Personal details

Gender Man
Age 52
Status Single
Height 183cm
Weight 98kg
Body shape Athletic
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Short
Beard Shaved/no beard
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Pubic Hair Shaved
Body hair None
Dick length 18cm
Dick width 5cm
Zodiac signs Virgo
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

Description

Who am I
Single intelligent, articulate and athletic Dom seeking a long-term D/S relationship with a special Submissive/Switch partner.

Looking for that special Submissive who shares similar interests in BDSM and other areas of Fetish Kink.

I'm adventurous and creative, also has varied interests in the BDSM and the D/S relationship dynamic.

I am searching for that special Submissive who shares the similar interests in BDSM and other areas of fetish kink.

I will of course provide pleasure, direction, any necessary discipline, structure & control. You will give me access to her body, mind and soul.

I have been in/out of the lifestyle some years, vanilla/BDSM, etc, etc, but I have committed myself to finding a true D/S relationship with a submisive who also has kinkster tastes and a love of BDSM.

I will be your guide, teacher, protector and Dominant, always with your best interests at heart.
I will guide and explore your sexuality and test your mental and physical limits, but at all stages ensuring you are safe whilst doing so.

In vanilla life and not in the Dom role, I am of well-rounded character, gsoh, cultured, literature, arts, science, sport and other intellectual pursuits,...far too many to mention here.

Fetishes & Kinks
I have a very with very active, flithy & kinky imagination.
My main fetishes are bondage, bondage & bondage, gags (ball, head harness, bit, o ring, inflatable),
Sensory deprivation/sensory overload, blindfolds, hoods, forced orgasms/sex play, breath play and toys (Dildo/Vibrator, Hitachi, etc), pussy play, anal play, fisting, nipple play, hoods, fuckdoll scenarios, masks, love role play, fear play, latex (hoods, Catsuite, etc), hair pulling, rough sex, choking, giving oral, receiving oral/cock worship.

Various flagellation methods in discipline: spanking of course , flogging, whipping, etc.

On my Subs: FF/seemed stockings, pvc/latex/rubber/lingerie, high heels.
I am very adventurous and I am open to and will try most things.

Who am I - Ineffable Dom
Most people aren’t purely one type. “Dom” is a broad term for anyone who feels more comfortable being Dom.

If I had to try and pigeon hole my self into category I would say I am a type of ineffable Dom with a pinch of DD.

I believe submission is earned over time through actions. Merely labelling oneself a "Dom" or "Master" doesn't carry any value.

A True Dom understands that his Submissives' submission is a privilege, not a right, which can be taken away.

I demonstrate and expect trust, loyalty, compassion, empathy, personal growth and appreciation.
I can be strict and/or kind, and I can be a hard task master to achive excellence.
High attention to detail and high sex drive.
I will be her guide, educator, mentor and Dom.

Why I'm Here
To find a submissive partner in a long term D/S relationship.
To explore, embrace. experiment with my fetishes & kinks.
To make meaningful friendships with other kinksters in the BDSM community.
To learn and grow as a Dom (in truth you are always learning whether Dom or Sub , anyone else who says any other are BSs)
Broaden my BDSM horizons and to meet kinksters who will attend local events with me.

D/S Relationship
As well as the mind-altering sex & play.

I believe in my Submissives better and more functional development and believe in a safe sane and consensual D/S relationship dynamic.

I am not a self-serving Dom. Each person in the D/S relationship is supporting the other person’s needs.

I want to a submissive who can fuel my Dominant nature. If you knwo what this meas then you could be the one.
I like to be a healthy influence on my Submissive. Give them the proper training, encouragement, support & guidance in becoming the best Submissive/person that she can be through personal development, which I think some Dom’s seem to either misunderstand /uninterested, which case they are not True Dom's.

In our D/S relationship, she will be better person physically, psychologically, healthy & happy in mind and soul which intern will create and sustain a happier, more meaningful and longer term D/S relationship.

All limits will be respected throughout training and play as agreed in negotiations beforehand.

