Hello everyone! For those who have stumbled across my page, my name is Ben! I'm a nerdy, somewhat shy/awkward, loving/selfless, loyal, intelligent, adventurous, humorous and goofy dude who loves to do almost anything as long as I'm with someone. I have an extremely big heart and will go far and beyond to make people happy and content; the cost to make someone smile is free, but the feeling/sensation of doing so is priceless. I love developing conversation with people about anything (despite having trouble being able to communicate effectively because articulating thoughts into speech is hard), especially about those deep topics about technology, science, and anything unknown. Yes, I'm a nerd and I embrace it

My hobbies are reading/writing anything, tinkering with materials/robotics, listening to music, etc. As I said, I love going on adventures with people, whether that be to the movies, bowling, etc. or going hiking, swimming, etc. (any kind of indoor or outdoor activity sparks my interest). I also LOVE cooking and trying new foods, and Gordon Ramsay is my hero (don't judge). Video games are also a pass-time of mine, so if you ever need someone to team up with, I'd be happy to play along.

Now, if you have read this far into my page without losing interest, then I will begin introducing my kinks/nature. As I said before, I love doing anything to make people as happy as possible, and I am extremely loyal/caring to those who are a friend to me. I hate hurting/disappointing people because I'd rip my heart out (metaphorically) in an attempt to repay someone for the pain I caused them. On that note, I would indicate myself as a submissive. Making people happy means the world to me, even in a kinky setting. People deserve and should embrace the respect and trust I give them as they are respecting me and my choices likewise. When I say submissive, that does not simply mean I will do anything unconditionally. I have my own limits and concerns, so those should be addressed accordingly. However, I am adventurous and am willing to explore new things with trustworthy/experienced mentors and partners. Just because I am defined as sub does not mean I am not looking to explore new kinks/lifestyles with people. I know for sure I have an inclined interest into bondage/shibari and submission (other kinks will be defined as I experience new things).

Furthermore, I''m logical and would only explore with people for whom I have developed friendship and true understanding with. Of course, I will only befriend and explore with those who present themselves to me in person for a casual meet. That said, I love meeting new people, so please don't be shy and hesitate to message me and ask for a quick bite to eat or to have fun at local attractions/entertainment! I have not been to any munches, so I would definitely love to go with someone for my first time to get a good feel for the setting! Even if you are twice my age and aren't submissive, I am always happy to have a meaningful and fun conversation!

On another note: if you are wanting to experience anything kinky with me after befriending each other, I have to warn you that I am inexperienced by all means. I have not experienced anything in the BDSM lifestyle nor even so much with relationships. If you are completely okay with this and would like to teach me, then I'm more than happy to experience/learn exciting things with you (whoever you may be) and to better reinforce my own understanding and passion for my kinks!