About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- LTR (relationship)
- Networking
- BDSM Lovers
Description
Lightning in a bottle. Those are
the best words that have ever been used
to describe me.But there are other words. Fierce.
Clever.
Protector. Abrasive. A lost soul looking
for a safe harbor. I've been told I scare people.
That I give off Domme vibes. I'm not a
Dominant. But I am strong. Opinionated.
Decisive. I stand on my own two feet. So
inspire me
to fall to my knees. You can't make me,
I promise you that.
.
.
I am...
Submissive with a side of sass. Bad poet. Reasonably experienced. Expert bullshit detector. Not looking for anything other than the extraordinary.
Limits
Scat, age play, vomit play, branding and scarification. Under 30s and over 50s.
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
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Have I done the work?
Have you done the work? I saw
these words on another profile
and thought, have I? The man
was uninteresting, but his words
rang in my head. Do I know myself?
I know that I'm strong, independent,
and I know that I'm stronger and
more independent when I'm afraid.
I know I yearn to hand the reins
to Read more…someone, but that I'm too scared
to fully do so. And I know why.
I know the reasons that I crave
being in control and being
controlled. I know what I'm looking
for, and why I haven't found it.
I know all the pieces that make up
my kintsugi puzzle, but the razor
sharp fragments are just that.
I understand what needs to be fixed,
but not what tools I need to fix it.
Have I done the work, or just
the research?
these words on another profile
and thought, have I? The man
was uninteresting, but his words
rang in my head. Do I know myself?
I know that I'm strong, independent,
and I know that I'm stronger and
more independent when I'm afraid.
I know I yearn to hand the reins
to Read more…someone, but that I'm too scared
to fully do so. And I know why.
I know the reasons that I crave
being in control and being
controlled. I know what I'm looking
for, and why I haven't found it.
I know all the pieces that make up
my kintsugi puzzle, but the razor
sharp fragments are just that.
I understand what needs to be fixed,
but not what tools I need to fix it.
Have I done the work, or just
the research?
LikePindaKaasjuh, Bison77, NorthernGirl2002and 31 more… · 19 Replies
Feral_MountainKing As always, beautifully written. Doing the “work” is hard, requires dedication, and the mind set that you are getting down to business. Book smart gets you do far, but that action of doing something, increases your knowledge of the subject so much infinitely more. (I’m not trying to be as vague as my response appears) As always, beautifully written. Doing the “work” is hard, requires dedication, and the mind set that you are getting down to business. Book smart gets you do far, but that action of doing something, increases your knowledge of the subject so much infinitely more. (I’m not trying to be as vague as my response appears)
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· 22.11.2023 10:04:00
Riccar56 ➦Riccar56 quote Kimber469ing:❝It’s nice to meet you. I appreciate your comment and I will accept all the help. I can possibly get if you would like to private message me you must certainly may look forward to chatting with you. I love receiving help from different people it’s all different angles Read more… of the spectrum, so I’m not close minded I won’t treat you like a mushroom. I won’t keep you in the dark and feed your bullshit. I treat people the way I want to be treated that’s always been my life‘s motto. It was the way I was raised plus I feel better in my heart being honest with people finding Fetish.com help change me for the better. I was severely depressed when I first came in here I was actually considering killing myself, believe it or not, but App actually helps save my life that I went into therapy but the therapy hasn’t helped as much as the people in this app. Some of them are assholes right you you’ll have good apples and bad but I appreciate your comment so I look forward to chatting with you hopefully.❞
I can’t DM you die to your filter settings. Message me first and I should be able to reply.
I can’t DM you die to your filter settings. Message me first and I should be able to reply.