You will feel a positive sense of purpose and direction, knowing that the we are striving to achieve the absolute best for our D/S relationship.

As part of your training, any correction, obediance, discipline, will be structured, controlled, un-emotive, and relevant.
It will reinforce the rules/protocols, and the positions of Dominant and Submissive.
All submissive's need and benefit from training

I will give the you what all you desire and crave; a feeling of safety within the confines a caring D/S relationship with clear boundaries and rules.

BDSM
Level of BDSM will be tuned to my submissives desires and cravings. I want my partner to explore our BDSM desires over time.

It goes without saying that we must openly communicate with each other before/during/after a scene and respect the terms we negotiated beforehand.

Networking
Also interested in networking with other Mistresses/Dommes/Doms w.r.t sharing knowledge and experiences, training techniques, play and partnering in scenes/sessions.

Final Comments
Please understand that our journey of discovery requires great trust, discretion, and understanding on our parts.

We will explore & test your independent nature, your fantasies, fetishes, your edge and boundaries, and even some of mine. Are you prepared for that?

So you can relax, enjoy and immerse yourself in this new experience. Have fun...I will, but don't take this fun or this experience lightly, for we will be taking our relationship to another level.

I will challenge you and satisfy you, and I want you to know that I will always adore & cherish you, pamper you and please you, and you shall submit in return.

If you decide that this is what you want please know and understand that there will be no disobedience, no silliness, no defiance on your part. Please note this is not a game to solely get you off, it is a D/S relationship.

If you are serious about your service, then come submit and serve with honour and respect while increasing your knowledge of the lifestyle as you honour me with your mind, body and soul.

Training, educating, guiding and dominating you will be my pleasure.

Take Care

M x

Fantasies

Looking for a submissive partner who is looking to experiment & explore their BDSM fantasies and develop a deep trusting relationship.
I am looking for potential submissive partner who wishes to have a dominant partner, lover and true friend.
I am looking for someone with intelligence, imagination and an adventurous nature.

She must be a submissive when in the role, good-natured, healthy woman, who looks after herself. Inquisitive and wants to explore being a submissive and be controlled and in return she will be used & dominated well , cherished & cared for.

Anything in between is up for negotiation as you learn and expand our limits.
So if you think you may fit the bill and we could possibly connect, please get in touch.

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  • 29.10.2017 13:37:31
  • Male (52)
  • Sunderland
  • Single
Who am I
Single intelligent, articulate and athletic Dom seeking a long-term D/S relationship with a special Submissive/Switch partner.

Looking for that special Submissive who shares similar interests in BDSM and other areas of Fetish Kink.

I'm adventurous and creative, also has varied interests Read more… in the BDSM and the D/S relationship dynamic.

I am searching for that special Submissive who shares the similar interests in BDSM and other areas of fetish kink.

I will of course provide pleasure, direction, any necessary discipline, structure & control. You will give me access to her body, mind and soul.

I have been in/out of the lifestyle some years, vanilla/BDSM, etc, etc, but I have committed myself to finding a true D/S relationship with a submisive who also has kinkster tastes and a love of BDSM.

I will be your guide, teacher, protector and Dominant, always with your best interests at heart.
I will guide and explore your sexuality and test your mental and physical limits, but at all stages ensuring you are safe whilst doing so.

In vanilla life and not in the Dom role, I am of well-rounded character, gsoh, cultured, literature, arts, science, sport and other intellectual pursuits,...far too many to mention here.

Fetishes & Kinks
I have a very with very active, flithy & kinky imagination.
My main fetishes are bondage, bondage & bondage, gags (ball, head harness, bit, o ring, inflatable),
Sensory deprivation/sensory overload, blindfolds, hoods, forced orgasms/sex play, breath play and toys (Dildo/Vibrator, Hitachi, etc), pussy play, anal play, fisting, nipple play, hoods, fuckdoll scenarios, masks, love role play, fear play, latex (hoods, Catsuite, etc), hair pulling, rough sex, choking, giving oral, receiving oral/cock worship.

