Thank you. I hope it genuinely helps someone.

Maybe talk about dating and getting to know them on a personal level for those few days instead of kinks and being submissive then? Bring those things up down the road when you know they are genuinely interested in you and enjoy spending their time talking to you. That usually means they aren't Read more… only/mostly interested in your ***. Form the relationship then introduce them to your sexual desires after. They may find it off putting and be hesitant. Don't push constantly though. Slowly introduce small things they can do that they are comfortable with and build up their comfort in doing these things. Let them move at their own pace and comfort. Encourage with praise and thanks when they do thinks you like. Reciprocate and do things for them that they like/want as most women tend to be more submissive, you can't ignore their desires and expect yours to be met. That isn't submission. Explain why you want the things you want, help her know why you want things, to help her better understand what it does for you.
Communicating with a partner you have is always the best way to achieve the things you want, don't pester, push, or rush.
It isn't only about what you want.
Keep in mind they are people too.
Consider what they want.
Comfort is essential on both sides.
Some will never be comfortable with the things you want and that is okay.
A lot will however be open to doing things in time, especially if they really care for you and want to make you happy in your relationship.
Build that first.

What you want is a femaleed relationship it sounds like. A Mistress is someone doing work. Being in a relationship with a dominant woman who is a Mistress to you only because it works for your dynamic and you both enjoy it. Mistress asking for tribute is a business woman. She may love her work but Read more… it is still work. If you don't want to partake in her services don't pay her fee. Is it right for every submissive man to expect a Mistress to ignore her job and many other guys willing to pay to spend (time=$) on him. Not paying and taking her time from making *** to support herself would be an insane ask. Especially when you most likely will never meet her unless she books sessions hmmm maybe tribute is a weird prostitution charge dodging loophole. "No he paid to be allow to approach me and for my time. I decided to whip and peg him later without the influence of ***." She say as the cop curses the tribute loophole letting another criminal walk free and questions the laws he swore to uphold debating on becoming a criminal or fight to try and fix this broken system. Sadly it was the day before his retirement and wss later gunned down just before his shifts end...... sorry what was I saying?

I don't really desire having sex or even getting off personally. Last girl I spent a couple weeks with everyday I would go down on herald her orgasm a few times, and asks Mr to fuck her I go for 10 minutes or so and she gets off a few ore times, (slight up curve right before the head makes me good Read more… at rubbing at just the right spot and is often complimented as being a good dick despite being less than 6". Size doesn't always matter. Took me a while to be proud of the little guy once I learned though, my dicks the bomb baby.) Sorry tangent. She also get off on gagging and being facefuckd and asked if she could. I grabbed her head I pumped her throat then let her go at it for a second and do it again, hold her down, she would cum a few more times and she is done. It literally takes me so long to get off most of the time I don't find the payout worth the effort. Knowing I just made her get off like 8 - 10 times like nothing is a far better feeling to me. She tolde girls get mad when they can't get them off. Well she could have though. It just would have taken her a long time and she gave up after getting off to many times.... when I am worshipping licking and pleasing though I stay soft. Because he knows I don't plan on using him and even if I do probably long shot it is to completion.

Also let him know you also have wants and needs on the other end. As a natural sub you desire to be submissive as well and feel neglected in his desire to explore his submissive desires.

You know women were reluctant to k>ck my balls and had no interest. Just kind of confused. Though talking with them about it. Explaining is from view and them listening thing to understand agreed to try it out. Everyone said "I didn't think I was going to like this but it was really fun" you Read more… should consider trying new things despite your "0 desire" you might not know you desire it because you've never done it and may find you actually find some enjoyment in it you would never have known about otherwise. Not saying dive in head first but slowly ease in dip a toe and do small things. You should both always be comfortable so lite things here and there doing a bit more when you're comfort gets used to the water get your ankles wet. Much like slow walking into a pool as incremental adjusting to your comfort.

I have never found a like minded person myself.
My approach was to just tell them I enjoyed it and talk with them about it but don't push them.
After some time I let them know that I would love for them to try it but that it is important that they are comfortable at all times. A requirement.
I Read more… tell them we can start slow and they can move at their own pace. I suggest we sit and ao will massage one foot and the other be between my legs. Just kinda poke and feel around add a little bit of pressure if and when you want as you become more comfortable do a little more. I did this in the back seat of my car on lunch at work. Overnights so nobody around and a parking lot over.
Then don't give any instruction or try or direction. You probably won't get and big thrills from this but it this is about them and how they feel. She let me take off her socks and suck onher toes that night as well which she was completely against in conversation.
She eventually asked me if she was getting it and where exactly they were as she randomly poked.. I said she was doing fine pulling my shorts so there was a bulge and guides her toes ontop and gently pressed so she felt and said just push down right there and she did this a bit more before we went back.
Then once morning after work she came over and gave me some gentle tap kicks on knees asking if I was okay everytime. I assured her I would immediately let her know and she didn't need to worry. She was starting to go a bit harder each time. I don't know how I got her naked that day but kneeling as she sat in a chair I went down on her. Keeping my legs wide she took note. Each kick my tongue moved faster and harder also pressing into her more as I reacted to her now kicking with a bit of power. Not really hurting me but I felt it. She told me as well if was basically impossible for her to get off but she did a couple times that day. I think this "impossible" orgasm caused kicking and pleasure to be linked that day.
Every break in the smoking area alone her shoes were off feet betwee my legs pressing. Every lunch we clocked out went to house she got foot massage, toes sucked, and got off 3 times really quickly and I got my balls kicked and we cuddled where she started squeezing without my input as not really my thing I like kicks but she was comfortable enough to try it out.
She was surprised how much she found she really enjoyed all the things she initially was hesitant about. One night we g[t a room two towns over and I had told her I wanted to be made to beg for mercy maybe even cry a few times before sharing a fantasy. That night for hours I was licking and pleasuring her whe she kicked my Hard, testing methods like just making contact with the top of her toes so it went through and past them rather than against my pelvis on the top of her foot. This hurt a good bit more. She used to play soccer and was very acute and s powerful. I was in great *** and she asked me about not liking when she kicked like that and told her I loved it it just hurt as I clutch my bruised swollen balls knees together and she blows my mind. Having told her I wanted this before, pushed pushed my knees apart and and demanded I move my hands. She does kick and I clutch and closing and groaning only to be stopped and my legs pushed apart again. She does this over and over watcI me intently trying to make me cry or beg i know and I probably could have cried but I wanted more. I didn't break before we went to bed.
This was only the second person to kick me. I went 13 to 30 with this fantasy before before a friend from early years and who I had casually hooked up with if she would do it me. I assumed I would get one kick and hate it and could be done with it. Instead I was addicted. My thinking about it often went to constant that kigjt at the hotel was probably the greatest night of my life just easing someone into it and not pressing them to do it, rathe showing them they wanted to do it and enjoyed doing it. Because in my experience women are more often submissive they are resistant and have been told a good number of times they were taught that hitting a guy in balls is bad unless in self defence so they have had it made taboo in their mind early in life. Never met a woman into it personally but everyone that have done it with me admitted they had a lot off fun and enjoyed it more than han they thought they could.