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· 21.11.2023 14:57:33
Kimber469ing ➦Kimber469ing quote Riccar56:❝I love the two lines you picked up from another profile, and expanded on them maintaining the meter/line length. Especially liked your reference to the Kintsugi puzzle of your life. So many people dismiss a persons past experiences as “baggage“ intended in a Read more… disparaging manner. I’m a longtime power exchange Dom. When starting with a new potential sub I let them know that I expect them to open their entire past to me overtime. I want to try to understand the difficult times they’ve been through to appreciate where they are today. Thank you for sharing.  If you’d like to chat a bit about the lifestyle (or other topics) I can usually hold up my end of an intelligent conversation. I am Rick.❞
It’s nice to meet you. I appreciate your comment and I will accept all the help. I can possibly get if you would like to private message me you must certainly may look forward to chatting with you. I love receiving help from different people it’s all different angles of the spectrum, so I’m not close minded I won’t treat you like a mushroom. I won’t keep you in the dark and feed your bullshit. I treat people the way I want to be treated that’s always been my life‘s motto. It was the way I was raised plus I feel better in my heart being honest with people finding Fetish.com help change me for the better. I was severely depressed when I first came in here I was actually considering killing myself, believe it or not, but App actually helps save my life that I went into therapy but the therapy hasn’t helped as much as the people in this app. Some of them are assholes right you you’ll have good apples and bad but I appreciate your comment so I look forward to chatting with you hopefully.
It’s nice to meet you. I appreciate your comment and I will accept all the help. I can possibly get if you would like to private message me you must certainly may look forward to chatting with you. I love receiving help from different people it’s all different angles of the spectrum, so I’m not close minded I won’t treat you like a mushroom. I won’t keep you in the dark and feed your bullshit. I treat people the way I want to be treated that’s always been my life‘s motto. It was the way I was raised plus I feel better in my heart being honest with people finding Fetish.com help change me for the better. I was severely depressed when I first came in here I was actually considering killing myself, believe it or not, but App actually helps save my life that I went into therapy but the therapy hasn’t helped as much as the people in this app. Some of them are assholes right you you’ll have good apples and bad but I appreciate your comment so I look forward to chatting with you hopefully.
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· 20.11.2023 23:01:40
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Hands
Hands are an unappreciated beauty.
They can draw me to you, and they
can repel me, kill my interest dead.
I like rough hands. Strong. I love to
feel every moment of hard work
when you stroke your fingertips
over my skin, as you graze my nipples
and sent electricity through my
Body. I love the power Read more…I can
Surrender to when you fist my hair
and wrench my head back. When you
slide your hand around the delicate
column of my throat. Squeeze.
Hold. Let me quiver like prey caught
in a trap. I love the feel of your palm
gliding over my ass, a soft precursor
to the strikes that will leave my skin
a glorious shade of red. I love the thumb
you force into my mouth, to make
absolutely sure you have my
complete attention. I love your hands.
All over my body. All over my soul.
They can draw me to you, and they
can repel me, kill my interest dead.
I like rough hands. Strong. I love to
feel every moment of hard work
when you stroke your fingertips
over my skin, as you graze my nipples
and sent electricity through my
Body. I love the power Read more…I can
Surrender to when you fist my hair
and wrench my head back. When you
slide your hand around the delicate
column of my throat. Squeeze.
Hold. Let me quiver like prey caught
in a trap. I love the feel of your palm
gliding over my ass, a soft precursor
to the strikes that will leave my skin
a glorious shade of red. I love the thumb
you force into my mouth, to make
absolutely sure you have my
complete attention. I love your hands.
All over my body. All over my soul.
DopeyDom Teasing, taunting, touching, tweaking, thrashing and therapeutic. Those hands. Teasing, taunting, touching, tweaking, thrashing and therapeutic. Those hands.
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· 15.11.2023 15:53:33
BlueDiamond69 Mmmm…, hands… 💙 Mmmm…, hands… 💙
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· 15.11.2023 15:36:36
DesmOinesMan Very nice. “All over my soul” is a beautiful finale. Very nice. “All over my soul” is a beautiful finale.
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· 15.11.2023 9:57:34
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Who believes this is a hookup site?
My issue with people who think this is a hook up site (kink and fetish dating doesn't = hook up to me) is how many people think being kinky equates to being easy. Imo it's the opposite. I find the idea of kink hook ups dangerous.
