Hi!
What an opening statement!
Hoping you lot are a friendly bunch, I've joined as after being married for over ten years....I have a question about sex and it's made me feel like a virgin so I have nowhere to turn.
Maybe a bit tame for some in the group but after going down on my wife last week
Read more…when we were talking after she said that she really wanted me to slap her pussy but was embarrassed to say it while I was down there.
I like to think I'm quite adventurous and have tried many things; but with this I don't even know how to get started, does she want me to pat her on the lips like I'm clapping my hands or a full force open palm slap to the clit?
Not much information available from Google, so if this is your thing please give me some tips.
....and if it is your thing, let me know what else you like as there are clearly things my wife is a little scared to ask for :)
So, it feels like it's not being helpful - even if it is often the best answer.❞
thanks; nice :-) ➦Kaikou quote eyemblacksheep:❝I give it a lot, but sometimes it feels like it's not a helpful answer. So somebody will come along eager - wanting to do something for their partner, or to be better, or whatever - and that "ask her/him/them" seems dismissive even if it's important.
So, it feels like it's not being helpful - even if it is often the best answer.❞
thanks; nice :-)
What an opening statement!
Hoping you lot are a friendly bunch, I've joined as after being married for over ten years....I have a question about sex and it's made me feel like a virgin so I have nowhere to turn.
Maybe a bit tame for some in the group Read more… but after going down on my wife last week when we were talking after she said that she really wanted me to slap her pussy but was embarrassed to say it while I was down there.
I like to think I'm quite adventurous and have tried many things; but with this I don't even know how to get started, does she want me to pat her on the lips like I'm clapping my hands or a full force open palm slap to the clit?
Not much information available from Google, so if this is your thing please give me some tips.
....and if it is your thing, let me know what else you like as there are clearly things my wife is a little scared to ask for :)❞
If she asked you, can you ask her what she like? Both can be namely very excited for an women. But every one is different. And don't be embarrassed to talk about it. Your goal is to let her enjoy sex so much as possible is it? Than go for it and ask. She is the only one who can tell you what she like the most.
Why do you "hate" to give this answer? :-) (it's easy for the tone to be misinterpreted - I'm honestly curious and please don't read any emotional content into me asking x)❞
I give it a lot, but sometimes it feels like it's not a helpful answer. So somebody Read more… will come along eager - wanting to do something for their partner, or to be better, or whatever - and that "ask her/him/them" seems dismissive even if it's important.
So, it feels like it's not being helpful - even if it is often the best answer.