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Personal details

Gender Man
Age 54
Status Single
Height 174cm
Weight 79kg
Body shape Athletic
Eye colour Green
Beard Shaved/no beard
Orientation Straight
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin UK
Pubic Hair Natural
Circumcised No
Zodiac sign Scorpio
Glasses
Smoker
Tattoos
Piercings

About me

Interested in:

I’m looking for:

Description

I've been encouraged and enabled to explore my Dom side.
I have also discovered ropes and Shibari - I have really enjoyed creating art with the combination of skin and rope and would love to practice more. I don't expect that anyone will want to hook up after a couple of messages and get into naked or highly sexualised bondage with me on the first date - I'mhappy to talk, develop understanding and trust and explore simple patterns and ropework fully clothed, I genuinely want to explore this as an artform and would like to be able to explore with a partner.
That's not to say I haven't also enjoyed more dominant rope work as well.
I consider myself respectful and find the trust placed in me to be a special gift that when well used is very rewarding for us both.

Limits

Always respectful ... your limits are my limits, but let's see how far we can go together

My roles & archetype

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Fathership
icon-wio Fathership wrote something in the forum
  • 11.07.2025 23:01:57
  • Male (54)
  • Hastings
  • Single
Look at me all of me

Love it! You be you and be beautiful too!

Fathership
icon-wio Fathership wrote something in the forum
  • 04.07.2025 11:36:29
  • Male (54)
  • Hastings
  • Single
Crave……

Nice work! A pixie with cravings, that is a fairytale looking for a happy ending!

Fathership
icon-wio Fathership wrote something in the forum
  • 01.07.2025 13:34:55
  • Male (54)
  • Hastings
  • Single
Whispers of Woe..

That's powerful! Thanks for sharing.

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Fathership
icon-wio Fathership created a topic in BDSM Stories & Kinky Sex Confessions
Controlled loss of Control
This is the companion poem to "Submission doesn't mean subjected" that I posted earlier.
an attempt at telling the same tale from the other viewpoint
Controlled loss of Control:
You didn’t take control
I gave it
You knew me as a whole
I craved it
I trusted you would know
How to feel the ebb Read more…and flow
Of power between us two
And the role I give to you
And so you took control
Of the aching in my soul
Knew the way to touch my skin
To set free the woman trapped within
For what I need from you
The things I wanted you to do
Were hard to say aloud
I thought they weren’t allowed
But when you are in charge
It somehow feels less hard
To let go my inhibition
To trust your intuition
This act of my submission
Giving you permission
To give in to your desires
Because they light my fires
And you satisfy my soul
With a controlled loss of control!
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jefferson71419
jefferson71419 😍 😍
LikeFathership · 28.06.2025 9:19:50
Fathership
icon-wio Fathership wrote something in the forum
  • 24.06.2025 1:47:30
  • Male (54)
  • Hastings
  • Single
How do you deal with a "Ghost"?

Without communication there is no respect, and without respect you don't have trust. In my view, without those three things you dont have a relationship, you have a user and the used, an ***r and the ***d.

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Fathership
icon-wio Fathership wrote something in the forum
  • 23.06.2025 12:47:16
  • Male (54)
  • Hastings
  • Single
An insight

That is really great, thanks for sharing!
Welcome to the Fet publishing community!

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Fathership
icon-wio Fathership has bought a Premium-membership!
  • 23.06.2025 9:13:20
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  • Hastings
  • Single
Fathership
icon-wio Fathership wrote something in the forum
  • 22.06.2025 14:31:27
  • Male (54)
  • Hastings
  • Single
Submission doesn't mean subjected

Thanks! I appreciate the support and the feedback.
I acknowledge it's a word slightly out of step with the rest of the message, I was trying for a little shock and also to to subvert the word. I guess I got halfway there!

