Polyamorous, heteroflexible, switch (mostly sub) masochist with 20+ years in the Ls. Currently live with a nesting partner. I have 2 D/s dynamics at this time: D/s with my nesting partner, and Protector to my former submissive.
I love the bdsm lifestyle and the polyamorous lifestyle. I prefer mental connection with play partners and both mental amd emotional connection as well as compatibility with potential long term partners.
It should go without saying but in both bdsm and polyamory, honesty, trust and communication are foundational and for me, NON-NEGOTIABLE.
In every day life, I am a single mom, I work full time, I am actively planning to move to Alaska and make that my home base. I am insatiably curious, so I have a wide variety of interests, even some that might surprise you. Politically, I am a mix of Constitutionalist, Tea Partier and Anarchist with elements of both the conservative and liberal. I despise bullies, close mindedness, racism/discrimination/prejudice/misoginy, hubris, entitlement and whining.
If my words resonate with you, please do hit me up. I'm down for friendship, networking, knowledge exchange, meet n greets and play.