Secondtimearound ➦Secondtimearound quote Morganna:❝Ah I know but sometimes feeding the trolls is fun when the other option is housework 🤣❞
I do love finding a troll. If you feed them and look after them you can play with them for weeks. Xx ➦Secondtimearound quote Morganna:❝Ah I know but sometimes feeding the trolls is fun when the other option is housework 🤣❞
I do love finding a troll. If you feed them and look after them you can play with them for weeks. Xx

Jimmmy Well I HAVE met up with people on this site AND I’ve had fun AND I’ve got what I’ve been wanting or looking for. But it takes time and effort. Maybe too much.
I’ll tell you no lies, it can be much easier to meet up with like minded people on some other sites I’ve used, but beware, the quality of Read more… the people you can meet may be inferior to those here. I don’t mean that in a rude way, but those on here tend to be more “niche” in their wants and needs, more selective. You’ll not find a quick shag on here. That’s not what this site is about.
I view this site as a good place to chat to others who are very seriously into “the lifestyle”, ie BDSM , and in particular the whole Dom / Sub dynamic.
I get all that but my thing is more about DOING fun stuff, rather than endlessly discussing and analysing it, and there’s never ending discussion and in depth analysis of just about everything on here!
I recently met up with someone from another site. Very little chat and discussion preceded one of the most mind blowing fun sessions I’d had in years. All within an hour or two of first contact. It’s all about the chemistry and if you just click, you just click!
Sometimes it does seem that there are very few real people on here. We are here, but you do have to look hard to find us amid the dross…

smeagol It takes time to build up trust and getting to know people.
Personally I have met several off here r/l and made many friends im in contact with on an almost daily basis.
There is no quick fix, it takes time and effort, if your not willing to bide your time, contribute and get your name known, Read more… your not going to go anywhere fast, sorry.
Few tips, apart from it takes time:-
Try and contribute to forums, ask questions or even answer some that you may like to answer.
Chatrooms are not the be and end all, as stated it has it's core of regulars, but it does help. There are far more who trawl through the forums.
Try logging on Thursday nights at 20:00 GMY to the "Quarantine Munch" room, a set topic discusses each week. It only opens at that set time each week ....im not sure if there is another one at a more convenient time for our American Fet friends, but im sure someone will answer that one for me.
There is also "Place an Ad" for what your looking for option, in the hope something catches someone's eye.
I do strongly recommended above all, see any listings for convenient "Munches" in or near your area, safe non kink meeting places to meet up, chat with other likeminded people, plus it helps others start to trust you more over time.
But be patient, being too eager sends out the wrong vibes and does scare people off.
Iv'e been in the scene on and off for 340 years, teh same advice needed to be applied then as it does now.
Feel free to ask questions in any of teh forums, im sure people will be more than willing to answer questions
Hope this helps you.