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Master types (a poem)
Dominance verses domineering. Confidence
or arrogance. Master. Sir. Your Royal
McDomlipants. You hold the wheel, you
steer the boat. You set the course. Please,
though, remember. You prove yourself
to me as much as I prove myself to you.
Submission is a gift, you cannot take it.
You cannot demand Read more…it. It is mine to offer.
When you come to me with a vision
of who I will be - who I should be -
already in your head, you do not see me.
And I will be seen. Submissive does not
make me a shadow, a flower clinging to
the wall. When you think of only who
you will mold me into, you negate all that
is me. You are a wall, not a harbor, and
that give me no protection from the storm.
or arrogance. Master. Sir. Your Royal
McDomlipants. You hold the wheel, you
steer the boat. You set the course. Please,
though, remember. You prove yourself
to me as much as I prove myself to you.
Submission is a gift, you cannot take it.
You cannot demand Read more…it. It is mine to offer.
When you come to me with a vision
of who I will be - who I should be -
already in your head, you do not see me.
And I will be seen. Submissive does not
make me a shadow, a flower clinging to
the wall. When you think of only who
you will mold me into, you negate all that
is me. You are a wall, not a harbor, and
that give me no protection from the storm.
grenoble988 This resonates with me as well. It sounds like revindication of self-love and self-worth which is really cool because all people care about is for others to value them. Ego's a helluva drug This resonates with me as well. It sounds like revindication of self-love and self-worth which is really cool because all people care about is for others to value them. Ego's a helluva drug
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· 11.11.2023 17:29:13
alicehumble Thank you for your art char, your poetry. Honestly I resonate with most of your words. You go deep within and paint pain, love, submission and more so artistically. Thank you 🙏 Thank you for your art char, your poetry. Honestly I resonate with most of your words. You go deep within and paint pain, love, submission and more so artistically. Thank you 🙏
Likeredbown, Char__, grenoble988
· 10.11.2023 6:54:07
I'm a challenge. I know that.
I've always thought that that
was a blessing. A plus. Something
to be proud of. I don't know
what to do, what to say, when
you say no to that. When you
don't dare to pick up the gauntlet.
When you don't want to tame
the fire. I guess I don't understand.
You're Read more… Dominant, aren't you? How
does it feel to hold dominion
over a field mouse? To bring a
puppet to its knees? Does it fill you
with purpose and power and
predatory satisfaction? Does it light
the fire inside you? Jealousy is not
a good color on me, I know that.
Petulant, either. The importance of
the strong that longs to find someone
wort whom they can be weak. The
fearless who longs to be vulnerable.
I've always thought that that
was a blessing. A plus. Something
to be proud of. I don't know
what to do, what to say, when
you say no to that. When you
don't dare to pick up the gauntlet.
When you don't want to tame
the fire. I guess I don't understand.
You're Read more… Dominant, aren't you? How
does it feel to hold dominion
over a field mouse? To bring a
puppet to its knees? Does it fill you
with purpose and power and
predatory satisfaction? Does it light
the fire inside you? Jealousy is not
a good color on me, I know that.
Petulant, either. The importance of
the strong that longs to find someone
wort whom they can be weak. The
fearless who longs to be vulnerable.
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Fifty Ways to Leave your Submissive
I prefer free verse because I like the ebb and flow, and there are more opportunities for effective enjambment.
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If you would like to harrass someone by bombing their pics with crude comments after they cut off access to their messages, please note they can delete all of your filth after they block you.
Have a nice day
Have a nice day
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Fifty Ways to Leave your Submissive
We start with the hangman’s
noose. The sudden drop
that makes it hard to breathe.
A crowd watching as you flail.
The death of the dynamic
that leaves only ghosts, silent
on your phone. In your heart.
That’s preferable to being slain
by a tiny thousand cuts. Cut off
in the middle of a Read more…conversation.
Disappearing on a Tuesday that
bleeds into Wednesday before
a gasp of air on Thursday. They’ll
let you inhale before choking you
For an endless weekend.