Various flagellation methods in discipline: spanking of course , flogging, whipping, etc.

On my Subs: FF/seemed stockings, pvc/latex/rubber/lingerie, high heels.
I am very adventurous and I am open to and will try most things.

Who am I - Ineffable Dom
Most people aren’t purely one type. “Dom” is a broad term for anyone who feels more comfortable being Dom.

If I had to try and pigeon hole my self into category I would say I am a type of ineffable Dom with a pinch of DD.

I believe submission is earned over time through actions. Merely labelling oneself a "Dom" or "Master" doesn't carry any value.

A True Dom understands that his Submissives' submission is a privilege, not a right, which can be taken away.

I demonstrate and expect trust, loyalty, compassion, empathy, personal growth and appreciation.
I can be strict and/or kind, and I can be a hard task master to achive excellence.
High attention to detail and high sex drive.
I will be her guide, educator, mentor and Dom.

Why I'm Here
To find a submissive partner in a long term D/S relationship.
To explore, embrace. experiment with my fetishes & kinks.
To make meaningful friendships with other kinksters in the BDSM community.
To learn and grow as a Dom (in truth you are always learning whether Dom or Sub , anyone else who says any other are BSs)
Broaden my BDSM horizons and to meet kinksters who will attend local events with me.

D/S Relationship
As well as the mind-altering sex & play.

I believe in my Submissives better and more functional development and believe in a safe sane and consensual D/S relationship dynamic.

I am not a self-serving Dom. Each person in the D/S relationship is supporting the other person’s needs.

I want to a submissive who can fuel my Dominant nature. If you knwo what this meas then you could be the one.
I like to be a healthy influence on my Submissive. Give them the proper training, encouragement, support & guidance in becoming the best Submissive/person that she can be through personal development, which I think some Dom’s seem to either misunderstand /uninterested, which case they are not True Dom's.

In our D/S relationship, she will be better person physically, psychologically, healthy & happy in mind and soul which intern will create and sustain a happier, more meaningful and longer term D/S relationship.

All limits will be respected throughout training and play as agreed in negotiations beforehand.

You will feel a positive sense of purpose and direction, knowing that the we are striving to achieve the absolute best for our D/S relationship.

As part of your training, any correction, obediance, discipline, will be structured, controlled, un-emotive, and relevant.
It will reinforce the rules/protocols, and the positions of Dominant and Submissive.
All submissive's need and benefit from training

I will give the you what all you desire and crave; a feeling of safety within the confines a caring D/S relationship with clear boundaries and rules.

BDSM
Level of BDSM will be tuned to my submissives desires and cravings. I want my partner to explore our BDSM desires over time.

It goes without saying that we must openly communicate with each other before/during/after a scene and respect the terms we negotiated beforehand.

Networking
Also interested in networking with other Mistresses/Dommes/Doms w.r.t sharing knowledge and experiences, training techniques, play and partnering in scenes/sessions.

Final Comments
Please understand that our journey of discovery requires great trust, discretion, and understanding on our parts.

We will explore & test your independent nature, your fantasies, fetishes, your edge and boundaries, and even some of mine. Are you prepared for that?

So you can relax, enjoy and immerse yourself in this new experience. Have fun...I will, but don't take this fun or this experience lightly, for we will be taking our relationship to another level.

I will challenge you and satisfy you, and I want you to know that I will always adore & cherish you, pamper you and please you, and you shall submit in return.

If you decide that this is what you want please know and understand that there will be no disobedience, no silliness, no defiance on your part. Please note this is not a game to solely get you off, it is a D/S relationship.

If you are serious about your service, then come submit and serve with honour and respect while increasing your knowledge of the lifestyle as you honour me with your mind, body and soul.

Training, educating, guiding and dominating you will be my pleasure.

Take Care

M x
Blixx1000
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  • 29.10.2017 13:37:31
  • Male (52)
  • Sunderland
  • Single
Looking for a submissive partner who is looking to experiment & explore their BDSM fantasies and develop a deep trusting relationship.
I am looking for potential submissive partner who wishes to have a dominant partner, lover and true friend.
I am looking for someone with intelligence, Read more… imagination and an adventurous nature.

