The way that I play generally tends to lean towards a more submissive axis, however, I have some experience in playing as a Dominant and would like to explore this further.
I'm currently practising a solo poly/relationship anarchy model in terms of relationships. I’m happy to explain that further and/or provide resources if you’re interested in learning more about that. I find that it makes the most sense to me out of all of the relationship models that I’ve read about.
In terms of my interests… I’m a passionate vegan and feminist. Outside of dedicated work I like to do a lot of yoga and meditation, and balance that out with healthy doses of dancing to chest-vibrating bass. I also enjoy cooking, reading and being in nature.
I'm open to many relationship configurations but what I'm looking for is to develop long-term loving, committed relationships, and explore kink, though both of those things do not necessarily need to be experienced together for me.
How to refer to me
I use the pronouns they/them.
During play -
As a dominant I prefer “Sir” or “Queen”.
Whilst in a submissive role you can refer to me as enby, girl or other non-gendered terms such as toy.
Safewords
When playing I use the following words for safety:
Red - stop all play immediately and check in.
Yellow – pause play and check in.
Hard limits
Scat
Permanent body modification
*Being left alone whilst restrained