Or perhaps they’ll leave without
leaving. Short replies, no text
good morning. The conversation,
that flowed and danced, stutters.
You try desperately to push the
wheels uphill, but you know,
there is no rush of downward
on the other side.
Sometimes, rare times, they’ll
tell you. I need a break. This
just isn’t right. It’s not you, it’s
me. A handshake and a kiss
on the cheek. A promise to
be friends before they glide
out of your life. The door closes.
You sit and watch it like a lost puppy
Hoping its master will still
come home.
noose. The sudden drop
that makes it hard to breathe.
A crowd watching as you flail.
The death of the dynamic
that leaves only ghosts, silent
on your phone. In your heart.
That’s preferable to being slain
by a tiny thousand cuts. Cut off
in the middle of a Read more…conversation.
Disappearing on a Tuesday that
bleeds into Wednesday before
a gasp of air on Thursday. They’ll
let you inhale before choking you
For an endless weekend.
Or perhaps they’ll leave without
leaving. Short replies, no text
good morning. The conversation,
that flowed and danced, stutters.
You try desperately to push the
wheels uphill, but you know,
there is no rush of downward
on the other side.
Sometimes, rare times, they’ll
tell you. I need a break. This
just isn’t right. It’s not you, it’s
me. A handshake and a kiss
on the cheek. A promise to
be friends before they glide
out of your life. The door closes.
You sit and watch it like a lost puppy
Hoping its master will still
come home.
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alicehumble This was heart wrenching. Painful. Your poetry always touches me in someway. Beautifully written. This was heart wrenching. Painful. Your poetry always touches me in someway. Beautifully written.
LikeChar__, Angelbaby865, redbown
· 25.10.2023 21:48:55
yourman57 I was unsure about what you should do, until the last paragraph. I’ve just come out of a virtually identical relationship. I tried so hard to keep up the conversation, solve whatever issues I could find... but kept getting the brief, if any replies... and then I discovered her fully engaged in an Read more… anonymous chat with strangers , I presume ...when she couldn’t give me more than an emoji, or a single word. So I confronted her with that ... just silence. I knew it was over, and she’d just been stringing me along. Why? No idea ... but it really doesn’t matter, does it? Yes, you know what you should do, so trust me ... get on and do it. I was better than what she did to me ... and I believe you are too 🤗
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· 24.10.2023 3:54:49
PrincessBrat1981 This is sooo heart wrenching!
Im currently stuck between leaving without leaving and need a break (not from me per say but in general)
I get reactions to texts, but no words. Other times it’s very short responses, but I’m always initiating a question or something to engage him. However, when he’s Read more… there, it’s like we are perfect! He’s back to calling me his good girl and everything is normal, until he pulls back again.
When I express my panic for abandonment, he seems to get mad at me. I’ve told him to just tell me if things change for him. I’ve asked multiple times if we are ok and he always says yes. Yet I can’t shake this feeling that he’s keeping something from me.
I know I should call for a pause and ask for discussion but I don’t want to stress him out even more and push him further away.
And then i see him logged online when he’s barely responding to me.
I know what I should do but my heart won’t allow me to say the words!
Im currently stuck between leaving without leaving and need a break (not from me per say but in general)
I get reactions to texts, but no words. Other times it’s very short responses, but I’m always initiating a question or something to engage him. However, when he’s Read more… there, it’s like we are perfect! He’s back to calling me his good girl and everything is normal, until he pulls back again.
When I express my panic for abandonment, he seems to get mad at me. I’ve told him to just tell me if things change for him. I’ve asked multiple times if we are ok and he always says yes. Yet I can’t shake this feeling that he’s keeping something from me.
I know I should call for a pause and ask for discussion but I don’t want to stress him out even more and push him further away.
And then i see him logged online when he’s barely responding to me.
I know what I should do but my heart won’t allow me to say the words!
Likeelizaellie, adrian552, grenoble988and 3 more…
· 23.10.2023 7:19:21
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