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Status

Not single

D/s relationship with Ask me

Personal details

Gender Woman
Age 38
Status Not single
Height 160cm
Weight 73kg
Body shape Average build
Eye colour Brown
Hair colour Black
Hair length Long
Orientation Straight
Breast size D
Zodiac sign Cancer
Glasses
Tattoos
Piercings

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

  • Friends
  • Networking

Description

About me
I am owned.


The Vanilla stuff: average hard working, blue collar girl. My profession puts me in a very dominant position that sometimes becomes physical. It’s violent at times and stressful; I handle it with class, grace, and a bit of crass when needed.

Most describe me as vibrant, intelligent, kind and funny. I love witty repartee, music and food. If you’re able to combine the three you’ll have me eating out of the palm of your hand ;)

I’m very open and communicative, as my position requires me to be verbal at all times. I’ve always been told I’m easy to talk to.

BDSM and me
New to the scene and exploring, the majority (not all) of my experience has been online. I’d prefer to keep it that way while I familiarize myself with dos and donts, safety, protocol.

Intrinsically, I’m a classic sub (not a slave or switch), however I do have a tendency to come across as a brat due to my sassiness/playfulness. If you can’t handle that, or you’re not playful, I’m NOT for you.

Sadists move on. While I enjoy some impact play, I do not enjoy prolonged periods of pain.

I am, however, a rope bunny. I also enjoy sensory depravation, temperature and role play to name a few.

There are a lot of things I have not checked off or don’t have an opinion on yet but I am game to have my boundaries (safely) pushed.

Limits
Sir knows them.

What's new
If you’re one of those that ghosts or can’t be bothered with the responsibility, you can skip. I don’t have time for that shit.


RULES OF ENGAGEMENT

If you’re going to contact me, be aware that I will block you if you demand I do things or talk to me disrespectfully. I will also laugh at you. And while I may be new, I am not naive; do not confuse the two- I will see right through your bs- and call you on it. I am a sub yes, but I am still a lady. Please be respectful. Because if you’re not, I won’t be either- and I’m better at it than you are. I deal in disrespect to pay my bills... and I make a good living.

Desires and Fantasies
If you ask, with a bit of luck, I might just tell you.

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  • 15.05.2020 5:51:41
  • Female (38)
  • Ossining
  • Not single
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  • 05.06.2019 5:25:48
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  • 05.06.2019 5:25:48
  • Female (38)
  • Ossining
  • Not single
About me
I am owned.


The Vanilla stuff: average hard working, blue collar girl. My profession puts me in a very dominant position that sometimes becomes physical. It’s violent at times and stressful; I handle it with class, grace, and a bit of crass when needed.

Most describe me as vibrant, Read more… intelligent, kind and funny. I love witty repartee, music and food. If you’re able to combine the three you’ll have me eating out of the palm of your hand ;)

I’m very open and communicative, as my position requires me to be verbal at all times. I’ve always been told I’m easy to talk to.

BDSM and me
New to the scene and exploring, the majority (not all) of my experience has been online. I’d prefer to keep it that way while I familiarize myself with dos and donts, safety, protocol.

Intrinsically, I’m a classic sub (not a slave or switch), however I do have a tendency to come across as a brat due to my sassiness/playfulness. If you can’t handle that, or you’re not playful, I’m NOT for you.

Sadists move on. While I enjoy some impact play, I do not enjoy prolonged periods of pain.

I am, however, a rope bunny. I also enjoy sensory depravation, temperature and role play to name a few.

There are a lot of things I have not checked off or don’t have an opinion on yet but I am game to have my boundaries (safely) pushed.

Limits
Sir knows them.

What's new
If you’re one of those that ghosts or can’t be bothered with the responsibility, you can skip. I don’t have time for that shit.


RULES OF ENGAGEMENT

If you’re going to contact me, be aware that I will block you if you demand I do things or talk to me disrespectfully. I will also laugh at you. And while I may be new, I am not naive; do not confuse the two- I will see right through your bs- and call you on it. I am a sub yes, but I am still a lady. Please be respectful. Because if you’re not, I won’t be either- and I’m better at it than you are. I deal in disrespect to pay my bills... and I make a good living.
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Little Help
Hi all! Brand new sub (rope bunny/ bit of a brat but not too bad lol) and new to the scene. I was lucky enough to find a wonderful, experienced Dom (that all I wanna do is please). Just looking for tips and tricks to make my Sir happy... I’ve been reading and doing homework. But I’d like some personal opinions. TIA
MissTillysue
MissTillysue I would think what would make your Sir happy is for you to take the time and trouble to find out and understand what makes him tick. I'm afraid it is trial and error mostly but little things usually mean the most, thngs like making sure he has a drink when he wants one, making him snacks, bringing his slippers if he wears them, just generally being attentive to his needs I would think what would make your Sir happy is for you to take the time and trouble to find out and understand what makes him tick. I'm afraid it is trial and error mostly but little things usually mean the most, thngs like making sure he has a drink when he wants one, making him snacks, bringing his slippers if he wears them, just generally being attentive to his needs
Likedutchess914 · 15.03.2019 13:50:48
Deleted profile agree with eyemblacksheep, its a personal agenda. You must had some conversations with your Dom before accepting him, knowing what he likes. He also must have told you what to expect from you?
we dont know what kind of relationship or dynamic is between you two? is it daytime or only in the bedroom, sexual non sexual, just ropes play? its too vague and too big to think there is some sort of conventional way to behave with Doms.
But its good intention to ask... agree with eyemblacksheep, its a personal agenda. You must had some conversations with your Dom before accepting him, knowing what he likes. He also must have told you what to expect from you?
we dont know what kind of relationship or dynamic is between you two? is it daytime or only in the bedroom, sexual non sexual, just ropes play? its too vague and too big to think there is some sort of conventional way to behave with Doms.
But its good intention to ask...
Likedutchess914 15.03.2019 0:37:30
eyemblacksheep
eyemblacksheep to a degree - I kinda hate saying this... but, different things make different people happy. So, there's no hard and fast answer.
I think if someone was trying to make me happy then things could include surprising me to wish me a good day, getting me gifts or making sure I have a drink when I DJ. Read more… It could be understanding my fetishes and how I get off on them, which could include subtle acts - turning up to somewhere I'm DJing or at, walking around barefoot and then offering their feet for my pleasure.
But, this will be totally different to someone else.
LikeMissTillysue, dutchess914 · 14.03.2019 8:04:54
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