Personal details

Gender Man
Age 42
Status Single
Height 183cm
Weight 76kg
Body shape Average build
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Other
Hair length Bald
Beard Shaved/no beard
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin Scotland
Pubic Hair Shaved
Body hair None
Zodiac signs Virgo
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings

About me

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Description

I am the Reverend Caradoc Sinistre, one facet of a patchwork soul, that fragmented individual called C.

I am his dark side. I am the voice in darkness that caresses your mind, I am the hand tightening around your throat and the cold knife sliding over your skin.

I am the sadistic, wicked part. The vampiric creature of darkness that lurks in the shadowy corners of the mind and gets hungry at the smell of blood. I smile at other’s pain and outright laugh when that pain is caused by me. The noises a girl makes when being hurt just right are ALMOST as delicious to me as those she makes when teased just right and I like to draw both out as long as I can manage to restrain myself. Torturous teasing and tormenting is my favourite form of foreplay.... I am not a patient man however and there’s only so long I can draw it out.

I am also not a dom, I may be dominant at times but only as a tool in my box of tricks of sadism. I feel that is maybe a small and subtle difference, but an important one nonetheless. I am also not the most extreme sadist, I never claim to be, but I am ever evolving, trying new things and adding new weapons to my arsenal. I've had a few odd reactions from identifying as a sadist. It doesn't make me a bad person, I just don't randomly torture people, you have to volunteer! I'll be a gentleman till you give me the "Go" word and open that door.

Which side of me would you like to meet? Take your pick, open the door and see who awaits you on the other side.

I am Caradoc Sinistre.

A gloriously decadent gentleman of dark passions and I would like to meet you. I await you with an anticipatory smile. Freak, geek, ordained heathen, Dudeist priest, bowler, not a golfer, not wrong just an asshole, calmer than you are, walks softly, carries a big stick, abides.

Caradoc

Fantasies

Recently separated, I am reconnecting with my dark side and am open to finding a new submissive masochistic play partner in the short term. Ideally, I would like to find someone I connect with well enough for it to develop into a relationship but I'll take it one step at a time and make sure we get on well first.

I like to tease and torment using every sensation I can bring to bear from my toolbag of tricks.

My kinks & fetishes

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My places

Fetish.com gives you…


Fetish.com is like an appetizing smorgasbord in North Lanarkshire with lots of hot guys to meet up with. Have a look around first if you prefer to see who’s around, or if you know what you want, search by selecting the right category "Kinky Dating”. Nobody stays alone here for long! Fetish.com has tons going on!

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How did you get switched on to Fetish.com?
Web searching for kinky dating sites as OKC and POF are full of really dull, beige, vanilla people I have no interest in :-(
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What types of kinksters are you hoping to meet here on Fetish.com?
In all honesty? Female, sub, masochistic and like tall bald Scotsmen! I am actively looking for a new play partner and hopefully relationship.
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When did you discover you were kinky? Tell us about your journey through kink and BDSM.
My first girlfriend liked to have sex in odd places and outdoors where there was the risk of being caught. I found it a thrill and a turn on too.

A slightly later girlfriend asked me to spank her and I loved it. She also asked me to use the cheap manacle handcuffs I had for a Blues Brothers Read more… costume in bed and I loved it even more!

THEN.... a few friends invited me out to the Scottish Cyberball fetish night run by Torture Garden. I had no kink or fetish gear but I did have a motorbike so I chucked on my leathers and went like that. That was when it really sank home. I'm kinky and I love it.
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What was your first kinky experience? What did you learn from it?
See above ;-)

A girlfriend asked me to spank her and to use the cheap manacle handcuffs I had for a Blues Brothers costume in bed and I loved it!
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What qualities are most important for you in a relationship?( BDSM, kinky or vanilla)
If it's not just a play partner and an actual relationship then communication, trust and just liking each other. Beyond that, compatible kinks and fetishes, passion and never stopping exploring.
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Tell us a bit about your kinky lifestyle. Do you go to fetish clubs and munches, are you in a 24/7 relationship...?
Been off the scene for a few years due to being in a mostly vanilla long term relationship. Before that and since I'm out on the local scene, clubs, munches, play parties if there's any going ;-) At the time of writing this, single and looking.
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What BDSM skills do you have (i.e. rope bondage, play piercing, etc)? What are you interested in learning more about or get better at?
I do not do rope, I don't have the patience ;-)

I do not do needles, knives, blood, singletail whips or anything that breaks the skin. I WOULD like to but I've not had a partner into these things and so have no had a chance to learn how to do them safely.

I'm not doing something I'm not sure Read more… I can do safely without a bit of guidance first. Anyone who says "Oh just try it and learn as you go!" is just dangerous and an accident waiting to happen (like just jumping in a car without any lesson and taking it out on the public road, you're a danger to yourself and everyone around you).
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D/s: Dom/me or sub? Top or bottom? Caregiver or little? Owner or slave? Do you switch or are you unsure?
Dominant Sadist Top.

In the most honest and blunt terms: I like to hurt and fuck pretty girls who like being hurt while being fucked.
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What turns your kinky brain and body on?
"Yes sir" with demure downcast eyes but also with a spark of defiance in there too.

Crying. As fucked up as it sounds, a masochist sub crying turns me on.
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Tell us about your kinky fantasies!
I am a broad spectrum kinkster, I'm reasonably creative and inventive, I don't have specific fantasies. It depends on who I'm with and what mood we're in what we do.
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What was your most memorable kinky experience?
True story? I was once down in Birmingham for a weekend staging the Scottish invasion of the brum kink scene and going to the BBB (Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar) and while wearing my kilt out to the fet club had 2 subs, naked except for slave collars with barcode dogtags, come up to me and ask what was Read more… under the kilt. Of course, I said "Nothing" since I have Alopecia Universalis and have ZERO hair ANYWHERE and EVERYWHERE ;-) and was asked "Really nothing?" so i asked if they would like to check. I expected a hand up the kilt..... the redheaded one with the glasses dropped to her knees, grabbed both front aprons, lifted them and stuck her head and shoulders under. My sporran was sitting on top of her head! I heard a gasp, felt some hot breath on my skin then she popped back out with a pleasantly surprised look on her face. "I did say nothing, didn't I?" she gave me a big hug and laughed "Oh I might run away with this one!" then snapped over her shoulder at her companion "DON'T TELL MASTER THAT!!!" ;-D They were someone elses collared subs so I wouldn't do anything without permission but that little interaction made my weekend! LOL
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Are you out or in-the-closet about your kinks, sexual orientation or gender identity? Why?
Half in, half out. To my family.... SOOOOO far back in the closet I'm in Narnia!

To people who get it, I'm honest and out.