfilling Attention
Your needs are Read more… primary
Can read facial and body language
Respect
Nurturing
Gentle when needs to be
Ruff when needs to be
Gentle dom:
Patience
Taking things slow
Step-by-step
Words of encouragement
Aftercare:
Hugs
Petting
Snuggles
Cuddles
Massages
Bubblebaths
Binkies
Stuffies
Words of affection