She must be a submissive when in the role, good-natured, healthy woman, who looks after herself. Inquisitive and wants to explore being a submissive and be controlled and in return she will be used & dominated well , cherished & cared for.

Anything in between is up for negotiation as you learn and expand our limits.
So if you think you may fit the bill and we could possibly connect, please get in touch.
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  • Male (52)
  • Sunderland
  • Single
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  • 01.10.2017 14:19:30
  • Male (52)
  • Sunderland
  • Single
Hi,

I am a single intelligent and articulate Ineffable Dom and wants to connect minds with a Submissive play partner.

I am using this site in the hope of building a deep friendship/relationship with a like-minded woman that understands why we are both here and have to have fun and gain a deeperp Read more… under stnading of each other whilst doing so.

There will of course initally be perioids training.
You will be trained to an exeptional high standard. This will make you a better Sub & Person, and ultimately make you phyclogically and physically healthy person and healthy mindset.

Looking for that special someone who shares the similar interests in BDSM and other areas of Fetish kink. I have very good and some previous play partners have said dirty imagination. So lets take the first step and explore...

I'm adventurous and creative, also extremely flexible in BDSM seeking likewise, and thus also largely adaptive to other interests in BDSM.
If you lack experience that is not a problem as you will be given guidance as part of your inital period of training.
BDSM is journey discovery & awakening which all have to take and I am very patient and good with people.

I'm a very genuine sincere, trustworthy, & monogamous type of guy. BDSM is a part of my life, but not all of it.

By the way, I'm also humorous, free of D/D, do not smoke. I drink socially. In vanilla life and not in the Dom role, I'm into usual stuff music, and other intellectual pursuits - the arts & culture, theatre,...far too many to mention here.

Too good to be true? Well lets start to chat and find out;-)

I have committed myself to seeking the right female, but want to start with friendship and play to start with and develop a unique trust and bond in our friendship and then who knows,(if we're compatible).

From my perspective, any idiot can use a whip/hand/what-ever and think to call himself a Master/Dom/Switch, but that's not what defines a Master/Dom/Domme.
Being a Dom is a huge responsibility for me, its not just about being drunk on one's own power over someone. It is about creating a safe place for you to offer your gift of surrender and explore our inner most fantasies and for us to explore the very intimate and sacred places within ourselves.

I have built this profile with the goal for finding a high calibre partner who has submissive urges, whether you are willing to experiment on the BDSM path or have travelled some way there already.
In the hope that in time we can offer each other a relationship. My experience is in rope bondage, spanking, gags, blindfolds and my dislikes are piss, scat or blood.

Ideal Partner:
Looking for a athletic bottom/submissive partner who is ultimately looking to experiment & explore their limits an our fantasies and develop a deep trusting relationship.
I am looking for potential submissive partner who wishes to have a dominant partner, lover and true friend.
I am looking for someone with intelligence, imagination and an adventurous nature.

She must be a submissive when in the role, good-natured, healthy woman, who looks after herself. Inquisitive, curious and wants to explore being a submissive and be controlled and in return she will be used & dominated well , cherished & cared for.

Anything in between is up for negotiation as you learn and expand our limits.
So if you think you may fit the bill and we could possibly connect, please do get in touch.

D/S Relationship
As well as the mind-blowing sex & play.
I beleive in my Sub's better and more functional development and believe in a safe sane and consensual D/S relationship dynamic.
I am not a self serving Dom. Each person in the D/S relationship is supporting the other persons needs.
I like to be a healthy influence on my Sub.
Give them the proper training, encouragement, support & guidance in becoming the best Sub/person that she can be through personal development, which I think some Doms seem to either miss/uninterested, which case they are not True Dom's.
In the relationship she will be better person physically, pychologically, healthy & happy in mind and soul which intern will create and sutain a happier, more meanigful and longer term D/S relationship.
S&M
I enjoy issuing moderate pain and like to give the reminders left behind from play. I want a partner tha to can push her limits over time.
It goes without saying that he must openly communicate with each other during a scene and respect the terms we negotiated beforehand.

