Personal details

Gender Woman
Age 49
Status Not single
Height 163cm
Weight 69kg
Body shape Average build
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Middle
Orientation Bi-curious
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin Australia
Breast size F
Zodiac sign Libra
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings

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April2023
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  • 16.11.2023 11:46:40
  • Female (49)
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April2023
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  • 22.06.2023 11:41:22
  • Female (49)
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How to start the conversation

The heartbreak is what I want to avoid, I think that is why I stay in the closet

April2023
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  • 22.06.2023 11:37:00
  • Female (49)
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April2023
icon-wio April2023 created a topic in New to BDSM, Kink & Fetish?
  • 22.06.2023 10:11:28
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How to start the conversation
I want to explore this side of me, I think I’ve known I’m bi curious and into kink for a long time, but being in a traditional monogamous marriage I’ve never allowed myself to explore this side, however I’m finding it harder to keep denying myself. I want to talk with my husband and tell him what Read more…I want but I don’t know how to start that conversation without him feeling like I’m unhappy because I am very happy in our marriage, it’s just that I want things he is unable to provide to me. He wouldn’t understand or accept that I can love or be attracted to more than one person. So how do I explain that I love him but I have enough love to love others without it decreasing what I feel for him
LikeRainbowTea, dvnhvzyand 13 more… · 15 Replies
JoyStick90
JoyStick90 If you come from the mindset of being honest, kind and respectful. Your partner shouldn’t being as heart broken as you would think. And whatever happens remain calm, guys need time to process stuff. Hope this helps. If you come from the mindset of being honest, kind and respectful. Your partner shouldn’t being as heart broken as you would think. And whatever happens remain calm, guys need time to process stuff. Hope this helps.
Like · 23.06.2023 2:43:09
Aeonova
Aeonova Devil's advocate - rather than exploring polyamory, deeply explore in yourself the root of the reason monogamy / your husband isn't fully satisfying.
The urge may be telling you of something you need, but polyamory may just be a band aid. Maybe it's hard to understand or accept that you really could be totally fulfilled in a monogamous relationship, but the internal obstacle is currently loudly calling to you for attention. Devil's advocate - rather than exploring polyamory, deeply explore in yourself the root of the reason monogamy / your husband isn't fully satisfying.
The urge may be telling you of something you need, but polyamory may just be a band aid. Maybe it's hard to understand or accept that you really could be totally fulfilled in a monogamous relationship, but the internal obstacle is currently loudly calling to you for attention.
LikeFelixdomme · 23.06.2023 2:06:35
PiercedAndInkedDom
PiercedAndInkedDom ➦PiercedAndInkedDom quote April2023:❝The heartbreak is what I want to avoid, I think that is why I stay in the closet❞
As much as it hurts us both I'm happy she is going to get to be who she wants to be. I love her will always want her to be the best version of herself. ➦PiercedAndInkedDom quote April2023:❝The heartbreak is what I want to avoid, I think that is why I stay in the closet❞
As much as it hurts us both I'm happy she is going to get to be who she wants to be. I love her will always want her to be the best version of herself.
Like · 22.06.2023 11:45:28
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  • 18.06.2023 1:50:22
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April2023
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  • 17.06.2023 19:51:32
  • Female (49)
  • Banjup
  • Not single
Sexual Midlife Crisis

Yeah definitely not just a male midlife crisis- married 30 years sex life is good (but vanilla) last five years he wants less where as I want more and to explore but he won’t talk about it so my kink remains in closet

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  • 17.06.2023 10:55:35
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