And as if to prove this point entirely.
Replied to a message politely.
Obviously not compatible.
Said as much … again nicely.
And get a final message of:
"Haha fake bitch"
*sighs and rolls eyes*

I just read that, it seems we are on the same page. Good to hear your perspective. You sound like one of the good 'guys'

It's always interesting to hear from the other side (so to speak) … I can imagine that is extremely frustrating.
Time is precious so to have it wasted must hurt.
But likewise, Dom's pushing for more then a sub is happy to give (at that time) is a red flag, for me at least …
Dynamics take time if Read more… they are going to work in the long term. But then I guess it's what each party wants out of the experience.

I know that there are some Doms/Dommes that state they have been let down/led on by fake subs. (I have no idea how true this is, maybe some Dominants here can attest to it).
However from my experience those that cry, 'youre wasting my time' aren't true Doms, but merely want a quick fix (often Read more… sexual) and aren't at all interested in the subs feelings or needs for time to trust the dynamic.
It sounds like you got out of a potentially harmful situation, don't beat yourself up (pun intended!) *smiles*

I'm sorry but that sure doesn't sound like a Dom to me.
God it makes me so cross when 'people' (I won't say men) use the BDSM tag to abuse others.
Limits should always be respected (and that's by both sides of the slash). I've had 'Doms' ask about my limits and in the next breath try to dissuade Read more… me out of them. PASS!!
Sorry for you experience, I hope you can heal in time.

Although your sentiment is well intentioned, this is by no way a men only issue. I have Domme friends who are hassled equally by women.