Take Care.

Blixx1000 x


== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
99% Dominant
96% Rigger
100% Experimentalist
96% Master/Mistress
93% Daddy/Mommy
90% Owner
74% Voyeur
73% Sadist
60% Degrader
58% Exhibitionist
56% Non-monogamist
57% Primal (Hunter)
47% Switch
46% Ageplayer
39% Vanilla
30% Boy/Girl
28% Rope bunny
23% Masochist
10% Submissive
6% Slave
2% Degradee
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Pet
0% Brat



Why I'm Here
To embrace my kinks.
To make meaningful friendships with kinksters in the BDSM community.
Broaden my BDSM horizons and to meet play partners who will attend local events with me. Please note that by "play" I specifically mean a BDSM scene without sex.
If I'm lucky, to find a long-term romantic partner that will complete me (preferably 25-55 years old, but there are always exceptions).

Who am I - Ineffable Dom
Most people aren’t purely one type. “Dom” is a broad term for anyone who feels more comfortable being Dom.
If I had to try and pigeon hole my self into category I would say I am a type of Dom with a sadistic streak and a touch of Daddy, but I like and is inlfuence by other Dom charactersitics - hence Ineffable,
I love to give the level of affection and care which characterises the DD/lg dynamic, although I like the dynamic not really into lg's mindset.

Typically, I am loving and caring.
I am very self sufficient and I love to spoil my subs.
If you are lucky enough to wear my collar, you will never want or need for anything.
However, don't misunderstand my kindness, lack of control . I can just as quickly take a fist full of your hair and remind you of your place too. I can be strict, structured, intimidating.
I expect her to be obedient and tend to all of my needs as I will take care of all of hers.

I believe submission is earned over time via actions. Merely labelling oneself a "Dom" doesn't carry any value.
A True Dom understands that his Sub's submission is a privilege, not a right, which can be taken away whenever they see fit.

I'm am a man who genuinely respects women.
I demonstrate and expect trust, loyalty, compassion, empathy, personal growth and appreciation. I will be her guide, educator, mentor and lover.
Outside of the bedroom, I want my partner to be my best friend: someone we can openly talk to about anything.
Notice when she is having a bad day and my instinct is to hug her tight and kiss her forehead.
Perceptive enough to pick-up on the lust in her eyes and devour her to my heart's content.

D/S Relationship
As well as the mind-blowing sex & play.
I believe in my Sub's better and more functional development and believe in a safe sane and consensual D/S relationship dynamic.
I am not a self serving Dom. Each person in the D/S relationship is supporting the other persons needs.
I like to be a healthy influence on my Sub. Give them the proper training, encouragement, support & guidance in becoming the best Sub/person that she can be through personal development, which I think some Doms seem to either miss/uninterested, which case they are not True Dom's.
In the relationship she will be better person physically, psychologically, healthy & happy in mind and soul which intern will create and sustain a happier, more meaningful and longer term D/S relationship.

S&M
I enjoy issuing moderate pain and like to give the reminders left behind from play. I want a partner that to can push her limits over time.
It goes without saying that he must openly communicate with each other before/during/after a scene and respect the terms we negotiated beforehand.

My BDSM-lifestyle Interests (so far....)

Giving (dependant upon agreed hard/soft limits of course: SSC):
Spanking
Flogging
Belt
Cane
Collars
Whipping, but to a degree that it will not leave any permanent marks
Bondage (Various, cuffs, rope play)
Orgasm denial, prolonged, forced
Teasing/taunting blindfolded
Sensory play (Blindfold. hoodsDeprivation)
Anal exploration
Private humiliation
Choking
Hair pulling
Tasks (various)
Mind blowing sex
I am a cunning linguist:-)
Aftercare (it's must)

Receiving:
Hand Jobs
Blow jobs
Full Body Massages and grooming
With time...complete devotion

Likes on Sub partner:
My Sub to sensual person and open and willing explore (SSC of course).
FF Stockings.
Obviously High Heels.
Expensive Lingerie.
Latex.

