I am not interested in one time hookups. I'm looking for a dominant man who takes control in the bedroom and allows me to let myself go and submit. I'm a strong, independent big beautiful woman who is in charge in her every day life most of the time. I don't want to be in charge during play time. I want a man to stimulate not only my body but also my mind. And to those interested at this point, please also know just because I like to be dominated does not mean I don't demand respect, and doesn't mean I want to be treated like a doormat or a piece of meat.