Status

Not single

In a relationship with Edward944

Personal details

Gender Woman
Age 39
Status Not single
Zodiac signs Pisces

About me

Description

im new to bdsm really. im also a switch. iv had a playmate were i was mistress but im now in a partnership with a master.

i like daddy little girl kind of thing also. i liked to be punished if im naughty. i love takeing care of people and iv been told im a feeder. i also love haveing my feet stroked. i want to learn more and make freinds.

I'm happy to talk but no sexual talk an no picks of dicks ect. i belong to my master 100%. i follow his rules and i will not share myself with any one but him. my master gives me all that i need.

im only here to make kink friends as all my friends are vanila

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
75% Boy/Girl
67% Dominant
62% Switch
58% Non-monogamist
56% Rope bunny
56% Submissive
45% Experimentalist
42% Vanilla
42% Daddy/Mommy
40% Brat
40% Masochist
39% Master/Mistress
39% Slave
31% Primal (Hunter)
30% Rigger
29% Ageplayer
15% Degradee
4% Pet
3% Sadist
2% Primal (Prey)
1% Exhibitionist
1% Voyeur
0% Degrader
0% Owner

Fantasies

i want to learn to be more submisive and be taken care of but i also need to be made to behave sometimes. im a rwal control freak so being sub is my way of letting go. i love takeing care of people.

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Charmaine
icon-wio Charmaine has updated their profile description
im new to bdsm really. im also a switch. iv had a playmate were i was mistress but im now in a partnership with a master.
i like daddy little girl kind of thing also. i liked to be punished if im naughty. i love takeing care of people and iv been told im a feeder. i also love haveing my feet Read more… stroked. i want to learn more and make freinds.
I'm happy to talk but no sexual talk an no picks of dicks ect. i belong to my master 100%. i follow his rules and i will not share myself with any one but him. my master gives me all that i need.
im only here to make kink friends as all my friends are vanila
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
75% Boy/Girl
67% Dominant
62% Switch
58% Non-monogamist
56% Rope bunny
56% Submissive
45% Experimentalist
42% Vanilla
42% Daddy/Mommy
40% Brat
40% Masochist
39% Master/Mistress
39% Slave
31% Primal (Hunter)
30% Rigger
29% Ageplayer
15% Degradee
4% Pet
3% Sadist
2% Primal (Prey)
1% Exhibitionist
1% Voyeur
0% Degrader
0% Owner
Charmaine
icon-wio Charmaine wrote something in the forum
Tattooed People👌🏻

some of mine mean something a few are very personal. others i got because i just like them an they fit in with how i am

Charmaine
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Menstrual fetish

im sory but i find this nasty i can not do anything when its ladys time. it maybe to do with my ocd with germs or fact iv been brought up for it not 2 b normal

Charmaine
icon-wio Charmaine wrote something in the forum
Fisting

iv been done up my pussy but not my bum. i do like it an with lots of lube its freakin awsome. but after i get a little sore. im hypersensative . witch isnt good when i want to play. but after half hour tops im so tight. iv been told i xan b as tight as a virgin unless preped right

Charmaine
icon-wio Charmaine wrote something in the forum
Boyfriend is unsure about BDSM cause I've been sexually assualted in the past

talking is good. tell him about your limits an explain its nothing to do with your past but its just a part of you.
a good idea is to talk about your limits but also ask him if he as limits as well. limits work both ways.
sub drop is a thing i know after a weekend with my master an returning to my Read more… normal life i got sad. although id had great after care an we did alot of vanila stuff. like cuddling an watching tv . maybe i just missed his company.
but also dom drop is a thing. its all about careing for each other the way you u both like works well. also do normal date things to . me an my master do we go shopping togther an cook. just normal couple things

Charmaine
icon-wio Charmaine wrote something in the forum
New submissive

its about rules. i have areas that fit in green orange an red. green i do orange im not sure red hell no.
also its about knowing when to play an when to go back to being normal self.
my master an i play and we both love it. yes there are rules he wishes ne to live by but most are about being safe Read more… when im out when its dark or out drinking ect with freinds. an lookin after my health. basic stuff . he is my master but hes rule is i must be healthy and of sound mind to play. there are a few other rules to but not controlling 1s. he doesnt tell me who i an see or what i can do as long as im safe
when we dont play we are just a normal couple. infact i can be a bit bossy when it comes to him. like i will buy him things an tell him he as to have it

Charmaine
icon-wio Charmaine wrote something in the forum
The do's, don't's and MUSTS of Anal Sex!

im sorry but i no. if it goes up my bum it doesnt go in my mouth or my pussy. maybe its my ocd an germ thing kicking in

Charmaine
icon-wio Charmaine wrote something in the forum
Negative responses to Private messages - Why?

if i get a txt sayin nice tits im like go away. therescso many creeps on here. tey starting with hi may i talk to you.
i want chat 2 people who go straight 4 the nice tits or dick picks. i think being polite an well manerd works well.
like some 1 said u wouldn't go up to some 1 in a bar an go Read more… nice tots. same as u wouldn't go up to some one an get ya dick out.

