Who am I
Single intelligent, articulate and athletic Dom seeking a long-term D/S relationship with a special Submissive/Switch partner.
Looking for that special Submissive who shares similar interests in BDSM and other areas of Fetish Kink.
I'm adventurous and creative, also has varied interests in the BDSM and the D/S relationship dynamic.
I am searching for that special Submissive who shares the similar interests in BDSM and other areas of fetish kink.
I will of course provide pleasure, direction, any necessary discipline, structure & control. You will give me access to her body, mind and soul.
I have been in/out of the lifestyle some years, vanilla/BDSM, etc, etc, but I have committed myself to finding a true D/S relationship with a submisive who also has kinkster tastes and a love of BDSM.
I will be your guide, teacher, protector and Dominant, always with your best interests at heart.
I will guide and explore your sexuality and test your mental and physical limits, but at all stages ensuring you are safe whilst doing so.
In vanilla life and not in the Dom role, I am of well-rounded character, gsoh, cultured, literature, arts, science, sport and other intellectual pursuits,...far too many to mention here.
Fetishes & Kinks
I have a very with very active, flithy & kinky imagination.
My main fetishes are bondage, bondage & bondage, gags (ball, head harness, bit, o ring, inflatable),
Sensory deprivation/sensory overload, blindfolds, hoods, forced orgasms/sex play, breath play and toys (Dildo/Vibrator, Hitachi, etc), pussy play, anal play, fisting, nipple play, hoods, fuckdoll scenarios, masks, love role play, fear play, latex (hoods, Catsuite, etc), hair pulling, rough sex, choking, giving oral, receiving oral/cock worship.
Various flagellation methods in discipline: spanking of course , flogging, whipping, etc.
On my Subs: FF/seemed stockings, pvc/latex/rubber/lingerie, high heels.
I am very adventurous and I am open to and will try most things.
Who am I - Ineffable Dom
Most people aren’t purely one type. “Dom” is a broad term for anyone who feels more comfortable being Dom.
If I had to try and pigeon hole my self into category I would say I am a type of ineffable Dom with a pinch of DD.
I believe submission is earned over time through actions. Merely labelling oneself a "Dom" or "Master" doesn't carry any value.
A True Dom understands that his Submissives' submission is a privilege, not a right, which can be taken away.
I demonstrate and expect trust, loyalty, compassion, empathy, personal growth and appreciation.
I can be strict and/or kind, and I can be a hard task master to achive excellence.
High attention to detail and high sex drive.
I will be her guide, educator, mentor and Dom.
Why I'm Here
To find a submissive partner in a long term D/S relationship.
To explore, embrace. experiment with my fetishes & kinks.
To make meaningful friendships with other kinksters in the BDSM community.
To learn and grow as a Dom (in truth you are always learning whether Dom or Sub , anyone else who says any other are BSs)
Broaden my BDSM horizons and to meet kinksters who will attend local events with me.
As well as the mind-altering sex & play.
I believe in my Submissives better and more functional development and believe in a safe sane and consensual D/S relationship dynamic.
I am not a self-serving Dom. Each person in the D/S relationship is supporting the other person’s needs.
I want to a submissive who can fuel my Dominant nature. If you knwo what this meas then you could be the one.
I like to be a healthy influence on my Submissive. Give them the proper training, encouragement, support & guidance in becoming the best Submissive/person that she can be through personal development, which I think some Dom’s seem to either misunderstand /uninterested, which case they are not True Dom's.
In our D/S relationship, she will be better person physically, psychologically, healthy & happy in mind and soul which intern will create and sustain a happier, more meaningful and longer term D/S relationship.
All limits will be respected throughout training and play as agreed in negotiations beforehand.
You will feel a positive sense of purpose and direction, knowing that the we are striving to achieve the absolute best for our D/S relationship.
As part of your training, any correction, obediance, discipline, will be structured, controlled, un-emotive, and relevant.
It will reinforce the rules/protocols, and the positions of Dominant and Submissive.
All submissive's need and benefit from training
I will give the you what all you desire and crave; a feeling of safety within the confines a caring D/S relationship with clear boundaries and rules.
Level of BDSM will be tuned to my submissives desires and cravings. I want my partner to explore our BDSM desires over time.
It goes without saying that we must openly communicate with each other before/during/after a scene and respect the terms we negotiated beforehand.
Also interested in networking with other Mistresses/Dommes/Doms w.r.t sharing knowledge and experiences, training techniques, play and partnering in scenes/sessions.
Please understand that our journey of discovery requires great trust, discretion, and understanding on our parts.
We will explore & test your independent nature, your fantasies, fetishes, your edge and boundaries, and even some of mine. Are you prepared for that?
So you can relax, enjoy and immerse yourself in this new experience. Have fun...I will, but don't take this fun or this experience lightly, for we will be taking our relationship to another level.
I will challenge you and satisfy you, and I want you to know that I will always adore & cherish you, pamper you and please you, and you shall submit in return.
If you decide that this is what you want please know and understand that there will be no disobedience, no silliness, no defiance on your part. Please note this is not a game to solely get you off, it is a D/S relationship.
If you are serious about your service, then come submit and serve with honour and respect while increasing your knowledge of the lifestyle as you honour me with your mind, body and soul.
Training, educating, guiding and dominating you will be my pleasure.
Looking for a submissive partner who is looking to experiment & explore their BDSM fantasies and develop a deep trusting relationship.
I am looking for potential submissive partner who wishes to have a dominant partner, lover and true friend.
I am looking for someone with intelligence, imagination and an adventurous nature.
She must be a submissive when in the role, good-natured, healthy woman, who looks after herself. Inquisitive and wants to explore being a submissive and be controlled and in return she will be used & dominated well , cherished & cared for.
Anything in between is up for negotiation as you learn and expand our limits.
So if you think you may fit the bill and we could possibly connect, please get in touch.