open to learning, would appreciate help from someone i can trust
i love to feel empowered, i'm powerful once aroused, and i like to take control, so i need clear boundaries
i'm comfortable being vulnerable, but need to feel safe at the same time
i suspect that i might be a switch (as i like to please, but i also want to retain control and am not sure how to resolve the contradiction)
i'd like to explore these aspects of myself in more detail