Fathership
icon-wio Fathership wrote something in the forum
  • 22.06.2025 11:05:15
  • Male (54)
  • Hastings
  • Single
Fathership
icon-wio Fathership created a topic in BDSM Stories & Kinky Sex Confessions
Submission doesn't mean subjected
I have never felt the need,
To ha*rm your flesh, to make you bl*eed,
To bite deep enough to leave a scar
To me that feels a step too far.
The bindings are to help express
You are a thing of beauty I’d possess.
To hold you, keep you, make you mine
Your gift to me as we entwine
To tie you Read more…down while at my leisure
I explore the things that give you pleasure.
To make of you my willing whore
To make you moan and writhe and more.
By far the strongest chains that bind
Are the links crafted, mind to mind.
And as you give yourself to me
Reciprocal, I give myself to thee.
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PrincessLu80
PrincessLu80 This was so beautifully done! I absolutely love it 💞 This was so beautifully done! I absolutely love it 💞
LikeFathership · 23.06.2025 1:50:17
fort-waynelabia
fort-waynelabia ➦fort-waynelabia quote Fathership:❝Thanks! I appreciate the support and the feedback.
I acknowledge it's a word slightly out of step with the rest of the message, I was trying for a little shock and also to to subvert the word. I guess I got halfway there! ❞
Hey it’s what works for you and that’s all that matters. I don’t like derogatory words but that’s just me. You write well. ➦fort-waynelabia quote Fathership:❝Thanks! I appreciate the support and the feedback.
I acknowledge it's a word slightly out of step with the rest of the message, I was trying for a little shock and also to to subvert the word. I guess I got halfway there! ❞
Hey it’s what works for you and that’s all that matters. I don’t like derogatory words but that’s just me. You write well.
LikeFathership · 22.06.2025 14:36:07
Fathership
Fathership ➦Fathership quote fort-waynelabia:❝Well said! Love it (except the “whore” word) great expressions hun❞
Thanks! I appreciate the support and the feedback.
I acknowledge it's a word slightly out of step with the rest of the message, I was trying for a little shock and also to to subvert the word. I guess I got halfway there! ➦Fathership quote fort-waynelabia:❝Well said! Love it (except the “whore” word) great expressions hun❞
Thanks! I appreciate the support and the feedback.
I acknowledge it's a word slightly out of step with the rest of the message, I was trying for a little shock and also to to subvert the word. I guess I got halfway there!
Like · 22.06.2025 14:31:27
Fathership
icon-wio Fathership wrote something in the forum
  • 22.06.2025 9:28:29
  • Male (54)
  • Hastings
  • Single
Poetry

I really like this! Great work!

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Fathership
icon-wio Fathership wrote something in the forum
  • 20.06.2025 4:16:23
  • Male (54)
  • Hastings
  • Single
TRUE COLORS TREASURE HUNT

Clue for #11 ... Only tools don't follow the #####

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Fathership
icon-wio Fathership created a topic in BDSM Stories & Kinky Sex Confessions
Everyone needs a good sub
Another collaboration with the wonderful @PixieDust.
We hope you guys have as much fun reading this as we had writing it and it gives you a laugh or a smile!
(Smiles and laughs are like long distance hugs ... giving and receiving them makes everyone feel better!)
Everyone needs a good sub
With Read more…one mighty thrust, I threw the front doors wide
Summoning all my confidence I strode inside.
I was a man, a man on a mission
I will take this wench into submission!
Her eye met mine, she knew her task
There was one question that she had to ask.
She looked at me, my posture strong,
Asked breathlessly – “six inch, or a foot-long?”
“A foot-long”, she gasps with joy and with glee,
“I will gobble that up as he kindly serves me!”
She unwraps my wrapper and to her delight
It was meatballs and sausage, oh what a bite.
Her Subway was more than just a w*ee meal
It was sex on malted grain and whole-meal.
Layers and layers of sweet fleshy meat
Oh my, what a delectable treat.
Hungrily she presses my meal to her mouth
Lips on my sausage she heads quickly south.
The feast is soon over, she looks up with a grin
As she wipes the last of my sauce off her chin!
Thank you, kind Sir, I enjoyed your meat treat,
Her Subway submission was now complete.
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staticglitch
staticglitch Why did you guys end it too soon? The story deserved more linger and buildup Why did you guys end it too soon? The story deserved more linger and buildup
LikePixieDust · 04.07.2025 13:11:57
BratWorst
BratWorst Genuine chuckles. Thanks both 😂 Genuine chuckles. Thanks both 😂
LikePixieDust, Fathership · 22.06.2025 21:58:19
Masterwilkie
Masterwilkie Yes, such a good laugh, clever stuff, well done you two Yes, such a good laugh, clever stuff, well done you two
LikePixieDust, Fathership · 22.06.2025 12:11:41
Fathership
icon-wio Fathership wrote something in the forum
  • 18.06.2025 13:36:12
  • Male (54)
  • Hastings
  • Single
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Fathership
icon-wio Fathership wrote something in the forum
  • 18.06.2025 13:35:57
  • Male (54)
  • Hastings
  • Single
Two quickies, just for fun!

thanks! Glad you like it. Ideas, inspiration and requests for the next effort are welcomed!