A cynical optimist with a head full of untamed sarcasm and an affinity with the dark pleasures. Searching for a submissive with intellect and a sense of humour combined with the instincts of an obedient whore.
I am a black solvent professional guy that travels regularly to Africa for work and a couple of times a year to the states. I've trained all my life both western style boxing and martial arts.
I was in the military and for years supplemented my forces pay working on various nightclub doors so have actually been involved with and immersed in violence all my life. Thats not the boast of some bragging teenager its just fact. Most guys even now will not hold eye contact with me if they see me in a bar. I realise that there are other guys who have a different type of dominant personality the guys who are captains of industry etc.. I work in industry and my MD is only a little guy but has a dominance about him that people in and out of work sense immediately. The point that I am making is most of these "doms" on here are not dominant men at all they are guys you would not notice in normal life. They are only dominant in a bedroom with a submissive these guys are actually just sad perverts and bullies trying to cover their own insecurity an inadequacy through someone else's . Most of them would run a mile or hide rather than face a real life confrontation. One of these so called doms asked a lady on here to cut herself for him and said he fantasised about hearing her bones snap ! She didn't tell me his name but he needs to be in an institution. Just be aware of them with their psychobabble bullshit, "I need to help u explore your boundaries " WTF ! which actually means something like I want to piss in your mouth but I'm too ashamed to ask! Where as a natural dominant grabs your hair opens your mouth with two fingers up your nostrils and pisses in your mouth. Or then you have the pseudo svengali guys setting themselves up as experts on the whole scene " your dom doesn't understand your inner needs " but this guy apparently does? Put me in a room with a hundred of these guys and ninety would be begging for mercy or trying to climb out the fucking windows . They're not my idea of an alpha male. Anyway thats my take on the difference the choice is yours and whatever you choose good luck to you. All relationships are about people and their individual interactions don't let anyone tell you it should be this way or that way there's NO rules other than personal choice and what feels good. I am looking to meet interesting females with natural sub tendencies looks ,body type less important than attitude.