Dislikes:
Unfit Subs who do not respect their bodies.
Subs whom like to "top from the bottom"
Subs whom are use these sites to merely to get off only and inflate their egos.
Blixx1000
icon-wio Blixx1000 has updated their profile description
  • 24.09.2017 15:54:07
  • Male (52)
  • Sunderland
  • Single
Hi,

I am a single intelligent and articulate Ineffable Dom and wants to connect minds with a Submissive play partner.

I am using this site in the hope of building a deep friendship/relationship with a like-minded woman that understands why we are both here and have to have fun and gain a deeperp Read more… under stnading of each other whilst doing so.

There will of course initally be perioids training.
You will be trained to an exeptional high standard. This will make you a better Sub & Person, and ultimately make you phyclogically and physically healthy person and healthy mindset.

Looking for that special someone who shares the similar interests in BDSM and other areas of Fetish kink. I have very good and some previous play partners have said dirty imagination. So lets take the first step and explore...

I'm adventurous and creative, also extremely flexible in BDSM seeking likewise, and thus also largely adaptive to other interests in BDSM.
If you lack experience that is not a problem as you will be given guidance as part of your inital period of training.
BDSM is journey discovery & awakening which all have to take and I am very patient and good with people.

I'm a very genuine sincere, trustworthy, & monogamous type of guy. BDSM is a part of my life, but not all of it.

By the way, I'm also humorous, free of D/D, do not smoke. I drink socially. In vanilla life and not in the Dom role, I'm into usual stuff music, and other intellectual pursuits - the arts & culture, theatre,...far too many to mention here.

Too good to be true? Well lets start to chat and find out;-)

I have committed myself to seeking the right female, but want to start with friendship and play to start with and develop a unique trust and bond in our friendship and then who knows,(if we're compatible).

From my perspective, any idiot can use a whip/hand/what-ever and think to call himself a Master/Dom/Switch, but that's not what defines a Master/Dom/Domme.
Being a Dom is a huge responsibility for me, its not just about being drunk on one's own power over someone. It is about creating a safe place for you to offer your gift of surrender and explore our inner most fantasies and for us to explore the very intimate and sacred places within ourselves.

I have built this profile with the goal for finding a high calibre partner who has submissive urges, whether you are willing to experiment on the BDSM path or have travelled some way there already.
In the hope that in time we can offer each other a relationship. My experience is in rope bondage, spanking, gags, blindfolds and my dislikes are piss, scat or blood.

Ideal Partner:
Looking for a athletic bottom/submissive partner who is ultimately looking to experiment & explore their limits an our fantasies and develop a deep trusting relationship.
I am looking for potential submissive partner who wishes to have a dominant partner, lover and true friend.
I am looking for someone with intelligence, imagination and an adventurous nature.

She must be a submissive when in the role, good-natured, healthy woman, who looks after herself. Inquisitive, curious and wants to explore being a submissive and be controlled and in return she will be used & dominated well , cherished & cared for.

Anything in between is up for negotiation as you learn and expand our limits.
So if you think you may fit the bill and we could possibly connect, please do get in touch.

D/S Relationship
As well as the mind-blowing sex & play.
I beleive in my Sub's better and more functional development and believe in a safe sane and consensual D/S relationship dynamic.
I am not a self serving Dom. Each person in the D/S relationship is supporting the other persons needs.
I like to be a healthy influence on my Sub.
Give them the proper training, encouragement, support & guidance in becoming the best Sub/person that she can be through personal development, which I think some Doms seem to either miss/uninterested, which case they are not True Dom's.
In the relationship she will be better person physically, pychologically, healthy & happy in mind and soul which intern will create and sutain a happier, more meanigful and longer term D/S relationship.
S&M
I enjoy issuing moderate pain and like to give the reminders left behind from play. I want a partner tha to can push her limits over time.
It goes without saying that he must openly communicate with each other during a scene and respect the terms we negotiated beforehand.

