My fetishes and fantasies seem rather tame compared to many. However, I'll try to explain them and hopefully some of you will get what i mean and maybe want to be friends with me.
I'm 38 and live near Manchester. I have 3 main fetishes, though even these are all intertwined with each other and are rather specific. they are, in no particular order....

Short bobbed hair
Smart, conservative clothing (specifically crisp white shirts or blouses worn with a floppy bow or a tie)
Submission.

My ideal scenario would be to meet a man who is (obviously) fabulous and lovely but who is also just as obcessed with bobbed hair and smart clothes as me and who is also dominant, so he would absolutely insist on keeping me bobbed short and dressed smartly at all times. As this would be somewhat of a life-changing experience i am under no illusions that this would take a fair bit of training, management and control if he is to make me look perfect for him. This would mean that it would be a sub/dom relationship and that he would be my master aswell as my boyfriend and as such my appearance and behaviour should give him pleasure.
As such I would expect to be punished if I displeased him. This could include relatively light restraint and restriction, posture control, spanking, public humiliation and punishment haircuts (though nothing shorter than a very short bob. Anything shorter and I just get turned off - I know, fussy aren't I?)
I am not into anything brutal or cruel and certainly not anything to do with bodily fluids and anything too extreme.
I hope this interests some of you and that you would be interested in getting to know me. Thanks for reading this and hope to hear from you soon!