I am new to the scene. But I do know what I am looking for. You can pass me on by if you are only looking for a quickie in your backseat, I am supper busy and dont have time for high school play.
I am learning my limits. However, permanent scaring is a hard no, no pet play...
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Honestly, just knowing other subs, like you, get where I’m coming from helps a lot.
Omg!! Yes it absolutely does. I don't know anyone else like me in my area. So I have deeply Read more… internalized this. I haven't been on the app in a while, and decided to log back in. And there you were. Thank you for helping me feel my kinda normal
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I have a feelings it is not normal for everyone. My guess is some people, like us, want to push harder all the time in most areas of our lives. This is no different. We want to continue to be more, be better, do more. I relate to Read more… the line in Hamilton “I’m never satisfied.” I think it’s in my nature, and in some areas that’s really helpful. It makes you successful and driven. In BDSM, though, it could be very dangerous. That’s where I struggle, because I know he will never let me go beyond my abilities, but I sometimes wish he would. If that makes sense. 🤷🏻♀️
It makes absolute sense. My Master is always good at reading me and knowing when to stop. He reminds me I am his, and we have years to build up my tolerance.
I can relate DenverBunny. I have been battling these same conflicting emtions myself as of late. My Master has never said or done anything to make me feel this way. And always showers me with praise and gratitude. But I always feel as though I let him down. Is this just normal?
Mine is jewelry like. But find I don't care to wear anything else as I don't want it getting lost in the mix and unnoticed
Reflecting back on personal experiences. I have been into kink sense the time I started exploring sexually. But I became repressed due to others miss understandings. I squirted the first time in my 20's, guy thought I had ******** on him..I was devastated and spent the next 18 years hold back
Thank you!! Some of us do have an outside life and responsibilities. It is a huge turn off, sign of desperation, when one starts with "I've been here 3 day's...." Not attractive at all.
Isn't being vanaruble part of the scene? To emotionally open up? If your sub is open, you may get to experience that fantasy. If she or he is not ok with, you are still in a safe space. A place to open up just as much as get off
We all do have a different love language
You deserve your aftercare as well