Take Care.

Blixx1000 x


== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
99% Dominant
96% Rigger
100% Experimentalist
96% Master/Mistress
93% Daddy/Mommy
90% Owner
74% Voyeur
73% Sadist
60% Degrader
58% Exhibitionist
56% Non-monogamist
57% Primal (Hunter)
47% Switch
46% Ageplayer
39% Vanilla
30% Boy/Girl
28% Rope bunny
23% Masochist
10% Submissive
6% Slave
2% Degradee
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Pet
0% Brat



Why I'm Here
To embrace my kinks.
To make meaningful friendships with kinksters in the BDSM community.
Broaden my BDSM horizons and to meet play partners who will attend local events with me. Please note that by "play" I specifically mean a BDSM scene without sex.
If I'm lucky, to find a long-term romantic partner that will complete me (preferably 25-55 years old, but there are always exceptions).

Who am I - Ineffable Dom
Most people aren’t purely one type. “Dom” is a broad term for anyone who feels more comfortable being Dom.
If I had to try and pigeon hole my self into category I would say I am a type of Dom with a sadistic streak and a touch of Daddy, but I like and is inlfuence by other Dom charactersitics - hence Ineffable,
I love to give the level of affection and care which characterises the DD/lg dynamic, although I like the dynamic not really into lg's mindset.

Typically, I am loving and caring.
I am very self sufficient and I love to spoil my subs.
If you are lucky enough to wear my collar, you will never want or need for anything.
However, don't misunderstand my kindness, lack of control . I can just as quickly take a fist full of your hair and remind you of your place too. I can be strict, structured, intimidating.
I expect her to be obedient and tend to all of my needs as I will take care of all of hers.

I believe submission is earned over time via actions. Merely labelling oneself a "Dom" doesn't carry any value.
A True Dom understands that his Sub's submission is a privilege, not a right, which can be taken away whenever they see fit.

I'm am a man who genuinely respects women.
I demonstrate and expect trust, loyalty, compassion, empathy, personal growth and appreciation. I will be her guide, educator, mentor and lover.
Outside of the bedroom, I want my partner to be my best friend: someone we can openly talk to about anything.
Notice when she is having a bad day and my instinct is to hug her tight and kiss her forehead.
Perceptive enough to pick-up on the lust in her eyes and devour her to my heart's content.

D/S Relationship
As well as the mind-blowing sex & play.
I believe in my Sub's better and more functional development and believe in a safe sane and consensual D/S relationship dynamic.
I am not a self serving Dom. Each person in the D/S relationship is supporting the other persons needs.
I like to be a healthy influence on my Sub. Give them the proper training, encouragement, support & guidance in becoming the best Sub/person that she can be through personal development, which I think some Doms seem to either miss/uninterested, which case they are not True Dom's.
In the relationship she will be better person physically, psychologically, healthy & happy in mind and soul which intern will create and sustain a happier, more meaningful and longer term D/S relationship.

S&M
I enjoy issuing moderate pain and like to give the reminders left behind from play. I want a partner that to can push her limits over time.
It goes without saying that he must openly communicate with each other before/during/after a scene and respect the terms we negotiated beforehand.

My BDSM-lifestyle Interests (so far....)

Giving (dependant upon agreed hard/soft limits of course: SSC):
Spanking
Flogging
Belt
Cane
Collars
Whipping, but to a degree that it will not leave any permanent marks
Bondage (Various, cuffs, rope play)
Orgasm denial, prolonged, forced
Teasing/taunting blindfolded
Sensory play (Blindfold. hoodsDeprivation)
Anal exploration
Private humiliation
Choking
Hair pulling
Tasks (various)
Mind blowing sex
I am a cunning linguist:-)
Aftercare (it's must)

Receiving:
Hand Jobs
Blow jobs
Full Body Massages and grooming
With time...complete devotion
Usually when in role I just take what I want ;-) (see Giving)

