I'm a happily married, educated, middle class professional, but whose sex life is vanilla to the maximum. Looking to to explore and experiment with in a very trusting, open and mature manner with intelligent others. Willing to discuss all fetishes and ideas, but here are some of my own if you'd like to chat further? From what I can make out, I'm a switch with exhibitionist tendencies, but if after reading the below you can think of a better term, I'm all ears! Age not necessarily an issue - some of the most rewarding encounters I've ever had have been with partners 50+! With that said, I'm a total sucker for women in their 40's...

Becoming more 'part of the community', meeting others with similar tastes and learning new tricks, whether in a private or more formal group setting. Would love to get in contact with people who can introduce me to the scene!

Performing sex acts/intercourse with an audience in the same room. In another session, being a part of that audience and watching the person I came with play with others.

Being dominated and penetrated by a woman.

Tying another up and teasing them mercilessly - then reversing roles!

Simultaneous multiple partners, whether that's a threesome or more.

Slow, tactile exploration of as yet undiscovered erogenous zones.

If any of this appeals to you, you know someone or a group of people that I can be introduced to, or (even better) you have some suggestions for other activities, I'm all ears. Of course, would want to get to know someone over coffee or drinks first to establish trust and shared interests...