DominatrixSheba Read - there are loads of mistress books, youtube, google, get him to read too - The Big Workbook for Submissives is good. Watch porn and steal ideas - I watch femdom porn with a note book and write down phrases and anything I like that I can use in a session. You can join Fetlife and get loads of Read more… inspiration on there. There are loads of groups to join and photos to perve. You will also find local munches on there to attend where you can meet local kinky folk and talk to them. And clubs are great too, you can watch others play and learn some great new techniques.

MissTillysue A little background would be helpful. Do you live together, does he visit regularly or is it an online relationship?
Think about the things you would like him to do for you then try to weave his kinks into that. For instance if you want him to do chores around the house then dressing him as maid or Read more… naked could fit into his kinks aswell and make it good for both of you. You could then inspect his finished work and include some corporal punishment for any not done to your standard or give treats for work well done

eyemblacksheep start by building on what you already like.... what do you already like... what would it turn you on for him to do? doing housework in certain clothes? start by building on what you already like.... what do you already like... what would it turn you on for him to do? doing housework in certain clothes?