Likes:
My Sub to sensual person and open and willing explore (SSC of course).
FF Stockings
Obviously High Heels
Expensive Lingerie
Latex

Dislikes:
Unfit Subs who do not respect their bodies.
Subs whom like to "top from the bottom"
Subs whom are on these sites to merely to get off only and inflate the egos.
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  • 19.09.2017 1:29:42
  • Male (52)
  • Sunderland
  • Single
Looking for an athletic bottom/submissive partner who is ultimately looking to experiment & explore their limits an our fantasies and develop a deep trusting relationship. I am looking for potential submissive partner who wishes to have a dominant partner, lover and true friend. I am looking Read more… for someone with intelligence, imagination and an adventurous nature.

She must be a submissive when in the role, good-natured, healthy woman, who looks after herself. Inquisitive and wants to explore being a submissive and be controlled and in return she will be used & dominated well , cherished & cared for.

Anything in between is up for negotiation as you learn and expand our limits.
So if you think you may fit the bill and we could possibly connect, please do get in touch.
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  • 19.09.2017 1:16:35
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  • Sunderland
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  • 18.09.2017 19:40:08
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  • 18.09.2017 13:47:44
  • Male (52)
  • Sunderland
  • Single
Hi,

I am a single intelligent and articulate Ineffable Dom and needs to connect minds with a bottom/submissive/switch play partner.

I am using this site in the hope of building a deep friendship with a like-minded woman that understands why we are both here and have to have fun whilst doing Read more… so.

So if you wish to be a submissive slave or a sex toy for a Master.
Ready to please in anyway agreed... If you also have hot fantasies about been trained and used get in touch.

Looking for that special someone who shares the similar interests in BDSM and other areas of Fetish kink. I have very good and some previous play partners have said dirty imagination. So lets take the first step and explore...

I'm adventurous and creative, also extremely flexible in BDSM seeking likewise, and thus also largely adaptive to other interests in BDSM. If you lack experience that is not a problem as you will be given guidance as part of your training. BDSM is journey which all have to take and I am very patient and good with people. As the famous saying goes it's not the destination but the enjoyment of the journey.

I'm a very genuine sincere, trustworthy, & monogamous type of guy. BDSM is a part of my life, but not all of it.

By the way, I'm also humorous, free of D/D, do not smoke. I drink socially. In vanilla life and not in the Dom role, I'm into usual stuff music, and other intellectual pursuits - the arts & culture, theatre,...far too many to mention here.

Too good to be true? Well lets start to chat and find out;-)

I have committed myself to seeking the right female, but want to start with friendship and play to start with and develop a unique trust and bond in our friendship and then who knows,(if we're compatible).

From my perspective, any idiot can use a whip/hand/what-ever and think to call himself a Master/Dom/Switch, but that's not what defines a Master/Dom/Domme.
Being a top is a huge responsibility for me, its not just about being drunk on one's own power over someone. It is about creating a safe place for you to offer your gift of surrender and explore our inner most fantasies and for us to explore the very intimate and sacred places within ourselves.

I have built this profile with the goal for finding a high calibre partner who has submissive urges, whether you are willing to experiment on the BDSM path or have travelled some way there already. In the hope that in time we can offer each other a relationship. My experience is in rope bondage, spanking, gags, blindfolds and my dislikes are piss, scat or blood.

Ideal Partner:
Looking for a athletic bottom/submissive partner who is ultimately looking to experiment & explore their limits an our fantasies and develop a deep trusting relationship.
I am looking for potential submissive partner who wishes to have a dominant partner, lover and true friend. I am looking for someone with intelligence, imagination and an adventurous nature.

She must be a submissive when in the role, good-natured, healthy woman, who looks after herself. Inquisitive and wants to explore being a submissive and be controlled and in return she will be used & dominated well , cherished & cared for.

Anything in between is up for negotiation as you learn and expand our limits.
So if you think you may fit the bill and we could possibly connect, please do get in touch.

Take Care.

Blixx x

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  • 18.09.2017 13:41:11
  • Male (52)
  • Sunderland
  • Single