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icon-wio Charmaine created a topic in Body Fetishes
Is Disability Fetish okay?
hi have just watched a doc on youtube about people who get off on watching people in wheelchairs struggle to do things . also people with body parts missing or people using walking sticks or crutches.
kind of made me sick. disabled people are human an not just something to look at. there was a part Read more…were people secretly filmed people using wheelchairs crutches or walking sticks. as a disabled person myself i fount the secret filming sickening. i only ues a walking frame or a stick when need to most of the time when my disability is playing up im stuck in bed. but these are people who ues walking frames sticks crutches or wheelchairs every day.
yes i have a master an when we were in our meeting for coffee and chatting phase of our relationship i explained my medical problem an was worried it would turn him away but it didn't. maybe the fact id known him as a friend for 24 years helped.
i know for a fact my disability doesn't turn him on at all . in fact his caring protective side comes out. not 1s while im ill does he get turned on.
What do other people think of this?
LikeRandy2168 · 11 Replies
712i
712i i'm fine with body part fetishes, if people get compatible pleasure from a non-sexual body part then i don't see the harm in that at all. it's fun and enjoyable on both sides. fetishishing and objectifying a whole person is another matter for me personally, and if all they are is a fetish then Read more… you've likely dehumanised them and reduced them down to someone who exists solely for your pleasure.
i've got spinal injury (stenosis in multiple places) and no i don't consent to being fetishised for that. it can cause me considerable pain, has affected my mobility, and some other changes to my body and i do not feel sexy for that.if someone can see past that and treat me as a human being despite my disability then that's what i really want.
Like · 18.02.2018 23:02:36
ampdev
ampdev In my late teens I lived with a gf who got really turned on when I broke my upper right arm and had to have it in a sling, tucked inside my shirt with the sleeve hanging empty. When I went out with her for the first time like this we passed a family leaving their house, and a little boy shouted Read more… out: "Look! That man's only got one arm!" and my gf almost fainted. From then on, until my arm mended, she called me "One-Arm", couldn't get enough sex, and was really turned on whenever I had to do anything, like get dressed or go to the toilet or have a wash, using only my left arm. I began to notice for the first time - I was blind to it before - that whenever she saw a man or a teenaged boy with an arm or a leg missing (especially a leg) she would stare really hard at him and that when we had sex later she was like an animal. Once, in an unguarded moment, she said "I wish that was you" when we passed a young man whose right leg was missing from the hip. She went red with embarrassment, but again sex that night was so good I didn't mind. There were several other occasions when we passed an amputee and she would squeeze my hand really tight and look as if she was about to collapse. And sex afterwards was really great. In the end she left me for a boy who had been badly burned in a fire resulting in the loss of his right arm above the elbow, most of the fingers on his left hand, an eye, an ear, and his nose. About a year later they got married and I heard from one of her friends that she would have married me had I agreed to lose a leg. How that would have come about I do not know. I already had plenty of kinks of my own - boots, leather, latex, PVC, voyeurism, being cuckolded (especially by black men) - and have had some of these fantasies fulfilled, so cannot take the moral high-ground about her strange kink, and, in any case, ever since then I have myself become slowly more fascinated with amputees, but have never dated one or even approached one. Deep down, I know it is morally wrong. But there are moments when I think that if she were to come into my life and ask me to have a leg removed, I would say yes. BTW, she is the only girl I have ever met who is into sex with the disabled; it seems to be almost exclusively a male fetish.
Like · 29.01.2018 15:48:05
airhead
airhead ITS your choice my dear. ITS your choice my dear.
Like · 29.01.2018 6:28:03
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Charmaine
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How did you get switched on to Fetish.com?
saw a site mentioned in comments on you tube. googled it but this site came up. so thought of have a look
Charmaine
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What types of kinksters are you hoping to meet here on Fetish.com?
im here to meet any 1 as im open minded. i just want to learn more about kink an make freinds as i only have vanila freinds an can not chat kink to them
Charmaine
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When did you discover you were kinky? Tell us about your journey through kink and BDSM.
i fount my 1st kink when i was 13. i was at a jimmy summervile gig an saw lots of men kissing over men it gave me weird feelings but iv loved it since then
Charmaine
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What was your first kinky experience? What did you learn from it?
playing with a bf i had at the time. he asked me to tie him to the bed an blind fold him and do what i wanted to him
Charmaine
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What qualities are most important for you in a relationship?( BDSM, kinky or vanilla)
honesty respect careing loyalty