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Looking for friendship and advice as someone new to D/s. I have a Dom, and am not interested in finding another one.
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Not interested in sharing my desires and fantasies.
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Just wanted to thank everyone who commented on my post.
having only done vanilla relationships til now I’m still getting used to the idea that I can talk to Him about what’s going on in my head. But talk to him I did and very reassuring it was.
we met yesterday and I’m feeling much happier. Ldrs Read more… are hard, but worth it. I ache all over today, in a good way, and I’ll be getting my collar soon
Absolutely.
The remote arrived today so we took it for a test drive.
I highly recommend it though I think he enjoyed it a little bit too much 😉. The sensation is great but also the connection knowing he was able to play with me through the vibrator and control my orgasm. I’d been feeling a bit down but after Read more… an hour playing this evening I feel much happier and my cheeks are rosy too.
Thanks everyone, your comments are really helpful.
This is my first D/s relationship but it feels like what I’ve been missing my whole life.
We chat every day, send each other photos, he gives me tasks sometimes, or tells me what to do when I masturbate. We’ve met three times and yes it’s super intense; we are both separated with kids and very busy jobs so it’s hard to find time.
Ive also ordered a remote vibrator so looking forward to Read more… trying that out.
But I miss being with him in real life; just need to keep busy I guess.
How do other people cope with ldrs? I’m mostly fine but every now and then really struggle with missing him and needing that intensity.
TIA for any thoughts or advice.
having only done vanilla relationships til now I’m still getting used to the idea that I can talk to Him about what’s going on in my head. But talk to him I did and very reassuring it was.
we met yesterday and I’m feeling much happier. Ldrs are hard, but worth it. I ache all over today, in a good way, and I’ll be getting my collar soon Just wanted to thank everyone who commented on my post.
having only done vanilla relationships til now I’m still getting used to the idea that I can talk to Him about what’s going on in my head. But talk to him I did and very reassuring it was.
we met yesterday and I’m feeling much happier. Ldrs are hard, but worth it. I ache all over today, in a good way, and I’ll be getting my collar soon
Ldrs are much more emotionally and mentally challenging for those involved in comparison to rlrs and take lots of commitment and Read more… communication to surpass the hardest moments of separation where the intensity of loss is very apparent and sometimes overwhelming.
That being said, I know firsthand the rewards that comes with that 'goal' being realised and the happiness it affords and I can only wish Y/you A/all very blessed paths within the journeys you make and the paths you take ❤❤
Moving wasn’t an option for either of us because of family commitments and our work.
The worst time for me was two or three days after I got home when I’d hit a low. Watching the marks on my body Read more… from a whipping or caning as they were fading away really made me miss her. Those were the days when a surprise message, photo or even a card waiting for me when i got home from work would help a lot.
She would give me tasks to keep me occupied, especially at weekends and I’d have to provide photo or video evidence that they’d been completed to her satisfaction.
Phone calls when we could. Even if it was just a quick call at night to make sure I was behaving myself. Or to give me the time for her morning alarm call which I daren’t miss.
There was a lot of planning ahead, coordinating leave from work so we could get long weekends/weeks together. Look forward to those times and make them count.
You just push through and make it work if that’s what you both want.
I’ll just add that it wasn’t the distance that caused us to separate in the end.
Truly hope it all works out for you. x