-My respect is earned, not given. Same goes for my trust, if You break my trust, you have better luck winning the mega millions than earning it back.
-Don't just assume I'm willing to submit. I need to trust you first. Plus, I'm starting to realize I may be a switch, as I usually can't stand when people try to Dom me.
-I'm new to the lifestyle, but I've been interested since I found porn.
-Just because I'm new, doesn't mean I'm not aware of the difference between BDSM and abuse.
-I can be very shy and timid, but I'll still tell you off, if need be.
-I do have some confidence and self-esteem issues, as does everyone else.
-I don't need, nor do I crave, your approval. Or anyone else's.