About me
I’m looking for:
- Kinky Dates
- LTR (relationship)
- BDSM Lovers
Description
I am a 57 yr old single Daddy Dom with 24 years of experience, very loving,caring, passionate and protective
Yet I do have a strong hand when needed and love lots of playtime, commitment, loyalty and trust
I do have poly tendencies and looking for the right dynamic with one or two special poly submissive women or I will also accept a Friends with benefits relationship. I EXPECT OPEN HONEST DAILY COMMUNICATION DO NOT GHOST ME OR YOU WILL BE BLOCKED! That is one thing that I do not tolerate is being ghosted! If you disappear for days I take that as you not being serious!
Limits
bad attitudes, ghosting, , , long distance relationships I do not do must be here in Iowa.
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- 24/7
- Anal Sex
- Anonymous Sex
- BDSM
- BDSM Collar
- Bondage Stocks
- Bondage
- Bondage Bed
- Bondage Cuffs
- Bondage Rope
- Chains
- Cuddling
- Cunnilingus
- Dildos
- Dirty Talk
- Domination
- Threesomes
- Violet Wand
- Erotic Film
- Restraints
- FFM Threesome
- Fingering
- Fisting
- Foreplay
- Handjobs
- Kinky Sex
- Kissing
- Massage
- Masturbation
- Multiple Orgasms
- Mutual Masturbation
- Nipple Clamps
- Oral Sex
- Pee Desperation
- Phone Sex
- Plus-Size Women
- Polyamory
- Porn
- Adult Movie Theater
- Quickies
- Shaving Fetish
- Sex at Work
- Car Sex
- Outdoor Sex
- Sex at the Movies
- Swimming Pool Sex
- Sex In Bed
- Shower Sex
- Sauna Sex
- Younger Sex Partners
- Spanking
- Trans Man
- Trans Woman
- Vibrators
- Wax Play
- Wand Massager
- Whips
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Yet I do have a strong hand when needed and love lots of playtime, commitment, loyalty and trust
I do have poly tendencies and looking for the right dynamic with one or two special poly Read more… submissive women or I will also accept a Friends with benefits relationship. I EXPECT OPEN HONEST DAILY COMMUNICATION DO NOT GHOST ME OR YOU WILL BE BLOCKED! That is one thing that I do not tolerate is being ghosted! If you disappear for days I take that as you not being serious!
Yes I am loving, caring, and protective kind of Daddy and I want the very best for any girl who decides to be in my life. I have desires I have needs I have once that need fulfilled on a daily regular basis and that's what I expect along with Read more… everything else it falls into place with a true loving relationship
To the girl who wants to be in my life, You Will be Loved You will be respected you will be cherished daily and be giving guidance direction love and so much more. Everything that I am stating are facts and true to heart I just want to be seen I want to be heard I want to have daily communication because it's all or nothing with me.
The biggest red flag for Me is being ghosted by a person you are trying to get to know.
If I show true genuine interest it means that I am seriously wanting to get to know the person I am talking with. And when that person ignores and ghosts my messages that's me is disrespectful it Read more… shows that you have no true genuine interest in anything.
When that happens it upsets me greatly to the point I will just block people for ghosting because I have zero patients zero tolerance for that.
So all I'm asking is please do not ever ghost or ignore anyone. Respectful be kind and courteous
I'm going to say this again rejection hurts especially when your emotionally invested into a relationship and then come to find out the other person never truly was emotionally invested that she led on to be.
So again with me it's All or nothing at All because I will not be rejected and I will not Read more… be played
The feeling of being hurt being empty is not pleasant and I'm tired of it happening.
As a loving daddy Dom yes I do have a lot of love to give but I'm only going to be giving it to one person.
I was a part of the swing lifestyle in the early 2000s while I was living in Minnesota. I enjoyed it up until I encountered a lot of backstabbing and being disrespected so I left and never looked back because I'm also a part of the kink community and have been since 2001. There were certain parts Read more… of being in the swing lifestyle that I really did enjoy and if I could form a good solid FWB relationship with the right woman I would be very happy.
And a couple swapping yeah is good when you were part of a couple but when you were a single male it's kind of hard to do.
I just got done commenting on one of the posts that I put up about being poly compared to being a swinger. After what I thought was going to be good turn to disappointment and emptiness now because I'm the one that got rejected has left me with a bitter feeling an uncertainty.
I actually rejected Read more… one woman today due to her thinking I was a sugar daddy and was going to pay her for her time spent with me and I flat out told her that is not going to happen because I am not a sugar daddy. I may be a loving daddy Dom but that does not mean I'm going to pay anyone for their time.
Must be somewhat local to my area to be able to spend quality time Read more… together on a regular basis.
Since I wrote this things have changed for me. What I thought was going to be something good having a poly relationship ended in my girl not being honest with me about her no longer being attracted to me sexually and just wanted to be with others. Then we had a second one here who claims she wanted Read more… to be with me but split off with the one she was with and then claimed that she was all mine completely but had mental issues that she needed to fix and then proceeded to go back to the Dom she was with. So now that leaves me completely alone and totally empty! I'm not sure if I ever want to try it again at this point, I'm a very loving daddy dominant and I know that I want more than anything to have one loving baby girl in my life whether I find her is a question now. Back in the day it was a swinger up until I encountered too much backstabbing and too faced people so I left that lifestyle and thought I had found the right way of life for me but right now I am uncertain.
I see too much of this happening in the community and if you cannot commit to communication things will never work for it is all or nothing with me.
As a Dominant whether you are on the extreme side of things or if you're on the more lighter side being a daddy Dom, when you have pent up frustrations and emotions and not having a way of releasing those frustrations and emotions how do Read more…you handle this?
This primarily goes out to the single Doms who do not have a submissive or slave in their lives to turn to to help them achieve the release that is needed.
As a daddy Dom who is live this way of life for the past 24 years, and being single and not having a good submissive in my life full time takes a toll on my emotional - mental - physical wellbeing without having an outlet is what causes the frustrations.
This is a genuine concern and a genuine topic that should be talked about, for I know that there are Doms out there who have no cares for emotions or frustrations and there are also people in this way of life who disregard people feelings and emotions and that needs to also be addressed.
This is a discussion that should always take place no matter who or what you are
Not everything is about you. If you can't handle comments to a post which you aren't the OP of, made after you commented, not Read more… being about; you should stay off every kind of forum.❞
Maybe I’m not understanding what you are talking about because it seemed to be related to a comment I made about letting her take frustrations out on me I was just clarifying my previous comment to you and I could have missed a reply you did to someone else because I let my dominant take out some of her frustrations on me because it’s the***utic to both of us clearly you’re statement showed some issue with how we handle our own dynamic and i get that you felt it was a generalized response but it was related to my own comment you can respond to someone even if you don’t tag their name
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